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Barkha may be after anuj kapadia wealth and business but what she said is right today

In Maan 99% is anupama only 1% is anuj kapadia

Anupama does not respect or care for anuj kapdai forget as husband but as an human being too

Even friends and strangers opinion will get more value and ears from anupama than anuj kapdia

People like anuj kapadia in such a relationship may get frustrated and divorce after few years or they will fights or he will have extra marital relationship outside

When anupama bend so much to adjust to vanraj yet he hated her and loved kavya 9 years no way a rich US educated guy will bear with anupama shah tantrums

Our mothers are also married they do not do mayka jaaps like anupama or run everday to mayka

Anuj should stop calling Shahs anupam amayka its her ex sasural. Her mayka is where her mom and brother are. And anuj should tell her to go call mom home mayka not vanraj home.

Anupam aso clever start emotional drama to anuj saying should i hit vanraj should i abuse vanraj. After what he did to mukku any ex wife would have slapped and abused vanraj and never allowed him in mukkus home(anuj house is mukku mayka)

But looks like maykka is only for anupama(that to vanraj home is mayka not her own mom) other girls have no maykas etc

Hoestly after age of 13 years or 16 years no kid wants father mother hovering over them like an anupama does. They love to have freedom. If they do not get that they will find collee which is far from parents ome and leave. Too much piloting of kids life leads to disaster. Anupama piloted her kids from childhood what happened does anyone love her no not toshu not pakhi. May be samar loves her but hes not saved her from abuse only wiping tears. Hes never stood and questioned vanraj and baa bapuji about how his mom suffering. Everyone is quiet because they know that is vanraj home and if they speak he will kick them out of home so they compromise and never speak any wrong he does. Vanraj also knows that.

But but but anupama and shahs know that anuj kapdia is no vanraj shah he tends to please all especially anupama and shahs for his love. Hes a highly insecure human whose scared to lose anupama his college love. So all bossing over him and not listening or respecting him at his own home. Vanraj bapuji Baa and all shahs no they can use anuj kapdia however shout at him snatch his empire make ema with his sister yet this man shamelessly will go to their house and fall at their feets or hugfh his sister abuser. Imagine if they try same with vanraj or with his sister, no one wll dare as all are scared of vanraj and his warth. Without doing anything hes so revengeful vengeance filled. Who ever bends has to lie flat on floor is a famous poverb. Thats what happen to anuj kapdia agian and again.

Anupama used to bend and shiver to vanraj because she know he will never bend to her. AAnupam aknows she need not bend to anuj kapdai so shes bossing him around and not listening to him even in front of all. This has sent a loud and clear message to barkah that anupam anever listen to anuj so she will use this in future.

Now same vanraj has started acting as if anuj house he is owner and head of family and started shouting at them too. Imagine is anuj mom dad there vanraj will be throw out by security or land in jail if he shouts like this to anyone in family. I doubt anuj father would allow his bahu ex hubby coming and shouting like this at his bahu or beta or relatives in front of him. He would get few slaps and security would be told to throw him out of gate. No mature human will take such nonsense behaviour in name of bahu mayka or even wife mayka(unlike anuj who has no spine). People who are pregnant fall on roads they trip or from scooters or in home etc that does not mean such drama created. I know a woman who tripped and fell in office had miscarriage her family did not come and create scene in office. The floor had coffee or something dropped who knows who dropped it but people do slip.

Why anupama wants her 3 kids to come to kapadia house and interact with sara and anikh barkha etc ? When she was alone in apartment no kid came to stay with her help her. Is it not because kapadias have bungalow and rich she wants her kids to come and interact with US educated sara and anikh. Same for pakhi she wants to go there not out of love of anu or anuj or out of love to cousin sara but she wants to marry anikh and stay in bungalow like hher mom all life. If pakhi toshu samar so loved mom go stay with her in apartment when vanraj threw her out of home a year back only. That time no one wanted anupama now all want. Samar and vanraj both are right its anuj kapdai bungalow thats attracting pakhi or toshu to be nice to anupama and anuj. If they were in 1bhk and poor none of her kids would bother about them both. Alas 90% people in world are like that only. They see designation, how big house is etc and talk accordingly in world and give respect. Sad but true

Barkha may be enemy of anuj kapadia but shes 100% right

In maan relations its 99% maan only 1% anuj

Honestly pakhi and barkha may look villan and gold diggers but they are most correct deceptions of humans with motives. Even vanraj and baa look normal humans but all others look too duplicate because they are too one sided and looks like they have no emotions feelings etc they forgive so much they have so much patience and react so unbelievable

The others look like caricature and duplicate in how they behave or talk.

That bapuji calling V as kid trying to santch toys is so funny. Vanraj has een spoilt by bapuji and baa only they are worst parents who keep quiet even if he has ema with anuj sister or another ema with another woman again. They mollify his ego and make him think all his criminal activity are right. But V is most correct potrayal of a narcissit manipulative human in todays world. So hes more relatable than an anuj or anupama. Like Barkha and pakhi hes most relatable human as we meet such humans in families neighbour hood and office.

I agree with you. Anupama needs to rethink about her priorities. She is prioritizing non trivial things and neglecting valuable things. Her top priority should be Anuj and then her widowed old mother. Her kids are grown up. They don't need her 24/7. And Anu is only concerned about Kinju baby not her other kids. Kinjal is pregnant not paralyzed. She has a husband and biological mother to take care of her. When kids grow up, your spouse should be your top priority.

