Pain Tolerance of Sai and Virat - Page 2

Originally posted by: sadiltl

💯 agree. I just wrote this on sherrys FF post. They have to establish more trust! Whatever may come they will remain husband and wife..: that is lacking. I keep going back to your comment on rono from KD. Virat wants kid to feel more connected to sai! And sai thinks she is not enough by herself for him: May be! This track should fix these doubts for them. What do you say?

Thats a long shot, isnt it? From this writing team ? 😆

I always believe story is more important than the actor playing it for PH and channel.

Even famous and loved actors shows don’t last long just cos they are in it, the story the lead pair everything matters. The writing the characterisation is what matters.

I don’t know what’s happening in this show. It’s like they really don’t understand why people watch the show

Originally posted by: xfiles

Thats a long shot, isnt it? From this writing team ? 😆

Could be! But there need to be some progression

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Could be! But there need to be some progression

I have given up on them. Today’s episode brought back a teeny tiny hope. Lets see if anything happens this week thats worth talking about .

Originally posted by: xfiles

I understand that the whole premise of Ghum’s writing (Original-Leena’s writing) was that both Sai and Virat are not perfect and Virat is grey but still his love for Sai was never questionable. It is conditional but the love he has for her is deep and intense.

But present day Virat is so weird. In real life, no loving husband can behave like this to his wife after a miscarriage. The drama quotient is too high.

I dont know for what ? Trp ? Pave way for more Paki content? Forcefully establish Virakhi ? No clue cause it makes no sense to butcher Virat’s core like this. At least , Sai’s core is still intact inspite of a few slip ups.

Maintaining suspense for upcoming track is one thing, but this is just ending up as a massive khichdi once again . Too messy to even analyze anything.

I am among very few in this forum who thinks Vankar doesn’t create plots around virakhi! Or pakhi. He maintained sai as the whitest character trroughout. Never compromised on her character or value system. All the other characters are made to realize her worth eventually… yesterdays virat’s dialogue about how she tries to bring smile on others faces still facing such a huge set back says it all!!

But she did mellow down. As you age and you fall in love, wanted to be in love… people shed some qualities. May be that’s why we feel she is softer? I still think her core characteristics are in tact. But her way of dealing changed. Also she is finding herself as wife! She doesn’t know how her equation is with virat with/without children . This is first time right? she will question her place. Once this is over, may be they will know not having a child doesnt matter to them!!? Or matter to them. Either way there will be some learning. Pakhi is just a catalyst I feel.

yes virat does feel problematic especially when he stood so strong for sruthi! Even for sai initially during their marriage. He took tough decisions. Such kind of a person succumbing to this situation did appear disconnected. But if you see virat, he does get self obsessed and absorbed in his problems especially when both are involved. (Sherry captured it beautifully in her latest story). Again sai is his own… he takes her for granted. I feel this is very relatable no? We take our spouses for ride and we realize it in hard ways. What I like about virat is he is quick to understand. Always. He makes amendments like he did yesterday. That shows his willingness to rectify himself.

Just my opinion observing the plot from its inception. And drawing parallels from the original.

It's my gut feeling and wishful thinking that Sai's breakdown will happen in this surrogacy track... When P's true intentions come out in open.

I agree with what you and most of us feel that V has grown up sheltered. And this is the first time he has had a loss this big and an extremely personal one. It's bigger than KJ and Sam's death. Hence much greater is the magnitude of pain.

For Sai, her mental strength is greater and she is always the more mature and sensible person. Widely shown earlier. V even acknowledges this yesterday. That he is unable to come to terms with it while she has.

That conversation was needed and could have been more. Certainly some form of physical intimacy in terms of slight movement towards each other by the end of it if not a cuddle would have made a difference and for V's characterization that would have impacted more.

I want to believe that this behaviour of his is to maintain the suspense for the future track so I am letting it go as of now 😔

Sai ka breakdown has been happening in pieces. Part of it happened when P slapped her and the other when she wore that chandan ki mala.

Very pointedly at both times she said that she feels alone, has no one to support her and has become an orphan again. If V has any sense, he should have understood then and there how he failed her.

Still he continues to behave the way he did. 👎🏼

The memory and physical space post was to understand this.

And as I said there too, Sai should have been the one to say I cannot live in this room... I need to move out. They didn't and thats why V doing that seems illogical. But it doesn't negate his pain.

With P back in the house, and even though it is made to look like Sam's words had some effect, i feel it is to do with her presence that V is back in the room.

So far, post the miscarriage, V is maintaining the consistency of keeping up appearances of SaiRat relationship. They know it's strained but for P he is showing a united front. That's a remarkable change in his behaviour to the point that he is lying on her face.

P knows the dynamics and is trying hard to break it... But her focus is breaking V and to keep up the act for Sai. How quickly can she do this depends upon how easily V can be manipulated by her!!! And that needs to be seen.

But if he does that (which i feel may happen to some degree)... Sai ka breakdown has to happen. She is seeing him trying to maintain the facade for P. But the moment he slips, is the moment she will break. Sai is analysing him minutely and his interactions with P. Even a hint of his softening will break her.

And with it, all the buried bodies would come out.

