Chaat ki aa gayi plate but chat needed for the fresh slate... - Page 4

Originally posted by: maahi11

Wow what a lovely post, the chaat seems thekha and if the chaat is not theekha its not a chaat. 

what an amazing post and well written 

1stly yes even I thought of the fact that itna thord phord karne kay baad bhi no one came to the room, and if i am not mistaken Kaku must be waiting for her to call Virat for dinner. So Kaku should atleast visit the room if she does, 

I hope she does tomorrow. Would love to see how she cajoles her susheel bahu after the tod phod

Like I posted earlier atleast they should have updated usa Mausi with the developments she was packing her bags and dint had anything either. 

Haan, i wondered, khud khaa pee kar phir usha maushi ko surprise karenge kya? 😆

2ndly, he had already told sai that she means to him (obvio he doesnt realize his feelings tabhi bola i dont know why I dint liked Sai going out for lunch with her prof or that he wanted to spend some time with her on trip and today for lunch) I dont really felt the need to clarify Sai that he has no feelings left for Pakhi because if Virat had clarified her or corrected her it would meant he is giving justification. Love is slow process and for them before love its imp to realize each others worth in each others life. If its portrayed and Cvs takes effort it can be portrayed beautifully, the feel of love is different, the idea of falling for someone hard. But before that ehsaas they both need to grow more nurture and acknowledge each other. 

I think it is not justification but clarification that is needed. They need to have this open conversation. Simply because the 'condition' was placed very vocally and repeated on multiple occasions. So the part about having it gone must be explicitly stated instead of feeling resentful about the other not responding... The slow love story is a joy to watch. 

Earlier Virat might be confused. He might not able to come in terms of his feelings. He made Pakhi clear that he doesnt loves her earlier I thought he should draw a line for Pakhi Which i guess he did today by saying why cant i bring food for Sai today he did replied Pakhi that if she ask any question she will get a reply and earlier he told Pakhi in front of everyone that Pakhi behaves differently with rest and different with Sai. I used to feel when Virat says zimadari uttana hai become more of an ehsaan, but somehow I am getting a feel that he is trying to come in terms of the fact that he is married. Whether Virat was in love with Pakhi or not thats subjective but he wanst sure shot ready to marry anyone let alone Sai. But he married when did not get time to even come in term of his feelings, Sai and Virat are that two individual who trying to know each other payaar tho dur hai. Where Virat is double of Sai's age. So he will take time to comprehend their feelings there attachments, somehow Virat is mesmerized by Sai's daring behaviors coz that what he needed to be inbuilt but its his childhood that had made him submissive. Yes Submissive I feel he is one  the way story has been projected so far I feel he is like is mother a submissive in thought and actions. Though he became an IPS officer but for me that was to please his family and to get recognized by them. From childhood he saw his mother been ill treated by the family members where an officer like him should have raised voice against the abusive, bad and unacceptable behavior of his family. Instead he let his fam treat his mother no less then a servant. he was shocked when aai compared him with his father, what aai meant was jitni bhi achi parvarish kari tumhari genes to tumhe tumre dad kay hi mile and so u misbehaved with ur wife or should I say when other day pakhi mentioned that u need to teach some manners to your wife u found this was best way to do so. Aai told Virat she saw Ninad in him, So was this the reason he apologized Sai because  he could not accept the comparison of him to his father, that somehow he hated his father for ill treating his mother but surprisingly never did anything to protect her honour. I guess Virat has this broken childhood, a childhood where he has seen his fam ill treating his mother and all wanted a recognition and acceptance from his fam and therefore becoming an IPS officer gave him that recognition from his family

He's older, but not that old... The part about his father is now confusing. He was shown as someone who idolised his father, but may be it is only from the 'duty' pov because the man is clearly not a good human being. If he was taken aback, as I mentioned the day before, I don't know why he idolised him all these years. Or was it surprise that she said he behaved like his dad because he did not know his father was like that. But it is unlikely .. I do agree he has had a broken childhood... a toxic one for sure. 

