Being strong n selfless = taken for granted..

Forget everything silly or weird from this show but I learned some very important lessons of life…

I would like to share

- Never give too much in any relationship that you have nothing left for yourself

- Being always available for partner will reduce your importance in that person’s life as he never gets chance to miss you or convince you or retrospect his mistakes

- Think of yourself first, like they say in flight to wear your own oxygen mask first n then help others

- Being crybaby n selfish is bad but that’s how people are getting their work done now a days so be smart

- Have some dignity n self respect so mean people cant throw you under the bus all the time

- Don’t act as superwoman or Superman… take time to heal yourself emotionally or physically

- Be extra cautious when you are low..

- Last but not the least DO NOT MAKE PROMISES (VAADA) which will destroy your life or peace of mind

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People are justifying virat's action that men are allowed to grief.. But he is coming across a shallow minded moron who wants a brainery womb for his kids.. If he was too attached to the kid the first thing he should be grieve about how he could not save his child.. Seeing Pakhi he should look disgusted and he should get all the fbs how sai was tortured..

People are saying Sai lost too much hence she is strong and she has accepted the fact that she can't be a mother... This reminds me off the the show bahu hamari rajnikaant who can't feel any emotions because she is a mere robot created by her husband.. Over there it was shown that the robot bahu had to go through many ordeals and despite being a machine she had to cater to her husband's whims and fancy without a compliment..

There is a huge difference between loosing a child and loosing brother or father...Also she is written off from all the chances to become a mother..

Read that writers taking ideas from forum and twitter to justify virat's action..but they have been missing out the bigger picture.. 👎🏼

They selectively take ideas.

Forum has been talking about how pp ka pardafaash hona chahiye, how V should have apologized for putting her through so much with pp/shruti, for making her feel insecure repeatedly, for taking her for granted so much, how we need good Sairat scenes of just crying with each other, and how much Sai deserves a proper happy pregnancy phase with cute scenes with her husband. But they disregarded that all.

They skipped good tracks of KD- the kidnapping vaala to serve us this half assed nonsense.

Originally posted by: Nja91

They selectively take ideas.

Forum has been talking about how pp ka pardafaash hona chahiye, how V should have apologized for putting her through so much with pp/shruti, for making her feel insecure repeatedly, for taking her for granted so much, how we need good Sairat scenes of just crying with each other, and how much Sai deserves a proper happy pregnancy phase with cute scenes with her husband. But they disregarded that all.

They skipped good tracks of KD- the kidnapping vaala to serve us this half assed nonsense.

Tgey are just randomly picking staff to fit their crap by all means...just likr they mindlessly copy pasted KD for over an year.. Still it was better than this idiotic plots

Personally feel the creatives intend to cater to the conservative audience only ..opt for regressive thoughts, which appears to be progressive for these targeted audience, small things here and there..V supporting Sai etc. V being a IPS should be more aware and sensitive...for some reason his character and actor , both look botched up most of the times...zero consistency in emotions.