Originally posted by: Roop_P
Originally posted by Motif_Soul
Wonderful analysis
Here,I wanted to discuss my opinions of Arnav's feelings. I personally think that Arnav was afraid to let himself love her for obvious reasons for a long time, even though he fell in love with her instantly. She was a middle-class girl with enormous spunk and a passion for life, whereas he was ruthless Arnav Singh Raizada had the opposite... After a time, he began to feel that he may have some feelings towards Khushi; he just didn't want to admit that those feelings were love or exist because of his beliefs. I think his relationship with Lavanya helped him try to cover up, or maybe he thought she didn't love him back. I think Arnav's anger comes out when he is offended by Khushi. This is seen in many scenes, but the one I can remember the best is when she shows no effect after he rejects that kiss during diwali, then during her not accepting any feelings afterwards, rejecting him in the temple after that finger bleeding etc, but when she tells him that she is engaged, he was enraged... I think he has always been afraid to express his love in case that Khushi doesn't love him back.
Khushi didn't fall at his feet like most people do, and she even pointed out his faults most of the time. I think he was angrier about the fact that Khushi "cheated" him, not his sister, by being with Shyam. He was offended after he believed Khushi loved him. He was about to admit his love for her after all...I think it's his fault. He's afraid she won't love him, and he pushes her away when in fact, his pushing her away is what causes her not to love him.
Originally posted by Mysticaldivine
Beliefs, hmm! Maybe
I think he was carrying fears of embracing love. First, he didn't know it was love; the same goes with Khushi, She has her side of some fears and reasons, and those make sense; she was a small-town sheltered girl who had envisioned love, and all after being married. While ASR was a small child who grew up with these fears of love, being loved, or loving someone, he couldn't breathe or invest so much in one person like this that he was unable to focus and sleep. That was irritating the hell out of him. It made him angry, which took him a while to overcome.
When he was ready, all of his fears which he tucked under the blanket before moving out, surfaced up seeing her cheating. At least, that was what he thought at that moment.
Well said M, Z, and Mehr👏
So, why do we hurt the ones we love? Often, it's because we're scared of losing them. Our bad behaviour is a desperate attempt to try and reconnect with them. But bad behaviour doesn't forge connections; it weakens them.
To satisfy our need for connection, vulnerability plays a role instead. Being vulnerable allows us to form healthier connections with those around us and that was what Anjali was telling him and instantly he walked to Khushi to tell her why does this all matter what he couldn't give answer before after so many attempts. But here he saw her in Shyam's arms.
Bam!
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