Unpopular opinion esp with current DBS's antics but here you go:
Shashank hasn't changed much...Like Nia, Arpi and Arshia said, he's being very true to his character as a education oriented person who really doesn't understand emotions much unless it involves his own family members and even with them, he sometimes looses it like during the Farmhouse track. With Appu who is so diff from him, it's going to take a lot of time to truly understand and trust her.
Appu on the other hand works solely on emotions but even those are very singular to her, as in to the extremes only and no where in between. So it's going to take Appu sometime to understand that Shashank can't really completely avoid Netra professionally no matter what the personal equations are simply because it has to do with the institute which he doesn't control (unlike the hindi version who is somehow a national asset! Should I cry or scream at that? )
Anyway, we are angry at DBS now because of his antics yes but it's mainly because of Netra. But apart from his I'm ashamed of you thing and the pushing Netra down thing, can we honestly say that Appu hasn't been just as bad with him or very inconsiderate to others feelings?
Ex 1: The whole surprise shopping thing when she leaves saying that she's going to see her BF. One, who the hell says that to their own husband and in-laws or anyone for that matter after marriage? The whole social status thing is BS cuz even if made sense before, now she's married so wouldn't her social status be married, so what's the need of a BF anymore? Besides that, when everyone start's worrying for Shashank not returning home and even though the whole family tries to explain her mistake, she's stuck on "but it was a surpise". I swear I wanted to go and literally slap some sense into her then!
Ex 2: How many times has Appu created a scene in front of his colleagues? Yes, during the wedding events, most of it was Netra's fault, but what about in the office? When gang and Appu go late night and she creates such a scene in the office and yells at him when the fault was actually hers? and then continuing with it when they were eating? She's the one who has made their relationship issues public starting with her one year rant so of course that automatically gives the bad people around them ground to insult her more. And lets be clear that she never apologized to Shashank for the whole going to see BF thing at all...It was just swept under the rug after the Netra drama and the cute scenes afterwards.
There's so many more times that she's hurt someone with her careless words or caused embarrassment for Shashank and the family, like crying in front of everyone at the reception or dancing with the baraat. It's all cute for us to watch but imagine if that happened in reality! I'm not saying DBS is justified...he is wrong now just like Appu was wrong then...We've just excused her behavior because of her innocence thinking that she will slowly improve as time goes by, so I think it's worth it to give Shashank the same chance as well. He's still DBS until he apologizes though, and I'm still angry at him for being an idiot and oblivious towards Netra's cunning nature but that is who he is. So let's just be patient, remember that these are fictional characters, and that at least this show doesn't have any illogical, stereotypical ITV tracks like random people appearing out of nowhere, bigamy, EMA, supernatural stuff, or OTT drama and just watch it as long as it doesn't affect our mental health! 😃
Rant complete! 😆
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