@bold: Virat should know by now that elders of his family are always going to create drama whether he opens his mouth or not because they have problem with Sai and will continue to have it as long as she is part of his life.
So what's the solution?
Move out with Sai but he won't do it maybe because it will lead to another drama.
Second option is to ask Sai to always lay low in the house which means Sai will have to loose her individuality...even if she does this, his family still won't spare her and will drag her into some or the other fight.
Next option is he should let Sai go for his and her good, he should accept it that he and Sai can't have a happy fulfilling future together and he will have to live according to kaku's wishes.
He has to decide whether he want to live his life on his terms or kaku's. If it is on his terms, drama is bound to happen everyday and he will have to deal with it. He will have to fight, he will have to open his mouth and speak, he will have to go against his elders. He doesn't have any option.
And this will cost sai too coz financially she is still dependent on him ... again if you are asking him to pay for her fianances and let her live in hostel then mbbbs need 5yrs... And CN don't let virat to not marry anyone..and no wife again allow his husband to pay for ex wife finances and CN people will be there to create drama over this too...
And not to forget they both have already fallen for each other...So on a long term, it's going to affect sai more than virat...for atleast 5 yrs(mbbs)+ 2-3yr(pg)...so total atleast you need atleast 7-8yes someone who will pay for you.... And it's not even 1 year have passed of their marriage... And people and family takes time to adjust/accept a marriage (talking about CN niwas people)... Plus here pakhi is there to always fuel their hatred towards sai.... In general household ... people remain patient for atleast 1 yr of their marriage.. .and here you can see on the first night of their marriage, virat told sai (who is 18 yr teenage) to give back to whoever insult her( even his father and kaku) ...they are much older than sai... And not in any household a newly wedded girl give back to their elders on the very next day of their marriage and especially that girl who is financially totally dependent on her husband.... But all this courage in sai became possible because virat supported her initially and even on multiple occasions.....so sometimes you need to show patience for atleast 1 yr..if things are not goiy to change ,sai-virat must find some ways so that sai will be independent financially the they can surely split
And this will cost sai too coz financially she is still dependent on him ... again if you are asking him to pay for her fianances and let her live in hostel then mbbbs need 5yrs... And CN don't let virat to not marry anyone..and no wife again allow his husband to pay for ex wife finances and CN people will be there to create drama over this too...
And not to forget they both have already fallen for each other...So on a long term, it's going to affect sai more than virat...for atleast 5 yrs(mbbs)+ 2-3yr(pg)...so total atleast you need atleast 7-8yes someone who will pay for you.... And it's not even 1 year have passed of their marriage... And people and family takes time to adjust/accept a marriage (talking about CN niwas people)... Plus here pakhi is there to always fuel their hatred towards sai.... In general household ... people remain patient for atleast 1 yr of their marriage.. .and here you can see on the first night of their marriage, virat told sai (who is 18 yr teenage) to give back to whoever insult her( even his father and kaku) ...they are much older than sai... And not in any household a newly wedded girl give back to their elders on the very next day of their marriage and especially that girl who is financially totally dependent on her husband.... But all this courage in sai became possible because virat supported her initially and even on multiple occasions.....so sometimes you need to show patience for atleast 1 yr..if things are not goiy to change ,sai-virat must find some ways so that sai will be independent financially the they can surely split
sai-virat must find some ways so that sai will be independent financially the they can surely split.
Why should virat find a way , KJ promise is over sai herself freed him from it.
Sai is said to be so called strong why can't she arrange for finance herself , she should start working , govt don't have rule that 18 or 19 yrs people can't work .
Sai don't need anyone specially virat , so it's right time to apply 4 annulment of the marriage . I don't think sai needs to wait for something
Thats what I mentioned earlier in one of my post and he has every damned right to behave like victim. He doesn't love Pakhi and he clearly mentioned to her. Its just he feels sorry for her pain and her loneliness. But in reality, Pakhi is not upset for her loneliness because of the absence of her husband but due to lack of involvement of Virat in her life. She just want Virat to feel sorry always and keep him around her fingers. Thats what she is constantly is doing and seeing Virat's helplessness in dealing with her infuriates Sai.