Today epic for me was finally Pakhi saying Virat is not a good friend, for me Virat and Pakhi were not friends at all let alone best friends. Yes Virat cares for Pakhi like he cares for all other family members probably Karishma too. In 1st first case Virat and Pakhi were attracted to each other they how did Pakhi become his best friend bhai dosti humne bhi ki hai and it takes time to call anyone ur best friend let alone that person u thought u loved, whose number you lost and had no ways to reach out to her. and then u meet her as ur hone wali bhabhi. tho yeh best friend kaha say aya. 

The biggest scam in this show is this forced love story between two people who didn't even know each other's names 😆 To me it's just like virat carrying a monkey on his back, na jaan na pehchan bas peeche pad gayi bhabhi... 

Originally posted by: Ishradivani

Good evening ☀️

Aap aaye bahaar aayi ❤️❤️❤️

Today I waited for your post more than any other day. I couldn't find significant leads in the episode which is why I wanted to read your post and then go back watch again. So I was refreshing the feed many times since morning😂 . Chalo der aaye durust aaye.

Them feeding each other was such a significant moment. There is no awkwardness at all which is supposed to be a inherent part of a deal marriage. These people have come a long way and started holding bahut maayne in each other's life. Personally for me feeding someone with my own hands is a very intimate thing.  I only do that with the closest of ones. So I really wanted to know from you if that is considered intimate in a spousal relationship???? 

There is a Columbia University research paper on intimacy when feeding one another. I had read something a few years ago and it had remained stuck. It must be on google. 

Our dewdrop still cares about that family 🥺🥺🥺. Ye ladki bhi na !!!!! I also felt aaj virat thoda guilty tha shuru mein. He didn't even want to eat.

The relief that spread over ashiwini's face on seeing them together was so pure. I also liked that fact she considered sai as her own with every bit of her heart. "Mai aayi hu uski " was so poignant. And the small prayer she sent out later is the voice of everyone watching the show🧿🧿🧿

Patralekha ke baare mein kya hi kahun !!!! Sai was absolutely right when she said that she is only putting her self respect at stake. All this taanabaazi is only revealing the ugliest side of otherwise susheel sanskari shahanukulli maratha khaandaan ki beti. She has really slipped into a state of obsession about virat. She is unable to look at the other side even when virat has vocalised it in  sound mind in spasth words. Infact he expressed disgust about Sai's thoughts when revealing to pakhi. But still vahini is obsessed🤦🤦🤦. It makes me wonder sometimes about the values she inherited. Sai and virat have never seen a happy married couple all their life . Still these two have high values with regard to every relationship not just pati patni. On contrary to it patralekha grew up in a happy going household but failed to acquire these values. We can't attribute her behavior as a reaction to virat's marriage or vaada. She has not made any true relationship in chavan household not even with maansi. She is just being a oppurtunist and taking up every chance at hand to belittle sai and keep herself at a higher pedestal. Her " Tum mere dost nahi ho " left me in splits. Behen dosti ka matlab bhi pata hai tumhe 🤦🤦🤦🤦

I think she is a product of bad parenting. Her parents have shielded her from all realities of life and failed to make her a person who could make proper choices in conflicts. And it is clear that she has never been taught to share, let go or be largehearted for her own good. 

I can't understand her agenda. Maan lete hai ki sai will leave after her course and samrat will never return. Then is she expecting chavans to get her married to virat because she has been susheel all these days and kitna khyal rakhti hai virat ka as per bhavani words????? There is something seriously off with her characterisation. We just can't understand the motto behind all her actions🤷🤷🤷. And the actress is making it impossible to understand the nuances of pakhi of there are any 🤦.

It does look like that.. she felt hope in the backdoor entry she could make. Even if not but the fact that Samrat would not return and Virat would be single and pining for her would then have a clear chance of Virat asking the family to allow him to marry her... it was quite possible if Sai hadn't come into the picture. 

The audacity with which she enters sairat room and taunts them on their relationship is 😡😡😡. What would she have done if samrat was not virat's brother but a friend and rest of the story remained same???? Arghhhhh I really hate her !!!!!!!

