Raqesh Bapat is toxic - Page 2

Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

I feel both are wrong for each other I don't watch live feed but from episode I get they she gets hyper and start shouting at rakesh in very aggressive manner anybody would get uncomfortable or I actually don't know how rakesh is in real life but what I have perceived is he is diplomatic and also I am that kind of person I just can't go and confront someone in every trivial matter and if someone gets too aggressive I go into my shell again if it's done publicly I would try to stay away from them because I can't fight like that somewhere being on camera and getting yelled also affect your behaviour to the situation and that constant taunt like henpecked will surely affect anyone also he has cleared that he just want to know her he can't commit that's clear from his side whereas Shamita from day 1 acts as that it's not just connection they are enaged/married/committed that's not the scene he is here to play also and if he likes divya or want to know her too she can't stop him.

If she gets hurts so much than she should not let him come close to her again or don't talk to him to me frankly she looks like dominating and wants him to act how she wants like to fight for her where some people are not like that she just can't see others perspective or doesn't want to

She does hav lot of issues but my point is he was d one hu initiated d luv angle, kissin, huggin, love is in d air, crush on u, i belong 2 her nd me, he led her on....nd ven she strted gettin serious he got cold feet. She had tld him asked him many tym to giv clarity since his behaviour with her was confusing her, she even suggested ending all love feelings angle nd b just game connection. But he led her on....he wanted just a showmance or fling, but wen shit got real he bailed.

Originally posted by: rhondasa

Mayb coz u dont c d livefeed....he plays hot nd cold wid her...nd shes been dominating since day 1....hw cum den he was feeling love is in d air, kissing, crush, i dont lyk divya too etc....she never changed he changed as per convenience.

The problem is the speed at which Shamita is moving in the relationship. Anything serious takes much time  &, should develop organically. Raqesh was testing waters but probably found them too deep for his convience. And obviously it's once bitten twice shy for him. Shamita is literally forcing him into commitment & to get out of the situation without looking bad is a task in itself.

Originally posted by: Dedhshani

The problem is the speed at which Shamita is moving in the relationship. Anything serious takes much time  &, should develop organically. Raqesh was testing waters but probably found them too deep for his convience. And obviously it's once bitten twice shy for him. Shamita is literally forcing him into commitment & to get out of the situation without looking bad is a task in itself.

True....i dont think he can come out lukin gud ny vichways...coz she is hurt nd almost in tears nd expressin it to neha dat she feels played nd dey r cuttin to him sittin nd laughin vid divya

He has been a disappointment and a big matlabi.

Originally posted by: rhondasa

She does hav lot of issues but my point is he was d one hu initiated d luv angle, kissin, huggin, love is in d air, crush on u, i belong 2 her nd me, he led her on....nd ven she strted gettin serious he got cold feet. She had tld him asked him many tym to giv clarity since his behaviour with her was confusing her, she even suggested ending all love feelings angle nd b just game connection. But he led her on....he wanted just a showmance or fling, but wen shit got real he bailed.

Maybe you are right but in episode where she was angry after riksha task she started yelling at him and he couldn't understand it fully but after some time tried to calm down her hugged her but again after some time in kitchen she brings the topic back and start fighting 

Also the day both didn't eat food while talking in bathroom rakesh wanted to talk but she keep getting hyper and start yelling or crying that's not how you resolve issues in relationship

She expects him to love her when she is angry and say things to please her whereas when he kept pratik condition she started fighting again

He got closer to her with her permission it wasn't forced it was mutual

Sometimes we ignore aggressive reaction thinking it as sometimes we loose our control too but she kept fighting with him on the same topic when he clearly said that it's a small house he can't avoid divya she is not that important and if she comes in front of him he will talk

Also after fighting with Shamita only person left is divya who will talk with him in respectable manner Nishant moose pratik everybody tries to dominate/disrespect him

I am also insecure person but I can't keep fighting to my close one if I get jealous I would tell him in private will also listen his pov also you can't dictate someone 

also  he didn't hug divya when she came to him in kitchen to make him feel better also he sometimes hugs/kiss on the cheek other girls too but with Divya always kept a distance for Shamita it's not loyalty show its a game show if he needs to talk to divya he can

She thinks divya is wrong so he must also say divya is wrong instead of getting agitated she can tell him about incident where divya kept instigating her in calm manner

Raqesh would be nuts to commit to Shamita. It is like lifetime slavery. Do this and Don’t do this. 

Raqesh is free bird now since connection are removed

Edited by spicysagar - 2 years ago

I don’t watch OTT anymore, but just got to say - these are unfair accusations on Raqesh. He’s never lied to Shamita, or made her personal commitments and then bailed. This is a game show, not a dating one.

And even if it were a dating show - dating is dating, not an automatic commitment to a long term relationship/marriage. He has never led her on. Raqesh was always clear that he was exploring whatever chemistry he thought they had - and that’s what dating is. Though IMO, this is the wrong show for it.

The man has had the patience of a saint when it comes to Shamita’s exhausting personality. He’s come across spineless for the longest time because he kept trying with her. Now it appears his patience has worn off, and he’s done. I see nothing wrong with that.

And if he got cold feet on the personal front - I’d say that’s smart, for him and Shamita - he has more reason than most to be wary - and they seem completely wrong for each other. 

He pretty much played her. 

Originally posted by: SP2684

I don’t watch OTT anymore, but just got to say - these are unfair accusations on Raqesh. He’s never lied to Shamita, or made her personal commitments and then bailed. This is a game show, not a dating one.

And even if it were a dating show - dating is dating, not an automatic commitment to a long term relationship/marriage. He has never led her on. Raqesh was always clear that he was exploring whatever chemistry he thought they had - and that’s what dating is. Though IMO, this is the wrong show for it.

The man has had the patience of a saint when it comes to Shamita’s exhausting personality. He’s come across spineless for the longest time because he kept trying with her. Now it appears his patience has worn off, and he’s done. I see nothing wrong with that.

And if he got cold feet on the personal front - I’d say that’s smart, for him and Shamita - he has more reason than most to be wary - and they seem completely wrong for each other. 

Originally posted by: SP2684

I don’t watch OTT anymore, but just got to say - these are unfair accusations on Raqesh. He’s never lied to Shamita, or made her personal commitments and then bailed. This is a game show, not a dating one.

And even if it were a dating show - dating is dating, not an automatic commitment to a long term relationship/marriage. He has never led her on. Raqesh was always clear that he was exploring whatever chemistry he thought they had - and that’s what dating is. Though IMO, this is the wrong show for it.

The man has had the patience of a saint when it comes to Shamita’s exhausting personality. He’s come across spineless for the longest time because he kept trying with her. Now it appears his patience has worn off, and he’s done. I see nothing wrong with that.

And if he got cold feet on the personal front - I’d say that’s smart, for him and Shamita - he has more reason than most to be wary - and they seem completely wrong for each other. 

She treats him like a spot-boy on the film set and thinks like she is some superstar. Bewajah Raqesh ke gale padd rahi hain. He never promised her marriage or something like that.

Raquesh is better with Divya. Shamita is suffocating him. If Divya and Raquesh will come together, Divya will surely be a winner. 

I guess Raqesh's patience has got over because of the torture he has to go through because of Shamita. Patience over hotey he ekdam se fatega shayad. Spineless Raqesh se better he hoga.