Virat is the Victim... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

I can guarantee u virat would had left sai to get her reunite with her so called past lover or bf & never would had taunted her or keep bringing her past b/w them just to get back to sai.

So are you suggesting that Sai should unite Virat and Pakhi?? Or should she stay silent while Pakhi keep insulting her because Virat gave his ex-lover all the right to taunt his wife? Is that what Sai is supposed to do?

Also it is Virat who let's his past come in between them. Why can't he clear everything with Sai? What do you expect a wife to do otherwise?

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Only question why topic name is virat is victim ? Why not virat is culprit ?

Is it to mock virat's fans ?

Let me answer regarding Sai's bf question.

Virat don't play double game , it was he who left pakhi once he knew about samrakhi , I can guarantee u virat would had left sai to get her reunite with her so called past lover or bf & never would had taunted her or keep bringing her past b/w them just to get back.to sai.

Surely he will leave sai if she have another lover.He will not force her into his relationship.He may not love anyone after her we know how deeply he is fallen for her but surely will unite her with her lover

Sai and virat are both flawed.But most of the time we analyse only sai's feelings not virat's. He is facing taunts in the family due to sai.She also yells at him.He also knows she doesn't love him but only cares him.Virat is a person who seems to be happy but he has internal conflict. He never had any pretty moments in past now he is ashamed of it and is neither sure of his future. He wasn't showered by unconditional love his mother's love was hindered by BK.so when a girl with unconditional love came to his life he doesn't want to share her love even to his mother it is obivous in his words.

I feel so annoyed when everyone criticizes virat but not sai.Both are equally wrong in every matter of their conflict

Originally posted by: janecastle

So are you suggesting that Sai should unite Virat and Pakhi?? Or should she stay silent while Pakhi keep insulting her because Virat gave his ex-lover all the right to taunt his wife? Is that what Sai is supposed to do?

Did I said that plz point out line I would like to see where I said that. I only stated how virat would had reacted . I never said virat will reunite , I said he will leave her , interferring in other's matter is Sai's fav hobby not virat.

If virat torturing sai so much why can't she leave virat on once 4 all, who is stopping her , vaise bhi she only do what she want to . What virat or pakhi do is none of her business

U tell me why can't sai leave virat ? Don't tell virat is not letting her do so or she is a abla naari that she can't apply 4 annulment without virat's help.

Both women are in stalemate situation due to Virat's inconsistent behavior.

He is a nice guy and all that no doubt, but at the end of the day, he doesn't reflect on his past words, actions and its impact on his current situation.

Virat is so oblivious to Pakhi's and Sai's POV when it comes to him.

He wants Sai to understand by his actions, but he cannot process Pakhi's actual words.

He knows exactly what Sai thinks about him and Pakhi (i..e Pakhi loves him and he has buried his love deep in his heart due to their changed relationship) but still he doesn't think that he needs to clear his stand.

He couldn't understand why Pakhi was crying despite knowing what she feels and that she just witnessed him almost kiss Sai. Its like he thinks he made his stand clear, and he doesn't care about hers.

Yesterday's discussion:

No one tells Virat is a victim. Whatever he's facing today is his action's consequences. It was he who didn't stop Pakhi from entering into the room, telling about his commitment to Sai during marriage rituals, siding by Pakhi at occasions. Now he's facing the consequences for not clearing or being soft towards Pakhi.

Him being soft towards Pakhi isn't about siding by her, his nature is soft. He still respects the relationship between him and Pakhi, friend or SIL, he's much more guilty that for him, Pakhi or Samrat has to suffer. You have watched KD, so you know better than me that Rono never loved Badshah that much or owed his life to him like Virat loved Samrat. He's not that person who'll go on becoming mad on a person whom he doesn't care.. Accept or not, his best and worst side is for Sai . It's Sai who brings out Virat's best side and worst side. We become angry on those we care about..

