Congratulations for the Barbaadi

Rakhi said correctly "Kabhi Naa aur kabhi haa" Yeh to Vanraj ki aadat hai. He says he can't marry. The mistake of Kavya here is that without asking Vanraj she fixed the marriage date and we all know the mistake of Vanraj so won't elaborate on it. Anger of Kavya was right to Vanraj but we all know her wrong points so it's hard to support her. That day Anupama said Bandhe woh Moh. Agar Kavya pyaar karti to jaane deti Vanraj ko

Anupama interrupts in between. I didn't like her interruption at all, when she said chup. But then she justified everything properly., she took a stand for herself. She was speaking audience's voice. Why always Anupama needs to solve Vanya fights? Anupama bhens aage bhagwat kar rahi hai. Anupama vented out her frustrations on a correct level. Vanraj Maharaj ne dhokha diya usko Kavya ke liye aur ab pagal panti kar raha hai. Anupama's line to Kavya were bang on. Kavya showed so much of patience and jabardasti shaadi kar rahi hai.

Loved what Anupama said to Vanraj. She said kabhi to sharam aayi hogi na. Kavya atleast once felt that shame but Vanraj has no guilt. Kavya aur Vanraj ne ghar basane ke liye bahut mehnat ki and now jab ghar bas raha hai to dono tod rahe hai. They troubled everyone and now they are a trouble to each other. Anupama was giving advices but none of them going to understand her.

Anupama said the correct thing about divorce. It happens in reality, if a divorced lady passes in the street, then the gossip aunties cook their own Khichdi. My cousin he is a male, he has taken divorce, but even when he passes in the streets, people say so much about him. Then Anupama is a female. Female has to hear more than male. Anupama made me emotional when she said, "Maut ho jaaye chalega, lekin talaaq ho jaaye nhi chalega" Even that day Kavya was molested for that reason. Not taking her side but this happens in reality also.

Advait when was giving the choice of Yes or No. Kavya ki choice kaisi thi barbaadi chahiye ya zabardast barbaadi chahiye. And replying Kavya, Vanraj said much confidently that I am ready to be dead also, ab kya dhamki dogi Kavya. Vanraj said he was suffocated here, he is lying, he was scared. How many times Vanraj has asked Kavya to not trouble the family? But Kavya has never listened to him

Vanraj badass mein bol gaya ki shaadi hogi. I cracked my head. He said marriage will happen because of love. I think it was love for the family. I assume it so. These people are all in two tie the knot and the family, Anupama leaves on her way to be alone. Two imperfect people have tied the knot. What Anupama said yesterday ki taar galat jude to jhatake hi jhatke. Anupama was walking alone and we saw some butterflies. Butterflies don't stay at same places for a long time and they are free and happy

Bapuji arrives and bless Anupama first. What Kavya thought people will welcome her with flowers after she tortured them?. 25 years Anupama ne mehnat ki hai, you can't take her place. Kavya now will force every member to accept her. I didn't like Rakhi interruption in between. Kavya and Vanraj congrats but a hard time for both of you

Lovely post Kosha.

I loved the epi.

I had thought writers will make Anupamaa mahaan and show her forcing Vanraj to marry kavya. But that didn't happen. Thank god. Just loved each and everything Anupamaa said and you have correctly analysed everything.

Kavya ko itna gyaan doya sabne on self respect, but still in the end, Vanraj ya toh tum mujhse shaadi karoge ya toh jail jaoge 😵

I am so glad, no one attended their wedding.

And yayyyy Bapuji is back, Anu's biggest support system. Just love their scenes ❤️❤️❤️

Also since now shooting is allowed in mumbai, hopefully all will be back to shooting in mumbai by next week, so probably they will wrap the cancer track by next week.

Originally posted by: neo7

Lovely post Kosha.

I loved the epi.

I had thought writers will make Anupamaa mahaan and show her forcing Vanraj to marry kavya. But that didn't happen. Thank god. Just loved each and everything Anupamaa said and you have correctly analysed everything.