Sai lashed her wrath not only on Pakhi but also on Virat, which made Virat upset. He was accused though, he knows he is not having any sort of EMA.
His ego, pride and dignity is bruised for the mistakes of others. He has every right to behave the victim and especially when he wants to clear out his head, these people are instigating him. Why should he use his energy on someone stupid, hypocrites or useless ones like Pakhi and Kaku? Top of that, Sai is not home whom he wants to fight, outburst and clear out the misunderstanding.
and I agree he should speak to Sai but to have a proper conversation both of them must exercise patience and peace, where they both lack.
Why he is not saying something befitting to kaku and pakhi to stop harassing sai..he is victim but he is not weak or helpless.. He has every right and opportunity to clear that he don’t want to keep any kind of association with pakhi but no he choose to b mum and behave as if he doesn’t understand anything..he clearly know what pakhi wants still he is saying sry to pakhi..who knows better than him what pakhis intention is?
Well if he keep this up then next time they will demand him to marry pakhi will he be mum this too?? Will he marry her just to avoid situation like he is doing now?
sai-virat must find some ways so that sai will be independent financially the they can surely split.
Why should virat find a way , KJ promise is over sai herself freed him from it.
Sai is said to be so called strong why can't she arrange for finance herself , she should start working , govt don't have rule that 18 or 19 yrs people can't work .
Sai don't need anyone specially virat , so it's right time to apply 4 annulment of the marriage . I don't think sai needs to wait for something
Then virat shouldn't marry her when he cannot fulfill his responsibilities for 5 years... Because the promise was for taking her responsibilities not to marry her... He should actually bring her nagpur without marrying her when Kamal sir died and let the guest house free for her..then in next few days , her result were out ...so he could have shifted her to hostel...no problem at all... Why did he marry??...now if he married her... and stopped her for going hostel...while she was ready to go..... Least he can do is to find a way so that sai can be financially independent...if they both want to split...
But both did a mistake for marrying each other n we are humans and we work on emotions...so for me majority of their actions and reactions are because of their emotions
Then tell her everything. Problem solved.
Also, a smart person isn't fooled by a fake letter and doesn't have a crime syndicate operating under his nose.
The only good thing about him is that he's nice to Sai sometimes.
(My tone may be coming off a bit pointed, so I apologize. That isn't my intent.)
Smart person and Virat- hahaha. Dude can even get duped by a letter and 3/4thbof family are criminals. Ek no ki bewakoof hai
Only problem is ‘only good thing is not consistent’. Depends on his convenience. He will be nice as long as she is obedient. Varana seedha I will lock you in the room, deny food, throw you onto streets, will arrest you type. So even that isn’t true. Kuch toh acchai hona chahiye na?
Tell her everything- oh but eyes and tears are speaking na. Sai should understand his silence. Vahi pyaar mei. Muh kholke he can only speak about deal and marraige na that too to an orphan. Jab pyaar hogaya becchara is dumb. Lekin yku will get a hundred explanations for his silence
sai-virat must find some ways so that sai will be independent financially the they can surely split.
Why should virat find a way , KJ promise is over sai herself freed him from it.
Sai is said to be so called strong why can't she arrange for finance herself , she should start working , govt don't have rule that 18 or 19 yrs people can't work .
Sai don't need anyone specially virat , so it's right time to apply 4 annulment of the marriage . I don't think sai needs to wait for something
Arey Sai is strong and left. She’s independent already. She isn’t living off on good for nothing, toxic, spineless, MCP, husband’s money. She threw if off on his face when he showed his money power. Ouch, fragile ego. He thought he can make her submissive. Oops. He messed with wrong girl. He was shown his place in a min. Boy wanted to act macho, ended up crying and apologising. Hawww!
Virat went uska picche saying I will wait for my whole life. Even now he wants her to stay back. He wants to romance her and move ahead. Why is he doing that? Why isn’t he letting go off wife and bhabhi both? Kisne roka use annulment say, he’s going after bhabhi and biwi both. Usko pehle decide karna do. One thing you said right Sai doesn’t need him. Nobody needs him lmao. He is forcing himself on her with tears and manipulation.
Edited by Niranjan256 - 2 years ago
