Originally posted by: ManishaShah
Hello friends, after yesterday,s epi many of us having a problem with the way of makers showing pallavi,s character. swapnil/ raghav ke sath usne jaise behave kiya with knife mandar ki cheap harkaton pe waisa nahi kiya uske dialogues uska behaviour kuch samjh nahi ata.
But this is not new for me after marriage uske kehne aur karne me huge difference hai for ex on the day of marriage wo raghav ki barbadi ki baat karti hai but after reception nothing. Ok after knowing that jaya is the reason behind forced marriage she forgave raghav but what about her character assasination by raghav? Pehle use fever ho gaya to usne kuch nahi kiya but after that comb scene me koi sadness ya gussa nahi tha family to door pehle hi thi but breakdown raghav ke sach janne ke baad untill then she behaves normally jaya ko rokte time raghav ko sudharne ka promise kiya phir kolhapur jane ka decision liya if she was taking marriage seriously then why? she was wearing ms and sindoor also. jaya ke forced marriage ka sach janne ke baad bhi ja sakti thi.
So if u know Pallavi’s from before she is not a take revenge type of girl. Her getting back at someone or taking revenge is little things like shutting off water so person doesnt get water, adding chilli in someone’s food etc. Chote mote revenge types. Nothing that would hurt anyone physically or mentaly. Maybe inconvenience for a bit. She tried to revenge raghav by making him infront of all media etc aware that he married a widow and then get him to dress her. That shocked raghav as he doesnt like to be shamed infront of media so this was her revenge. He accepted but ofcourse was mad and she thought she got some satisfaction and revenge. After that was the water in shower and then she got sick and he cared for her.
After that raghav found out truth and told her but what was the use she was married to him and they couldnt do anything. He tried to apologize and tel truth to her family but they didnt believe and at that time he genuinely felt they didnt deserve her bcoz he was upset for her that they believed him when he was lying and when he is telling truth they dont want to accept their daughter. What type of family is this? He even told her that and she slapped him saying what did he expect. Then she told him to kill her bcoz she cannot live without them. That broke him as he has two deaths on his head and didnt want a third.
As for telling jaya she already told raghav that she wouldnt involve his family like he did. She is not that type of person. Jaya had already guessed that something was not right but neither was telling her anything. Then she decided to leave and go to her brother’s. Jaya asked raghav to go get her bcoz she wanted Pallavi to come back and change raghav as she could see that happening a little. She was being selfish a bit. Raghav went apologized and brought her back by promising that he would return her family. That’s what she cane back for. Also she said since you gave me 30 days for shop then i will give u 30 days also. At that time she didnt think he coukd do anything and she was prepared to leave after 30 days. She told amma that too.
Phir raghav ko 30 days ka chance diya theek hai but after two days she called him bechara then vd aur raghav ki fight ke baad amruta aur milind ki baat sunkar raghav ko mirchi wala dinner khilaya aur baad me vd ke gusse ka reason de kar raghav ko maaf bhi kar diya milind ne use fight ka reason to bataya hoga na but usne raghav se is ke bare me koi baat nahi ki mirchi wale childish act se acha to baat kar leti
During the first few days only she saw raghav trying to make amends when he went to d house etc. Before she married him, she didnt see raghav as a person. He was this rich, ghamandi, selfish, egositic man that she hated but while living with him she started to notice little things like he staying in d house despite having such a big house just so he can get her to meet her family. The the whole necklace kaand and she took revenge at that time after what kaku told her about his behavioud with vd by adding chilli in his food. Then she realized she had physically harmed him and had to make amends as she was not that type of person. She knew that he knew she had added the chilli and exactly why so he accepted his punishment without saying anything. Her demeanor already told him she was sorry and it wouldnt come out of her mouth but he knew that the fact that she made him feel better, that was her apology. Then she would be hearing things like necklace theft and how it got stolen and so on. She tried to find out and by doing that also realized that raghav was innocent and that when he wanted to revenge anyone he came out and said it to their face. He wouldnt hide and do it. So she defended him infront of vd not becoz she loved him but she knew he was innocent. She had seen how hard he was working to catch culprit and how much money he was losing to help her etc.
Phir bahut kuch hua aur usko raghav pe trust ho gaya she developed feelings for him aur usne raghav ke sath rehne ka decision liya she accepted him as her husband but room or bed sharing ke time she started crying bcs usne life me kisi ke sath room share nahi kiya tha but I want to know that if mandar was alive to wo uske sath bhi room bed share karti ya usne raghav ko accept hi nahi kiya tha as husband aur at night she covered herself with blanket phir after one day when raghav slept over her tummy she had no problem. she felt happy about it
after that uski raghav ke liye feelings increase hoti gayi but love realisation krishna ne karaya why? Jab usne raghav ko kaha tha use mandar se pyar nahi tha to pyar ki koi to defination hogi uske liye I mean she knew pyar Kya hai uske liye jo use mandar ke liye feel nahi hua but jab raghav ke sath feel hua then she didn,t understand.