He's now tired of Pakhi and actually knows whatever he tells to Pakhi will boomerang on him or Sai only. So he tries to avoid, he's of non-confrontational nature and I don't think so it's really a flaw. Even if it's he's improving, we can't expect him to be the mad man at one day. That's a different topic of how he behaved with Sai because it was out of character, and we both know it's a copy paste thing. Pakhi doesn't instigate Virat, she tried to instigate his male ego.

I have only one question. If Sai believes Virat loves Pakhi then why doesn't she bring this up when everything is normal. Why does she claim her rights on her husband when she believes he loves his SIL? Why does she only bring this up when she wants to hurt him and doesn't have a problem otherwise.

I am laughing at the way people justify her nature of creating scenes in public and expect everyone to turn a blind eye to her mistakes. Even if someone has done bigger mistakes how does it justifies her wrongdoings?

I would like to see the reactions when Virat will question her character. If Sai has reasons to believe Virat is two-timing and question him in public instead of private then Virat should be given the same privileges.

Agree... I get irritated at the leeway he gives paapi. He stand aside watching the women argue between them due to the mess he created like he has nothing to do with it.

What's more irritating, some people are taking sai talking abour their weird relationship as character shaming. Pakhi and Virat relationship does border the line of decency. His sister in law admitted his feelings to her and expect him to remain celibate die to his foolish promise.

That man admitted in the past how special paapi is for him and can't stand a word against her. The man has shamed his own character by his actions - needn't anyone for it.🤦‍♀️

That being said, I like the little progress he is making with regards to sai and will continue root for both. He just need to be firm and draw the lines with paapi and stop projecting himself as a victim

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Did I said that plz point out line I would like to see where I said that. I only stated how virat would had reacted .

If virat torturing sai so much why can't she leave virat on once 4 all, who is stopping her , vaise bhi she only do what she want to . What virat or pakhi do is none of her business

U tell me why can't sai leave virat ? Don't tell virat is not letting her do so or she is a abla naari that she can't apply 4 annulment without virat's help.

Well Sai did leave when Virat "threw" her out and refused to come back to him when he tried to bring her back. Then Virat got shot and Sai is behaving like any normal wife would do. She also made it very clear that she will leave him once he recovers. So I really don't understand what you are trying to question here?

And what Virat and Pakhi do becomes her business when the latter taunts her for everything and the former remains a mute spectator most of the time.

Anyways this discussion is pointless because you clearly can't see Virat's faults and is dragging down Sai for no reason. As far as I am concerned, both Sai and Virat are flawed characters and has made their own set of mistakes, one more than the other. And both of them gets called out for their mistakes, except by a few who can't seem to see anything beyond their favorite.

Originally posted by: Magnifique

Agree... I get irritated at the leeway he gives paapi. He stand aside watching the women argue between them due to the mess he created like he has nothing to do with it.

What's more irritating, some people are taking sai talking abour their weird relationship as character shaming. Pakhi and Virat relationship does border the line of decency. His sister in law admitted his feelings to her and expect him to remain celibate die to his foolish promise.

That man admitted in the past how special paapi is for him and can't stand a word against her. The man has shamed his own character by his actions - needn't anyone for it.🤦‍♀️

That being said, I like the little progress he is making with regards to sai and will continue root for both. He just need to be firm and draw the lines with paapi and stop projecting himself as a victim

And I hate how people try to push this false theory of how virat isn’t stern with Pakhi because he’s soft lmao he clearly wasn’t soft when he was verbally and physically abusing Sai

it seems to be people have genuinely forgotten when Virat asked Pakhi to not come into his room UNLESS she had some "kaam"; also people have forgotten how he told Pakhi he did not want her around; or how he told Pakhi he did not love her; or how he asked her to leave when he was in hospital.

So please explain to me how many times he needs to say this and how often he needs to say it so that people can give him a break

Also if this topic is in response to my topic then i welcome the discussions.