Kavya ko itna gyaan doya sabne on self respect, but still in the end, Vanraj ya toh tum mujhse shaadi karoge ya toh jail jaoge 😵

I am so glad, no one attended their wedding.

And yayyyy Bapuji is back, Anu's biggest support system. Just love their scenes ❤️❤️❤️

Also since now shooting is allowed in mumbai, hopefully all will be back to shooting in mumbai by next week, so probably they will wrap the cancer track by next week.

Thank you so much Niyo ❤️❤️

The options she gave to Vanraj were Sab kuchh apne favour mein rakha usne

I dont I am the only one but I feel pity for Vanraj. I dont want to feel pity for him, but my sympathetic side 😒

Bapuji wapas aa gaye bas Kinjal wapas jaaye, to sone pe suhaga

Precap dekh kar mujhe samajh nahin aa raha ki main hasoon ya raon

Hasne ka reason at least bapuji jo dil se anupama ko maante hain woh anupama ke saath honge

Rona isliye phir se anupama ke upar kaam ka bhoj bhad gaya yeh leela pakhi toshu to khuch karne wale hai nahin

Samar marketing kar lega

But phir se anupama ko 3,4 logon ko liye khana bana padega. Anupama ko to bahut thoda rest milega,

Leela bhi aage jaakur drama karegi anupama ki baa ko utni fikar nahin rahegi jitna vanraj ki

Yahi kahegi apni bahu anupama ke liye vanraj ko bhul gaye

Mujhe nahin lagta abhi sub khuch seedha seedha hone wala hai . Abhi to leela aur drama karegi

I am just glad the family followed HasLee and moved in away from VanYa, maybe with Anupamaa or maybe in a different cottage (how rich is Toshu to pay for so may cottages? 😆)

Though I know its temporary, mahaan Anupamaa will send them back. Why is she constantly trying to send everyone back to toxic Kavya and getting them to gulp her behaviour down, when she knows that all Kavya will do is damage everyone's lives?

PS, Vanraj needs to know that he cannot go on a walk without his phone, else the next thing he knows will be that everyone gets arrested. Talk about things escalating... 🤣

Kavya to bahut khush hogi ki use khuch karna bhi nahin pada aur yeh sub apne aap chale gaye

Kavya tabhi hyper hoti hai jub uska vanraj use ignore karta hai. Ae long as vanraj is not ignoring kavya. Kavya shaant rehti hai kavya ko baa bapuji pakhi toshu yeh sub apni life mein kya kar rahe hain kavya ko isse koi matlab nahin hota hai

Aisa to hai nahin vanraj 9 year mein bus kavya ke saath raha ho . Vanraj to kavya ke saath affair hote hue bhi anupama aur family ke saath raha hai. Tub to kavya ne 8 saath kabhi hangama nahin kiya tum apne bache apne parents ke saath kyon rehte ho

Kavya ne hangama isliye nahi kiya kyonki us time vanraj kavya ko ignore nahin karta tha

Kavya ne tub hangama kiya jub vanraj ne kavya ko fully ignore kiya

Vanraj need to make balance vanraj fail to make balance between wife and parents .

Vanraj ko bhi responible banna padega. Aisa nahin hota ki anupama se shaadi hui to anupama mein kami lagi to anupama ko chod kur kavya ke paas gaye

Ab kavya mein kami lagi to vanraj anupama ke paas chale gaye

Ab kavya mein kami hai to ab kya vanraj kya teesri shaadi karega ??. Aise to koi na koi kami to life partner mein rahegi to aise kub tuk vanraj bhagega aur aise kub tuk shaadi karta, rahega

So vanraj need to compromise and adjust and make balance in relation ship

Jub tuk bahut badi baat na ho tub tuk marriage mein adjust karke rehna chahiye

Shaadi hai koi gudde gudiya ka khel nahin

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Precap dekh kar mujhe samajh nahin aa raha ki main hasoon ya raon