Now marriage and intimacy…if u watch the past episodes there has been numerous times where she has gotten flustered with Raghav’s closeness, eye locks, her saying something intimate like daari me ache lagteho or tumne mukhe pasand kiya etc. Same on Raghav’s side, Farhad caught on that anna has fallen in love but raghav didnt believe that. Their actions already showed us they were attracted to each other and love was there but they didnt admit it. As for raghav sleeping on her tummy, she realized she was attracted to him. She quickly went off and thought in the bathroom. Her expression already told her she was falling in love with him. She had no feelings for mandhar. It was arranged and yeah if they had stayed married shayad she would have. Nothing we can do about that or shayad nahi and she would have seen what he was like and maybe stayed married but never loved him.
And nail incident wale epi me she wore that black dress and allow raghav to kiss her without love realisation ?koi awkward feel nahi kiya aur phir wo smile kar rahi thi hospital me bhi kiss ke flashbacks a rahe the use phir bhi use love realisation nahi hua I dont understand.
Black dress incident…well Raghav is hot guy who was used to getting any girl he wanted but they never interested him. He has been without someone for a while and then his wife comes out wearing the dress he chose never expecting her to wear and never expecting her to look this hot. He attempts to kiss bcoz the day before she had said she wants to move on with him. Now if u know both of their characters they are not the types who easily confess…raghav with his past and pallavi with hers. Then in the hospital when raghav failed to recognize her she was confused bcoz she felt like her heart was breaking etc. She voiced it out to krishna and yeah krishna helped her understand but pallavi had that feeling her for a long time. Just krishna had to voice it for pallavi to bring it out of her.
iske baad mandar track me to sabhi ko pallavi ka behavior samjh nahi a raha uske words uske actions se match hi nahi hote jab raghav ne vd ko pair dhone ke liye kaha to use bura laga but baad me raghav se iske bare me kuch nahi kaha pallavi ke behavior me continuity hai hi nahi.
These are my views about pallavi I know may be you all are disagree with me but that is what my thinking.
Please share your views and try to answer my questions.
After mandhar track everything is confusing. It was her farz bcoz now she felt bad that she couldn’t be with him as she loved raghav and she felt sorry for him and wanted him to get better so he would be happy with his family and find someone to marry. She thought their marriage was arranged so didnt think he would be in love with her. But that was contradicted when raghav said in the kitchen one day that what if mandhar realizes his love for you which didnt make sense as it was arranged according to pallavi when raghav was having his confession about krishna rao, she had said there was nothing like love between mandhar and her. The sharing bed scene when she said she had never shared a bed with anyone.
She didnt see the side of mandhar that raghav saw so she thought he was a nice guy.
Then everything just got messed up with the writing and dialogues when they changed tracks. She always regarded family as her priority and to her aai is always going to come on top of everyone else. So she wanted her aai to be happy to have her son back and all well. She was gonna do whatever so mandhar would get well and be there for aai. She in that happiness of her aai’s forgot that she is neglecting her own family and raghav.
Ok hope this helped understand a bit. There is so much more but that would take forever. Analyzing any itv character is tough. They change them sometimes to please audiences and increase trps so sometimes just watch it as it is. If u go to analyze them, your brain will explode 🤣
Originally posted by: joliefemme
Let me start by saying that Pallavi as a character has always been extremely forgiving and understanding. She saved Raghav from the accident even when she believed he had jailed her that very day.
When she was forced to marry Raghav, she wanted to teach him a lesson but Pallavi's nature isn't like Raghav to take extreme steps to get her revenge. She pulled some pranks on him as a revenge (she would defend any attack done by Raghav but would not stoop to his level to take any revenge from him).
When she realised that Raghav married her and falsely accused her because of MMS misunderstanding, she asked him why didn't he check with her before presuming such a low thing about her. That is when she decided she wanted to leave from that house but assured to tell Jaya that she should stay back because Raghav fulfilled her condition of marrying Pallavi.
She gave Raghav another chance (because that's who Pallavi is) for 30 days as he asked - (he asked her to for the sake of her dead ex husband) since he also gave her a 30 day chance when she needed it.
During those 30 days, she saw the change in Raghav. She saw him make amends, she saw he was trying and had changed. She didn't want to put his efforts down and since he was right, she supported him in the necklace kand. Then, Raghav did what was not expected out of him. He agree to the twisted condition of VD by swallowing his self respect, he let her go to Kolhapur because he felt she didn't want to be in this marriage. By then, she had already forgiven him for all his earlier mistakes seeing his repentance (again that's who Pallavi is).
After agreeing to stay back, she knew she was in this marriage for life. She accepted Raghav as her husband and intimacy in marriage is but natural and would eventually happen. But considering she was never mentally prepared to marry Raghav, it took her time to open up to the prospect of having a normal marriage with him (read intimacy). If you compare this to Mandar, she had agreed to the marriage and was mentally prepared for it.
On the morning of the sleeping on stomach incident, it was clear she was flustered seeing him so close to her but she didn't reject the intimacy. In fact, she blushed because she realised it that she wanted it too. She desired her husband.
