Crazy for the marriage

The moment Kavya said that the divorce has happened and I felt Hey Bhagwan, yeh kya hua. If Anirudhha troubled Kavya a little more then I would have been happy. Now Aniruddh has given the divorce, now both individuals who deserve each other will unite. Now Vanraj is in a big mess. Aniruddha and Anupama who were nice people got freedom and this Vanya will have to tolerate each other. Now the moment she said Vee 🤢 Kal hamari shaadi honewali hai. I was happy, but this Kavya looked so weird. Her smile irks me. But on the other side I felt this Vanraj 😈

Anupama saying kids to attend the Vanya wedding, I didn't like it at all. Why she is telling everybody to attend the same? If she wants to go then she should go or vice versa. She shouldn't have told him to attend the wedding. Now the family is talking about the surgery. Anupama was behaving the way that she is at her Mayka. The relations she has developed within 25 years are precious.

On the other side Kavya is happy for the wedding. Vanraj and the seat belt scene, he wanted to be free as usual. In order to be free from Anupama he cheated her and to be free from Kavya he is delaying the marriage. Now if he would have been tied in one bond then he would have got free easily but Maharaj has created a mess of his on life. Behave properly even when your mind says something else, or else Bhugto puri Zindagi. Karma gives you your big slap. That day is to be remembered when the family's revolved around Vanraj and now the family doesn't needs him to be happy. When anupama was not there there was not a smile on a single face.

We hear the most creepiest voice of Shri Vee's Kavya Maharani. She has become Harakhpadudi. Meaning one who has gone crazy in happiness. I have heard that the more you express your happiness, more are the chances that they get ruined. This is my experience also. Hope this formula works with Kavya. The reason I don't want the wedding is that I want Kavya to see troubled. The reason I want to happen the wedding, is to see Vanraj get troubled. So wedding happens or not, I am happy. And the Madam is dancing now, it felt that a Manjulika whose wish is getting fulfilled is dancing 😆 Leela said that "Naach nach ke yahan bhukamp la degi"

3 siblings share a talk of having a step mother. In reality, majority of the kids, hate their step parents. I know my friend, she is not talking to her step mother since 10 years. Kavya doesn't suit as a mother at all. Anupama saying to be happy in father's marriage. This Anupama has a misconception, Vanraj is not happy in this marriage. Though we as an audience want the marriage, but he is not happy with this marriage and that's a fact. At one point I feel three children are selfish, but they're right. Here thinking selflessly, won't get be logical. Do children dance in their father's marriage irrespective of the father's happiness? Atleast I wont dance.

Leela again funny and her anger is so cute. She was saying that Mein uska Khoon Kar dungi 😆 Kavya has brought a Sherwani for Vanraj. Vanraj was addressed as a prince. The meaning of his name is Lion. Meaning King. See When he was married, he was treated like a Lion, now he has been demoted to a prince. Now Pakhi comes and Kavya hands over to her. If I was her than I would have thrown the Sherwani right away. The dress which Kavya is going to wear, is the same she offered to Nandini during her engagement.

When an aged man marries with such a grandeur for a second time with a second lady, its such an awkward moment for all the family members. Its awkward because it doesn't happens frequently in the society. Instead people prefer to marry simply. Leela and Vanraj scene today, even Vanraj knew what Leela said was true. And thats why he was not able to argue more with Leela. He remained silent and that says it all.

Let's not stereotype acceptance of second marriages of parents by children. Wouldn't we want them to dance if Anupamaa was getting married to a good suitor?

It's more about why it is happening. The awkwardness is less towards the society and more about the shame they are feeling themselves. Had Anupamaa been getting married instead of Vanraj, society would still have commented, but the family would have faced it with pride and even given strong responses.

Leela still wants the most ideal wife for his son, the children still want Anupamaa at home because of their own respective needs, but they are too ashamed to ask for it (which apparently Vanraj still feels so entitled to, and blames Anupamaa for breaking the family)

Second marriages for middle-aged people should never be a taboo, but the real reasons should be considered as well.

I feel all three children were right and why should they go to attend wedding? Agar woh nahi jana chate hai to na jaye and there is nothing wrong in it.

Why should they bother about vanraj's happiness?? Just because vanraj was good father so children should attend father's second wedding!!!!! Yeh to bahot galat baat hai.

Anupama is also noticing that vanraj is not willing to do marriage with kavya that's why she asked baa to talk with vanraj so baccho ke samne vanraj ki kon si khushi ki woh baat kar rahi thi?!! Dodhi ek number ni🤢

And jab sab bed par ek sath baithe the tab sab ne already wedding attend karne se mana kar diya tha and kisi ne yaha tak bol diya tha that if you want to attend you can, but we don't want to go and she had agreed too still after some time she is asking children to go to the wedding🤢

Have you frgoten you are talking abut the Mahan Atma?sorry i broke my glasses today so using the old glasses and cant see properly .

any way i dont think that wedding would be easy going because Rakhi is back .

