Originally posted by: myviewprem
In dharmendra and many other actors case the husband is having relaton with both wives and both side kids are ok. What is psychology of kids in such a case?
Have they accepted the fathers other wife and kids? Not really they do not even attend sisters wedding
So kids are ok with father cheating on mother but not ok with his other kids and wife
Its a different thing to altogether leave a family and start new family
Its diff thing like having two house mentality of kids
Than what happens to kid psychology?
In USA gun culture is more and so are broken family. Is there a link to resented anger and frustration of broken family coming out in violence form gun culture in USA?
These are complex answers cannot b ejust said that parent separating is ok than staying for kids psyche
I was talking about situations where parents are simply unable to resolve their issues, if issues are genuinely resolved without separation or divorce then what can be better than that... it's cases where the issues just do not get resolved where I'm saying it's better that they separate than normalise constant arguing, cheating, etc. in the eyes of their children...
Fact is, if a child's parents have a bad relationship- whether the parents like to admit it or not- it WILL have a bearing on the child's life/mindset/view of relationships in one way or another, and imo this is the case whether the parents split up, or choose to stay unhappily married.
It's just that either resolving the issues if possible, or splitting up is usually likely to minimise the damage done to the child's psychology, and view of relationships than just remaining together whilst fighting, backbiting, cheating, etc.
Also btw gun culture in America is due to very relaxed gun laws, nothing to do with divorced or separated parents... a lot of countries that are more socially liberal than America have barely any gun issues, while some countries that are overall more conservative than even India suffer from terrible gun violence related issues too... it's how easily guns are available that leads to these issues, not people's marital statuses or how many partners they have
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