When Raghav gifted her the gown she knew what it would lead to and she was ready to be intimate with her husband that night. She agreed to allowing him to zip her dress. It wasn't just because he was her husband, it was because she wanted him to do it. Had it not been for that keel, their marriage would have been consummated that night.
Yes, I agree with you that Krishna wasn't needed for her love realisation. It should have come naturally like she always knew she fell for Raghav but this was done more for drama. Even the pyar vs farz track by the end of it seemed very superfluous.
I know why it is difficult for you to understand Pallavi. The makers fail to show her point of view most of the times and hence the audience lose connect with her. Hope I was able to help you understand her better.
Sonia, I'd like your views on Pallavi
you portrayed her character in the same way as you have read my mind …❤️❤️❤️
just to add one more point during those 30 days, she got to understand real Raghav…
yes he is arrogant, stubborn, angry young man… his nature to fight first think later… but as a person he is pure gold… he loves his family too deeply.. care for them and can do anything for them… and not only for them but whosoever he considered as his own..also once she got to know his past …she understood where he is coming from… also how he is compassionate towards kids and needy…though he is the same guy who runs an old age home is yet to be revealed or won’t be revealed but she has seen him around all beggars…
more than physical aspect I think these are the qualities that made her change her mind for Raghav…
Originally posted by: nikkiGarg
you portrayed her character in the same way as you have read my mind …❤️❤️❤️
just to add one more point during those 30 days, she got to understand real Raghav…
yes he is arrogant, stubborn, angry young man… his nature to fight first think later… but as a person he is pure gold… he loves his family too deeply.. care for them and can do anything for them… and not only for them but whosoever he considered as his own..also once she got to know his past …she understood where he is coming from… also how he is compassionate towards kids and needy…though he is the same guy who runs an old age home is yet to be revealed or won’t be revealed but she has seen him around all beggars…
more than physical aspect I think these are the qualities that made her change her mind for Raghav…
Nikki, the makers do grave injustice to Pallavi but not showing her point of view most of the times. Hence, we need to read too much into her character and assume a lot of stuff. I'm glad my thoughts resonate with yours.
I agree with you on what made her change her mind with regard to Raghav. He was always shown to the audience as a man with a heart of gold but to the world who is an arrogant ruthless man. He would never show his vulnerable side to anyone before Pallavi came into the picture.
While Raghav and Pallavi were very much physically attracted to each other, they fell in love with each other because they understood how good their souls are. Their love was not about the physical attributes but what lay deep within their hearts. If you notice, post marriage they never had a lot of close encounters but they did have deep conversations which helped them develop a close bond.
The only problem I have of Pallavi is her attitude towards Deshmukh. Deshmuks threw her on the street middle of the night due to some strangers accusations. But she still runs after them begging for their love. Sharda n kaka only love her unconditionally. She neglect her current in-laws for them. She has 1 set of rules for Deshmukh and another for Rao. If Raos do injustice to Deshmukh they must go to jail. But if D do something wrong to Raos we must think of Kaka, etc.
Hello I read your views so you want to say that in morning scene when raghav slept over her tummy then at that moment she herself realized that she has no problem with the intimacy between them and she was not aware of that feeling on previous night when she was hesitant to share room or bed with him.
Sorry but i don,t agree with you at nail incident that they wanted to consummate their marriage on that night bcs pallavi was lil hesitant when raghav tried to kiss her. So I don't think she was ready for it.
I agree with you on this point ke black dress wale epi me raghav ka pallavi ko kiss karne ke liye try karna out of place tha bcs wo pehle kabhi bhi pallavi ke physically close nahi hua even hug bhi nahi kiya and suddenly that kiss? Usne always pallavi ke consent ko importance di never force her for anything unke relation ke liye pallavi ko decide karne diya even for room sharing. So that kiss was odd for me also.
Originally posted by: ManishaShah
I agree with you on this point ke black dress wale epi me raghav ka pallavi ko kiss karne ke liye try karna out of place tha bcs wo pehle kabhi bhi pallavi ke physically close nahi hua even hug bhi nahi kiya and suddenly that kiss? Usne always pallavi ke consent ko importance di never force her for anything unke relation ke liye pallavi ko decide karne diya even for room sharing. So that kiss was odd for me also.
Actually he did hug her once. But dt was to calm her down.
The only thing he did before that attempted kiss was the removing her hair strand after the jail fiasco episode. But dt was it. For me personally , I expected a slow transistion in physical proximity from Raghav after Pallavi said she is ready to start wid him afresh. But it all happened too fast.
I had made a post on it the day the episode aired. And asked people whether they thought they were at dt stage in their relationship where leaning in for a kiss was a given. Bcz to me Pallavi looked a lil taken aback. For Raghav it was impulse I guess. Felt lil out of place to me personally.
But many were of the opinion that it was dt point in the relationship and some had opined dt it was a heat of the moment act. So I took those opinions into stride and moved on.....bcz I obviously cant change it.
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