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Let's not stereotype acceptance of second marriages of parents by children. Wouldn't we want them to dance if Anupamaa was getting married to a good suitor?

It's more about why it is happening. The awkwardness is less towards the society and more about the shame they are feeling themselves. Had Anupamaa been getting married instead of Vanraj, society would still have commented, but the family would have faced it with pride and even given strong responses.

Leela still wants the most ideal wife for his son, the children still want Anupamaa at home because of their own respective needs, but they are too ashamed to ask for it (which apparently Vanraj still feels so entitled to, and blames Anupamaa for breaking the family)

Second marriages for middle-aged people should never be a taboo, but the real reasons should be considered as well.

Totally agree 👍

I myself got married at 35 after my divorce and a mother at 36. My friends have children in their teens.

My school bff went thru a really bad divorce and remarried when her son was 12 after getting his sole custody. A few weeks before the proposal his stepfather took his consent and then asked her for marriage. He told me masi she was not happy with dad and she has the right to be happy and I said yes. And he has a super supportive relationship with his step dad. Most are not even aware that he is his step dad.

I have lot of friends who have step parents and quite a few who have remarried even after having children. Except one case most are well adjusted.

It's all about being clear communication. Most children prefer when u tell them the truth once they are of age without any bs

Again this is from my perspective and cases around me in a totally urban Bengaluru

I think Anupama baccho ko wedding attend karne ko keh rahi hai because of Kavya 🐷 wo Anupama ko taunt marne ka bahana dhundhati rehti hai dekha nahi divorce ki khushi mai mithai layi aur Anupama ko bulaya na ki kisi aur ko🤢🤬 Anupama Kavya ki insecurities ko janti hai aur fir sab ko rehna to Kavya ke sath hi hai na? Fir Shadi mai na jane se hakikat badal to nahi jayegi na?

Aur agar Kavya nach rahi hai to wo apni taraf se sahi bhi hai Shah family and duniya ne usse bhi to bahot sunaya hai abb wo apne liye apne upar lage dusri aurat ka ilzam hatana chahti hai to wo bhi galat nahi hai bas wo abhi bhi Anupama se jealous aur insecure hoke tane marti hai ye galat hai

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Let's not stereotype acceptance of second marriages of parents by children. Wouldn't we want them to dance if Anupamaa was getting married to a good suitor?

It's more about why it is happening. The awkwardness is less towards the society and more about the shame they are feeling themselves. Had Anupamaa been getting married instead of Vanraj, society would still have commented, but the family would have faced it with pride and even given strong responses.

Leela still wants the most ideal wife for his son, the children still want Anupamaa at home because of their own respective needs, but they are too ashamed to ask for it (which apparently Vanraj still feels so entitled to, and blames Anupamaa for breaking the family)

Second marriages for middle-aged people should never be a taboo, but the real reasons should be considered as well.

You're right Niharika according to your perception

Regarding the first question you asked...Anupama if she gets a nice suitor then the children might get happy. My Masi (divorced) and Masa (widower) married for second time in their 40's. My Masa had 3 children and my Masi had none. Though my Masi was accepted by 3 of them with time ofcourse. The wedding was simple. It was in their house and exchanging garlands.

Now marrying with grandeur, I am still in a dual mind. I might accept my father's second marriage but wont be there if it is in grand way. I wont dance. Even if there was not an EMA. If Anupama died and then Vanya married. Its for Vanraj's happiness, I wont dance. Because I have imagined my mother with my father. Children are selfish, they want their needs to be fulfilled. Its just true in the case of this serial. But in reality we all get somewhat selfish. Children do get hurt if this was an EMA. For Anupama they might be happy, but I dont think they will dance.

Bolded lines: True. Might be they are shameful

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I feel all three children were right and why should they go to attend wedding? Agar woh nahi jana chate hai to na jaye and there is nothing wrong in it.

Why should they bother about vanraj's happiness?? Just because vanraj was good father so children should attend father's second wedding!!!!! Yeh to bahot galat baat hai.

Anupama is also noticing that vanraj is not willing to do marriage with kavya that's why she asked baa to talk with vanraj so baccho ke samne vanraj ki kon si khushi ki woh baat kar rahi thi?!! Dodhi ek number ni🤢

And jab sab bed par ek sath baithe the tab sab ne already wedding attend karne se mana kar diya tha and kisi ne yaha tak bol diya tha that if you want to attend you can, but we don't want to go and she had agreed too still after some time she is asking children to go to the wedding🤢

Sachu kidhu dodhi ek number ni

Amuk time to aa mane j samajh ma nathi aavti

Chhokrao ne nathi javu to tu kem force kare chhe

Originally posted by: kooki07

Have you frgoten you are talking abut the Mahan Atma?sorry i broke my glasses today so using the old glasses and cant see properly .

Get your glasses repaired 😆