Originally posted by: PrincessDiana
i feel exactly wht u say cos i went thru same. my mil also broke me mentally n it took almost one yr fr me to come out of it after separation frm her n another 3-4 yrs even to see her face again still hv nothing to talk much but can b cordial only sometime i think she dont even need tht from me. anyway it happens to best n srronget women when hit in wrong time at wrong spot n some pained nerve so i understand imlie frame of mind plus she is madly in love with aryan n cant even think of losing him so she going to become broken all time that N tells her all this nonsese. aryan really need to hear n put one full stop to this. when v wer staying with my mil it ws her house (on paper) so the last day when v had last fight my husband told her if u dont wnt her in this house it directly mean u dont wnt me in this house n whtever u wnt to say say right nw cos aftr this i will not give u any chance she sat with her ego n v left house with our baby. after that till tdy no discussion nothing no going bck but it take time to come to tht cos it is one parent after all. it is not easy to laeve parent like tat esp if the parent is alone n their other spouse is not there. n it not easy even after cos that guilt remain for v lng but when v were leaving i told my husband see i tried to win ur mom n do all i can do for all this years nw i m not leaving with any guilt n so if u coming wid me be 10000% sure cos if u turn n tell me anyday tht i spearted u from ur mom it will b our last day.
What to say to both of you 🥺 that's why I always frightened of marriage 🙄 because hubby will come with family and I always get terrified before marriage when I hear those stories from my friends and cousins. Kuddos to you both for staying strong. Like aryan says falling down isn't wrong but we needs to get up, hold and stand for ourselves🤔
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