Bizarre but not uncommon 😔 - Page 2

Let me make this very clear when I ask my patients ke bache h with a sigh they say ladkiyan hain coz acc to indian society bache is not equal to ladkiyaan

And don't even ask if female is unable to conceive I know it's hard for people to accept but ye jhaad phoonk chalta h

There is this temple I know where the female has to sleep legit nake*d for 3 days it think some ritual shit if you can't have babies it gruesome

It's tough for the people in 1st world countries to accept but it's very REAL🤔

Originally posted by: Avana

I live in Australia and have lived here most of my life. And this happens here. I have seen people around me go through this in the name of societal pressure or this is expected after marriage.

I hope they handle this topic well.

🤞🤞Hopefully they will do justice to this sensitive topic.

There was a news about childless couple killing a kid in order to be parents 😭

Originally posted by: aaradhaya1688

Let me make this very clear when I ask my patients ke bache h with a sigh they say ladkiyan hain coz acc to indian society bache is not equal to ladkiyaan

And don't even ask if female is unable to conceive I know it's hard for people to accept but ye jhaad phoonk chalta h

There is this temple I know where the female has to sleep legit nake*d for 3 days it think some ritual shit if you can't have babies it gruesome

It's tough for the people in 1st world countries to accept but it's very REAL🤔

Ikrrr 😑

If you have a boy you are considered lucky.

I have seen ladies calling girl child as "Pathar" 🤬😭

@bold ewwww 🤢

You know what is more troubling..only the women get blamed for being infertile and called names for it but nobody says a word to the men 😔

The post i shared have all the women not even a single man present there to get that blessing 🤔

Tbh what they are showing is a bitter truth that actually happens sometimes even so called progressive household memebers end up.doing this. We are lucky to be born in families where we were shielded from these bitter truths. In a way it is actually good that they touched this topic and like they always do for foil they brought Aryan. Tomorrow via Aryan they will actually showcase the message how wrong it is on so many levels.

I won't blame Imlie here why she didn't speak. She is emotionally vulnerable. Narmada always hit her were it hurts most.

But I want aryan to scold her and give her silent treatment. How hurt , guilty and ashamed he must be . He married Imlie to.protect her from abuse little did he know his own mother ended up.doing it .

Originally posted by: SundariP

Lot of such things happen in small places. We living in cities are unaware of this, and think it's regressive in 2022 to reduce women to baby making machines, but fact is it keeps happening to other women all around us.

And it's not like these women who go through these stupid rituals on the behest of family have no fight in them. But their inability is used against them, to guilt and torture them. Add to that social dependence on in-laws and financial dependence on husband makes them take the torture silently. Even parents expect them to co operate with unreasonable demands of in-laws for the fear of society in case of broken marriages.

It's a vicious cycle.

The fact that people don't stop these and let it get through their head that this is kind of a crime towards others in the name of culture and identity makes it more of a horror story...

Let me share you a story: in Assam there's a large section of Biharis settled here and they don't easily marry their kids with the people from the state of Bihar though their relatives are there. I once asked my classmate Maharaj you guys are here in Assam and doesn't scoff of for Dahej but can't you tell your relatives in Bihar to stop these (those days a news of more than 5 brides burn down for Dahej was going on)

He said don't even ask, even if the guys study abroad then also when they will marry a girl from Bihar they will take Dahej... And if u ask why are you doing this? U are educated or studied outside your state... They will be like this is our Culture and the girl family must give money that's the rule why should we not take what we are given or get rid of our culture. We are Biharis...

So the Dahej is kind of associated with Culture now there and the guy who said this was my friend's cousin who studied his masters in Netherlands. His Dahej was a hefty amount coz larka is khaas studied abroad

Originally posted by: SundariP

You don't know my plight. I live in this damn state. Chhattisgarh.

I've seen all sorts of these things around me bachpan se, even in my family, but most of them were harmless like taking some medicine or doing some ritual. None of them so traumatizing but Just that the idea behind this is so so horrible.

This is horrifying, superstitions create a lot of damages to mental health in every generation... I am sorry but hope you stay strong❤️

I know man. My aunt is a post graduate, was expecting a girl in her 2nd pregnancy, she took medicines to terminate the foetus under pressure of mother-IL and sister-IL, without telling her husband.

Now, she still gets tainted by her husband for not taking right decision, bears the burden of killing her own child all alone.

It's mess of a world 😓

And what's more dangerous is that even after lots of exposing done by media on such Godmen and Godwomen, people including educated ones fall into similar traps. I hope, whatever dialogues makers have given Aryan challenging such rituals will really be some eye-opening and brain-storming ones.😊

Originally posted by: MiuniS

This is horrifying, superstitions create a lot of damages to mental health in every generation... I am sorry but hope you stay strong❤️

I've seen a lot of shit around me since childhood, most frequently female foeticide in extended family. All the taunts for beating a girl child and trusting many Babas for blessings of a boy.

This episode hits a lot of right chords but I'll wait for tomorrow to see the full execution before any long posts.

Originally posted by: SundariP

I know man. My aunt is a post graduate, was expecting a girl in her 2nd pregnancy, she took medicines to terminate the foetus under pressure of mother-IL and sister-IL, without telling her husband.

Now, she still gets tainted by her husband for not taking right decision, bears the burden of killing her own child all alone.

It's mess of a world 😓

The actual problem is there, we think we have advanced since we went to school and got our degrees but the reality is even education didn't cure people. How? Many girls are only wished to study in girls college be home before 6, people will send at least one male member with her even if she goes to but milk from a store near home. Girl child is associated with Dahej aka financial loss. How can we get rid of them anyways when people are still holding them firm right in the place shielding with the word we did give them a chance to complete their education.

Look at the education division itself if it's a girl she must take arts boy hua to science or commerce... So don't think education saves the day. They will take knowledge to the limit which will help them to get a job but to change their personal views ... Nope.

Also women has a very big problem the problem is they are real body guards of patriarchy.First they suffer themselves then they make the next generation suffer just like ragging