Originally posted by: ishqi
I don't think it's the fear that makes them obedient. It's genuinely their love for him, and you automatically fear upsetting or angering you elders. I mean don't we have that fear with our parents but that doesn't mean that we listen to them out of fear.
Besides, they are afraid of DK's anger sure, but not enough that it stops the gang from dancing all through the wedding, or doing any of their parties or pranks without his permission. Nor does it stop the ladies from asking him for something and being stubborn, like with the whole Paithani saree thing where they said they wouldn't get it unless he lets Mai get one too.
Forcing Shashank though is a possibility. And it's very human thing to try to protect yourself from getting hurt with the same mistake. Doesn't make it right and I absolutely hate that thought process but still a very real human quirk.
I think there's too much fear with vinayak, ishqi.
It wasn't so in Khorkuto, the atmosphere was quite chilled there also.
Even in case of material things, the ladies have to do so much drama. Going to the parlour, asking for something like just a saree is too much.
I remember someone said it in a different thread that the k family is conservative under the garb of simplicity. Won't discuss it here.
Parties and dance, they do it but with fear and there are consequences right?
It irked me to no end when he confessed to madhvi that he finally made appu bow down in wedding rituals, the same appu who refused to touch their feet at suman's wedding.
It's all in the writing but acha nahi laga. Kisi chote family member ko jhukane me kaisi Khushi?
Appu is written as the antithesis to this dominance and strictness right?
She's a breath of fresh air, hope the writers remember this and keep her like that. Spoilt, naïve,sure but free-spirited,growing, beautiful.
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