Hasne ka reason at least bapuji jo dil se anupama ko maante hain woh anupama ke saath honge

Rona isliye phir se anupama ke upar kaam ka bhoj bhad gaya yeh leela pakhi toshu to khuch karne wale hai nahin

Samar marketing kar lega

But phir se anupama ko 3,4 logon ko liye khana bana padega. Anupama ko to bahut thoda rest milega,

Leela bhi aage jaakur drama karegi anupama ki baa ko utni fikar nahin rahegi jitna vanraj ki

Yahi kahegi apni bahu anupama ke liye vanraj ko bhul gaye

Mujhe nahin lagta abhi sub khuch seedha seedha hone wala hai . Abhi to leela aur drama karegi

Teri sui har baar ek hi baat pe atak jaati hai ki Anupamaa ko kitne logon ka khaana banana padega 😂😂

Ye toh dekho usko parivaar ke saath rehne ki khushi milegi. And also see she feels happy cooking for them, she doesn't feel burden. And ab toh kinjal bhi help karti hai usko. Jab family saath ho na ye sab kaam nahi lagta. Jo khushi family ke saath rehne main hai woh akele rehne main nahi. Galti Vanraj kare aur akeli Anupamaa kyun rahe. She deserves the love of whole family and the whole family truly loves her now. They have realised their mistakes and they deserve the chance to rectify their mistakes.

But abhi anupama ko serious bimari hai use cancer hai. To aisi haalat mein use jyaada se jyaada rest ki jarooraton

Anupama ko burden nahin lagta kyonki use khushi milti hai but practically itni bimari mein itna saare logon ka, kaam karna possible. Anupama ko fever bhad sakta uska dard bhad sakta hai

To agar baa toshu pakhi yeh sub rehne jaa rahe hain anupama ke saath to inhe anupama ke kaam mein help karna chahiye jo ki mujhe nahin lagta yeh baa pakhi toshu khuch karne wale

Anupama abhi toshu ke paas doodh ka gilaas degi aur pakhi ko favorite Sandwich and cold coffee degi. Mujhe nahin lagta yeh sub kaam karenge

And mujhe nahin lagta ki in sub ko apni galti ka realise hua hai kyonki agar aisa hota to ek baar yeh sub anupama ko force nahin karte ki tum divorce nahin do

I will not agree ki yeh teeno bus cancer ki wajah se anupama ko divorce dene ko nahin keh rahe they. Jub cancer nahin tha to bhi yeh log anupama ko divorce na dene ke liye force karte they

Even if they realise mistake but phir bhi jo unhone kiya hai uska result to unhe milna chahiye

25 year giving torture to tortureis not small thing bus galti realise ho gayi bus jo Past mein jo toture hua hai woh aasaani se chala jaayega

There was serial ( i will not take name) there is grand mother who was Very strict to her grwndson wife and grand mother use to love her grand son Very much

That grand son cheated his wife and marry to another girl

Thoughts that grand son wife ( first wife) grand mother husband aur uske father mother ka bahut acche se khayaal rakha. Even though grand mother use to love his grand son lot and use to Very strict to grand son wife. But jub uske grand son ne cheat kiya apni wife aur doosri biwi le aaya

To grand mother ko bura laga use laga ki uske pote ne galat kiya aur grand mother ne hi pote aur wife ( first wife ) ka divorce kar waya aur first wife ki shaadi i. A. S karawyi

Main baa ka galti realise tub hona maanogi jub baa ko lage ki haan vanraj ne sachmuch mein bahut bada paap kiya aise mein anupama ka divorce lena galat nahin

Parivaar mein achha lagta hai. But parivaar rehna tabhi acha lagta hai sabhi coaoprate kare

Ek bus maid ki tarah kaam karta rahe taane sunta raha to parivaar rehne se acha hai ki akele rahe

