Originally posted by: Ashley.Tisdale
End of the episode? Nafisa was being a b**ch to her since the beginning and she didn't get it? Jeez.
Yes, there are places where the guy dominates and there are places where the girl dominates. But overall a relationship needs to have a certain balance. Isra and Shahzaib have had a problem with the exes...there Isra did not agree to cut off Haaris and Shahzaib did not agree to cut off Nimra. Tbh, its easier for Isra given that Haaris is not her relative, but for Shahzaib, its Nafisa who dominates the house. He cannot kick her out but can ignore her. And yes he should have.
About personal character...yup been there, done that. And I chose to talk it out because it was literally a bunch of MUs that could have been solved with communication. It was not a matter of ego or self-respect, but if due to some a**h**e third-party I was to lose the people around me, only coz the third-party was spewing shit...nope not happening.
But there is a huge difference, between Shahzaib and Isra...her actions and words don't match, his do. That's where all the problem comes from. Forget about her being married, whether it was her mom being in the hospital or falling sick at home or her going for ice cream, this weirdo has been stalking her. She seriously did not think of complaining even once? If she wasn't married, shouldn't she have told this to her parents/brother?
When did she decide to tell him about Haaris following her everywhere? She was toh hiding only..until it all came crashing around her. And what is the point in hiding when you have a husband who genuinely listens to you? Not everyone gets that that even in a relationship, you should value it and make use of it. Knowing Shahzaib, voh non-bailable charges laga deta on Haaris, for him harassing a woman.
@bold: Yes he stood up for her...but she circumstantially prove him wrong. Isra literally had to do nothing except be honest about Haaris, Nafisa, Sameera and Nimra. Bas. Because now if she goes to say anything without any proof, it will look like she was doing damage control. Isra was not involved with Haaris na, then why hide it?
You don't offend me at all, don't worry.
I've had the worst experiences in relationships so at least I know what one should not do. 😆
But coming to the dominance part, yes one will be in charge over the other and vice versa at certain times...not always. Isra was holding a dominating position after the wedding till the time she hid what was going on.
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