Feel Sad for Vanraj

Who else agrees, his dialogues about Manhood and about duties can show his struggles

every father does for children 

every husband does for wife

that does not mean they start threatening and abusing wife and treating woman cheaply be it anupam aor kavya or even mukku 

its karma he did not call anu in toshu engagement 

so hes missing or may come late for kinjal godh baraai 

nowadays woman also work equal and earn in lakhs 

woman do not abuse husband mostly even if he does not work or earn less than her 

instead most successful woman give up career and earning when hubby get transferred to another city or country to be with him 

woman give up career for kids sake hubby sake even if they are BE or MBA or CA or PHD

no man does that give up his career  in life even in USA or europe the most modern societys of world where men woman are treated most equally

no man will transfer his job to wife location or give up career for kids eve in USA forget asia or india which is very patriachial and wife has to give up everything for hubby career 

Take case of aishwarya rai most successful person gave up career and taking care of kid when she can earn in crores bec her hubby himself says my wife said you are man of house go work i will take care of house and kids 

this is all crocodile tears shed by men to justify dominating over wife and sisters and kids(mainly woman of house be it sister daughter or wifes)  to have their ways 

Why only mother is kept on pedestal by men why not a sister or wife? Why all their dreams and desire are coming second over husband or brothers desires

If a family can send a child abroad they send son male child not girl no matter how good in sttudy she is 

If a family has money to pay tution for only one child th boy is sent not sister to tutions 

If a family has money only to send one child to college brother is sent not sister (in anupama its wrongly shown that vanraj worked and dolly studied everywhere i see in india girl is sent to work brothers go to college if financial crisis

Best part is father mother and brothers act as if sister or daughter not worked or brought them up. If son is even USA and not sending one pie but sister taking care of parents home expense parents potray as if money given by son not daughter to others to show off their false prestige. In india nowadays daughters only sponsor parents after old age all expenses be it punjab or kerala but parents not ready to give credit to daughter they will act as is son gave all that money in front of family friends neighbours and relatives. No matter what son does his image is maintained nice in front of world like vanraj white wash by Shahs and anuj and devika going on. Same thing happens in real families too they hide sons all abuses faults whether he hits mother father or wife or sister its all hidden in society and good image potrayed to world. As son se vansha ka naam aage bad tha hai 

This vanraj shah is not only bad man to anupama or kavya and mukku his lovers and wives hes bad to his sister dolly how he put all property in his name etc and abuse her 

Usually in india if family in financial crisis sister will stop studying after 10th or 12th or degree and sponsor education of brothers and other siblings even if they are elder in age. I have never seen a family stopping sons education and sending him to work for financial crisis sister goes usually and sponsors education of brothers and takes care of parents. May be in very conservative family boys may be sent to work as sisters cannot go out of house till marraige but thats very less 10% of india or asia. Mostly mother or sister goes to work in finnacial crisis or daughters not brothers or sons. 

Me too. I emptied an entire tissue box after watching his monologue. 

Koi nahi vanraj is hero of show 

So makers will manage  hero of show to participate in godh bharai function . Makers apne hero ko godh bharai se door rahe aise kaise ho sakta, hai 

Muhhe ab  makers ki saari chaal ka patsi lag gaya, hai uske ghaat ghaat ka pani pee chuki hoon

Originally posted by: Starwatcher01

Who else agrees, his dialogues about Manhood and about duties can show his struggles

Maybe he should have remembered “ Mard ka dard “ when he was busy snatching AKs empire , gloating about making him “ bhikari “ and manipulating his emotionally vulnerable sister , in most disgusting manner !!!! 

He blames everyone and anything but himself. Maybe if he wasn't so busy scheming and plotting against others, he would have accomplished something by being productive. Mukku gave him 2 whole opportunities and he was ungrateful both times and continued to play mind games. It's a little hard to feel sorry for him. 🤔

Originally posted by: Starwatcher01

Who else agrees, his dialogues about Manhood and about duties can show his struggles

Although there is truth to it, Vanraj's char saying it makes one go - "look who's talking".🤔 TBH, that really nullifies the severity of the issue. 

If you take Vanraj out of the equation and generalize, it is true that a man's hardships/challenges may not be as vocalized as that of a woman, in cases of, for ex raising a child single handedly or choosing to be a stay-at-home dad. 

The society in general is yet to accept the unconventional role reversal and gender inclusion. This kind of change will take a long time to come about. May have already happened in cities, but deep rural pockets will take time to embarce the change. 

But, I feel that this show has gone over board with sending social messages to the extent that eveything looks fake and uncalled for.😳

Lol aise kapti mard ke dard ka kya kare jo Abhi thode time pehle apne bete ki age ki ladki ko emotional support dene ka drama kar ke kisi dusre ki property hadapne mai busy tha! 😆

Vanraj ka character flow aye din limit se bahar ka negative ho jata hai jo extremely unhealthy abnormal hota hai. Kavya rakhi and Barkha bhi kabhi itne abnormally unhealthy villains nahi bane jitna vanraj hai.

Vanraj ko pakka sharif admi 2 saal tak dikhao uske baad shayad uska kuch ho sakta hai ! 

Abhi toh vanraj ke liye bura lagna namumkin hai seeing his kands just few months back!

Problem is writer bhul jati hai ki just thode din pehle usne Vanraj ko kis level ka harami dikhaya tha onscreen but audience nahi bhulti hai 😆

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Although there is truth to it, Vanraj's char saying it makes one go - "look who's talking".🤔 TBH, that really nullifies the severity of the issue. 

If you take Vanraj out of the equation and generalize, it is true that a man's hardships/challenges may not be as vocalized as that of a woman, in cases of, for ex raising a child single handedly or choosing to be a stay-at-home dad. 

The society in general is yet to accept the unconventional role reversal and gender inclusion. This kind of change will take a long time to come about. May have already happened in cities, but deep rural pockets will take time to embarce the change. 

But, I feel that this show has gone over board with sending social messages to the extent that eveything looks fake and uncalled for.😳