Originally posted by: surabhi01

But abhi anupama ko serious bimari hai use cancer hai. To aisi haalat mein use jyaada se jyaada rest ki jarooraton

Anupama ko burden nahin lagta kyonki use khushi milti hai but practically itni bimari mein itna saare logon ka, kaam karna possible. Anupama ko fever bhad sakta uska dard bhad sakta hai

To agar baa toshu pakhi yeh sub rehne jaa rahe hain anupama ke saath to inhe anupama ke kaam mein help karna chahiye jo ki mujhe nahin lagta yeh baa pakhi toshu khuch karne wale

Anupama abhi toshu ke paas doodh ka gilaas degi aur pakhi ko favorite Sandwich and cold coffee degi. Mujhe nahin lagta yeh sub kaam karenge

And mujhe nahin lagta ki in sub ko apni galti ka realise hua hai kyonki agar aisa hota to ek baar yeh sub anupama ko force nahin karte ki tum divorce nahin do

I will not agree ki yeh teeno bus cancer ki wajah se anupama ko divorce dene ko nahin keh rahe they. Jub cancer nahin tha to bhi yeh log anupama ko divorce na dene ke liye force karte they

Even if they realise mistake but phir bhi jo unhone kiya hai uska result to unhe milna chahiye

25 year giving torture to tortureis not small thing bus galti realise ho gayi bus jo Past mein jo toture hua hai woh aasaani se chala jaayega

There was serial ( i will not take name) there is grand mother who was Very strict to her grwndson wife and grand mother use to love her grand son Very much

That grand son cheated his wife and marry to another girl

Thoughts that grand son wife ( first wife) grand mother husband aur uske father mother ka bahut acche se khayaal rakha. Even though grand mother use to love his grand son lot and use to Very strict to grand son wife. But jub uske grand son ne cheat kiya apni wife aur doosri biwi le aaya

To grand mother ko bura laga use laga ki uske pote ne galat kiya aur grand mother ne hi pote aur wife ( first wife ) ka divorce kar waya aur first wife ki shaadi i. A. S karawyi

Main baa ka galti realise tub hona maanogi jub baa ko lage ki haan vanraj ne sachmuch mein bahut bada paap kiya aise mein anupama ka divorce lena galat nahin

Parivaar mein achha lagta hai. But parivaar rehna tabhi acha lagta hai sabhi coaoprate kare

Ek bus maid ki tarah kaam karta rahe taane sunta raha to parivaar rehne se acha hai ki akele rahe

Yehhh kya baat hui ??!!

Agar bacche farmaish kare toh every mother can teach her children ki, “beta I am fighting with cancer and going through treatments so it is high time for you to learn and take responsibility of yourself and mine till I get fine, this is your learning period since you are 16+”

Give instructions to children how to make food and how to take care of everyone’s demands till mom gets fine.

This is also part of parvarish and bacche ko ye sanskar dena bhi maa ka kam he hota hai so it’s high time anupama apne baccho ko apne sath rakkhe or unko thodi duniadari sikhaye.

Bacche duniadari or ghar ka kaam apne ap nahi sikhta hai, critical times mai jab Maa baccho par responsibility daalti hai tabhi sikhte hai.

Maa ka role sirf baccho ke hath mai ready cold coffee dena nahi hota hai, baccho ko kitchen mai push kar k cold coffee banwana bhi hota hai.

Aisa kahi nahi hota ki bimar maa baccho ko kisi or ke ghar bhej de just because she has to cook for all of them. Normally mothers aise time par baccho ko instructions deti hai about how to cook for other family members and how to take care of everyone on behalf of her.

A hi 2 ghante pehle hamaare kaafi garmi thi phir 5 minute mein baarishon hone lagi phir aisi baarish hui ki kamra paani se bhar gaya. Ab humidity ho gayi

Mere peeche ke kitchen garden mein talaab ban gaya hai aur tulsi ji ka paudha paani mein aadha doob gaya

Ab baarish band ho gayi dhoop nikal aayi