Originally posted by: kamleshmehra
Consummation yar as a responsibility of a husband bhi hota hai na because in dramas me dekha hai...Husband ki duties jo vo keh rha hai usme ye bhi aato hai...I know ki vo apni marzi se karta hai...Love ka toh I know ki vo kehta hai ki chapter close ho chuka hai...But love and consummation can be different. Azka jo itni upset hoti hai mujhe lagta hai vo islye because usko lagta hai ki Azlan usko in every way accept karne ki baat kar rha hai...i mean physically bhi...but mom ki khatir...
Ab aisa toh nahi kaha ki sab kuch karunga vo nahi ho paega...Ho payega usse😆...Aisi kya baat hai...
Arrange marriages me bhi yahi hota hai aapko ekdum se apne partner se pyaar nahi ho jata ..kisi bhi relationship ko buildup hone me time lagta hai chaahe wo love ho ya Arrange, infact mother ko bhi apne bacche se suddenly bahot Sara pyaar nahi ho jata jaise jaise wo uski care karne lagti hai pyaar increased hota jata hai.it’s a human nature for me love saath rehne se bhadhta hai.
For me yaha Azlaan ye bolna chahta tha ke me sab duties karuga but pyaar ki umeed Mat karna wo mene kar liya hai ek baar bas.azka and Azlaan jo relationship share karte hai us me consummation ka Azlaan abhi soch nahi sakta.
Azka ko bhi samjh aa Gaya tha ke wo kya bolna chahta hai tabhi wo hurt bhi hui.she feel rejected so she said ke wo aise nahi reh sakti majburi ke rishtey me.
Ha agar Azlaan ye bolta ke hum work karege humare relation me and time ke saath ek dusre ko Janege than situation different hoti.
@bold Azlaan kar sakta hai bahen 😆but just aise hi karne me and dil se kisi ko accept karne me faraq hai.
Azlaan pehle rude arrogant tha but tab bhi wo aisa nahi tha ke kisi ko used kare apne fayde ke liye andAzlaan is now well mannered man uski apni soch hai now he knows value of azka so wo sirf apna farz samjh ke uske close nahi aayega ..u know what I mean aise wo love nahi kuch aur hi hoga and I don’t think wo as a duties samjh kar consummate kar lega uske saath.jitni wo respect karta hai ab azka ki wo uski feeling ke saath play nahi karega.
So for me he want to said mujhse wo cheez ki umeed Mat rakhna.
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