Anuj is at fault too does he think if tell anupama not to go shsh house then anupama immediately follow his instructions . Shah hiuse is utter weakness of anupama. She has been connected to shah for 26 year

So is it easy to anupama to come out of weakness whiich she has for longest time

Please give anupama time to come out of weakness additicon ya weakness jo bhi kaho usme time lagta है

So anupama should be given time to come out of weakness or additiction

Anupama is mature use chote bache ki tarah batane ki jaroarat nshi है कि तुम yeh karo aur woh karo

Anupama is mature and mother of three children. Let anupama thinking herself what is right or wrong

Problem is anupama gets terrified of vanraj and he knows that

so he shouts at her as he knows she has no braveness to face him

but he never dares do such things with kavya because she will shout more and say home truths about him and his family in public

people know whom they can control and whom not

based on that they behave with humans

like vanraj knows both anupama and anuj will listen to him shouting so he shouts

imagine if someone like devika or mukku is there or kavya rakhi he knows they will shout him out and bring him dowbn on earth so he 80% of time avoids confrontation or humiliating them

yet since hes a narcissit person who loves controling others and having his way he even tries to sghout at these 4 but not as much as at anupama or anuj

people in world take advantage and humilate on those they know will not answer back or who may never take action or revenge in future for speaking badly with them the innocent good types

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anuj is at fault too does he think if tell anupama not to go shsh house then anupama immediately follow his instructions . Shah hiuse is utter weakness of anupama. She has been connected to shah for 26 year

So is it easy to anupama to come out of weakness whiich she has for longest time

Please give anupama time to come out of weakness additicon ya weakness jo bhi kaho usme time lagta है

So anupama should be given time to come out of weakness or additiction

Anupama is mature use chote bache ki tarah batane ki jaroarat nshi है कि तुम yeh karo aur woh karo

Anupama is mature and mother of three children. Let anupama thinking herself what is right or wrong

no anupama is 45 years but shes not mature

if she was mature by now she would handle vanraj like putty

in real life i have seen wives handle their abusive hubby more worst than vanrajs like putty tit for tats

shes her mind is stuill in 18 or 20 years old

by body some mature but not by mind actually

just because someone is mother of 3 adults they do not become mature or can understand or handle outside world or abusers like vanraj actually

all anupama can do is cry and give 5 panno bashan

but shes not mature to how to handle people tactically actually

shes not really mature

anuj also can only handle office and clients not family and relatives easily

he do not know how to handle abusive relatives like vanraj or toshu and pakhi tactically or barkha etc

anu do not know how to handle cliet or employees or relatives

only good ones bend to her as they are nice humans

I agreed with everything Barkha said today but I also kinda agreed with Sarah🤣Sorry🤣🤡.

Anupama can surely handle vanraj and in better way but anupama is not vanraj. Jitna neeche gir ke vanraj fight karta है उतना neeche gir ke anupama nahi baat kar sakti because anupama ka apna मेंटल standard alag. Anupama se sadak chaap ladaai nahi ladi jaati jaise vanraj shuru ho jaata है हर जगह सड़क चाप ladaai ladne mein

Waise bhi agar anupama bhi vanraj ki तरह aise लड़ने लग gayi to vanraj और anupama mein kya farak reh jaayega

So true.

Villains have just one goal and hence they are clear in their mind about priorities.

The leads are ALL good but are just very unclear and have no priorities. They know they are and need to be good. How, when, where? No idea.

Has Anuj reflected in his own life? He had a family and gave it ALL up to return to India. He met the love of his life and dedicated his life for her. He got distanced (for whatever reasons) from his baby sister and looks like from the remainder of his family barring GK.

What remains is Anupama and the Shahs?

Just goes to prove a point that Barkha - Ankush have had a struggling relation and may be Barkha had taken on more than she could bear. Ankush not contributing enough and Barkha feeling like she had to fight for 2 for everything.

The big blow being her own daughter saying you did not have a marriage to save. Perhaps not knowing or understanding her Mother's struggle.

I don't think I can blame her entirely (atleast not yet).

Anu's actual mum and brother are like second class citizens for her. She didnt even invite them to house warming/pooja

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anupama can surely handle vanraj and in better way but anupama is not vanraj. Jitna neeche gir ke vanraj fight karta है उतना neeche gir ke anupama nahi baat kar sakti because anupama ka apna मेंटल standard alag. Anupama se sadak chaap ladaai nahi ladi jaati jaise vanraj shuru ho jaata है हर जगह सड़क चाप ladaai ladne mein

Waise bhi agar anupama bhi vanraj ki तरह aise लड़ने लग gayi to vanraj और anupama mein kya farak reh jaayega

So it means CVS are giving message that tolerate the abuse but don't give any reply ..

I m telling you one story ...for one year one my friend was constantly tortured by one boy for more than one year...one day I told my sister and she is lawyer and my sister gave just one call to that boy and he never dared to call back ..if you will use power than only people like vanraj shut their mouth ..we are the audience want same from anupama atleast ek thapad to maar do ..khud rona shuru kar do .....suri suri suri boldo ..what message we are giving to society .

When it comes to Kinjal .. sometime I feel she is giving birth to king of state ..itni care to unki nahi karni padhti th ...