I have said this many times, V hasn't realised how much he hurt Sai during Shruti track neither has she told him. She forgave that for the strong emotions of love she felt. But post that with the confession, she was operating on the belief that V loves her. This is the first time she feels inadequate for his love. If he sides with P now even for a bit, it has to lead to Sai's breakdown. She needs that trigger. And as much as I hate it to be this, this trigger will be unlike anything.

If SaiRat manage to sail through this, it would be a true test of their deewano wala pyaar. 👍🏼

I hope they do.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I dont think Sai is robotic but she doesn't get the chance to melt down or air her grief properly. Its just glossed over.. her meltdown has already happened pre miscarriage and in the 30sec clips of her crying in the hospital. Bass utnaa hi milega.

I still connect more with Sai than V. Because Ayesha has been amazing in this track.

I understand V is very disturbed , not ready to.already plan another baby- all ok. but his need to stay away from Sai in a separate room and not wanting to talk about anything seems a tad too much. Rather he should be reassuring himself and Sai that they still have each other.

That too when he can see how much its affecting Sai. She literally told him - you are pushing me away. Ninad told him that. But he just acknowledged it but ignored it.

Yes poor girl she has no other option.

Entire family of 10-15 ppl belong to him and support him. She s always alone in this world.

She doesn't have any friend also.

Even pullu and Rajiv s not shown talking to her. She is cornered.

Agree with you girls..

Sai is becoming robotic.. Someone hard to connect..

She has gone through rape attempt, jail, kidnap, lost her brother and then her child due to mental trauma..All these incidents are too torturous for any girl.. I heard from my mom that many girls loose their mental balance if they miscarry due to mental torture.. Makers handled this track so insensitively..instead of Sai they have shown virat drawn into depression but prior to that he stood like mute spectator when his wife was taking all the abuses during pregnancy... It's coming across he is doing nautanki..

As per written updates Virat is keeping distance from Sai.. Understandable ..But why Sai is being so stoic to this circumstance as well.. Many girls involve in EMA because of husbands ignorance..

If the story is real then makers should show both characters realistic..

Completely agree with you (except Vankar's loyalties 😉). Sai may be one of the characters that he created/copied that is dear to him in a way, but he abuses the very same character for his sadist tastes. Because he kind of owns that character.

Sai's character has grown. She is no longer the stubborn, impulsive teenager who would react without thinking. She has matured and that is captured in how she now reacts to situations. Her ethics and values are intact. Her resolve to pursue her career and force V to come clean on his lie are proof. But the problem I see is that Sai (as u mentioned) is a white character. So there is a certain consistency expected from her in her actions and behaviour. And that is what is missing. While she feels strongly about things she has acquired the maturity to step back, analyse and the take the action. She is mindful of the repercussions and of the feelings of the people involved. But sometimes, she does tend to go soft and completely back out. And that is not being consistent to her unidimensional character. And that is an execution fault.

Yes, every track brings a learning and growth in Sai and Virat as individuals and as a couple. So will this track. But at what cost? More heartbreaks, separation, longing and with evil taking over the game for a considerable time? It's always said to look ahead and once this is over, they will only want move on and not look back. But yet, can't shake off P ruining some things in a way that will always be permanent.

V is someone who is an unintentional grey. He is good at heart, not harbouring any ill feelings. He is the first to apologise if he knows he has wronged someone. But the problem is his realisation. He is mostly incapable of seeing things on his own, and his realisation is always dependent on people or situations. He always needs triggers to think through. And he is completely unapproachable when he is hurt. It is difficult to make him see things when he is down and out. This may be a controversial one. But in such situations he lacks empathy. Because he is so possessed by his own grief that he is numb to anyone's feelings. Even if he sees it, he can’t feel it.

And he becomes a deterrent rather than a support in crisis.

Sai's breakdown will happen. And while P will be the one to create those circumstances, it will be V who will trigger it.

V has been the more amicable, adjusting kind of guy. In the family he has been one who would sacrifice and would generally not attach his sentiments with ownership on anyone or anything. While Sai was someone who he wanted for himself, it was this baby that he had claimed as his. Someone who belonged to only him more than anyone. This was the first time he had such strong feeling of belonging of having someone that was irrevocably his. No arguments there. And hence the impact is manifold. More than any of the losses he had before.

Sai has dealt with a lot in her life. So she is stronger that ways. And she has learnt her way to deal with these at an early age. So her built is different and she has her mechanism to deal with it. For V he is learning it. Like Sai knows how to swim through the waves, but V is lost when a wave washes over him. Something that I feel about Sai is her attachment to one person. That has been how it has been for her all her life. Her father and then V. Though she may have not had much of a family in her growing up years and then a huge one post marriage, her life always revolves around one person. This one person is her strength and her weakness. She unknowingly has given them that power over her. She takes on the toughest that life throws at her without breaking, as long this one person stays intact by her side. But the moment she loses this person, she will break. Even with her child, she could sail through because she somehow felt V is by her side. Her insecurities may creep up, with V's behaviour. But she is considerate that ways and will be patient. However the moment she feels V has moved away or if some way V is taken away from her, she will break. And all that she was holding up, all her grief will come pouring down.