Thankyou for the post. It was lovely and I get to learn a lot from you everyday❤️. Hope you have shifted to the new place. I badly want to hit ur place now for all the dahi puri love you shared and maybe try one too 😂😂😂

Lo, i went through the entire post of yesterday because you said you left a comment over there and here it is! 😆 Aa jaao.. address bhi de deti hoon. Elco street, Bandra. Kab aana hai? 😆

Originally posted by: scarlett22

I actually felt sorry for Pakhi today. I think it's the first time I felt sorry for her. Her dialogues were totally undignified and she let herself down so badly. I wish the nuances were acted out better though. 

You did, right? Me too. When she was talking to her mother, it was such a telling moment that she has been raised badly -- without preparing her to face the outside world. It was like raising a princess in a cocoon and finding her a king to keep her like a queen. No battles to be fought. But look, what it has turned her into! 

Originally posted by: msin

@maahi11 Virat is not double sayi’s age ..

He just completed his IPS training and got his GC posting .. so he can be 27-29 years old .. yes sayi is now 18-19 years old .. so there’s a gap of 8-10 years .. which is big no doubt but not unusual ..

Janaki I liked the episode today .. both navra baiko made efforts to make the other happy ..

I like ashwini tai ka thoughts .. she wanted to feed Usha mausi .. and gave her tiffin to her .. she heard sayi was planning to leave the house .. but how did she assume .. sayi would stay hungry and without  money in Chavan house .. 

When she peeked into their room she was relieved . Thank god she did not disturb them .. but it would be good if she tells them together .. not to argue outside infront of others .. atleast stick to each other in public .

Show a joint front .. 

I like the cute interaction between SaiRat they know how to bring humour in the conversation..they enjoy each other’s company .. 

Pakhi ka intervention was bad ... and she’s wrong on many levels .. virat cannot be so immature not to understand her behaviour 

Police officers are trained to understand body language conversations.. they are supposed to pick up cues ..

Yeh kaise interrogation karega ... criminals ki 

But today, I thought he was observing Sai and PP's interaction very, very closely  -- it was also the first since Sai's outburst in their private space as well as after the public fight. And it seemed like he almost joined the dots. The lingering look that he had when she was walking out from the room, after completely putting herself through self-brought beizzati... 

Anyways I feel virat is pandering to pakhi because she’s samrat ki wife and he respects that relationship..

He feels bad for her and wants to maintain the status quo 

But he should have told sayi in front of pakhi or even infront of others . That pakhi is your jethani ..a representative of Samrat dada .. her scolding is like a blessing for us 

After I read this, I think the reason why he keeps telling Sai, "Tum Paakhi se aise baat kyun kar rahi ho" is because of the whole "Bade bhai ki wife" wala izzat that she should have. He even introduced her as "Mere Samrat Dada ki wife" to Sai when they first met at their wedding. But the guy has to really spell it out verbally to make his own wife understand his "emotion". 

Pakhi would have got the message .. 

Pakhi herself revealed herself to sayi n virat .. you are bewafa, dhokhebaaz .. she behaved like a spurned lover and not any sister in law 

How can virat deny this to sayi .. and say u are mistaken 

I am glad atleast sayi said why don’t u tell ur pain to virat sir .. and also virat sir cares a lot for you pakhi di 

So virat should get the message clearly . Till he clears the MU it’s an embargo to their relationship..

I know people argue that Sai's constant "you are nobody" makes him feel she is in this only because of the deal. But just like Sai can see his care for her and doesn't know if she should take it at face value and go with the flow, he should also be able to see why she is holding herself back despite being almost as much in love or the process of falling in love as he is. He only needs to speak up once. 

Good post. I watched it purely for the entertainment yesterday and they didn't disappoint. 🤣

- Gabbar on his face made a comeback and he looked happy (unlike the other two shers).

- Pakhi's statement Virat, tum Sai ko dhek kar kamzoor pad jaate ho is like saying Sai is his weakness, which Sai also heard.

- Pakhi realizes its not longer a deal, they are pati-patni in true sense, unknown to them.

- Sai said humare kamare mein, which a surprise given that few days back she said its Virat's room

- Pakhi in her anger behaved like a wife, who caught her husband in a compromised position with another girl where she wanted to click pictures and expose them in front of family. Until Sai mentioned that she crossed her limit and if she would say the same to Mohit-Karishma, Pakhi didn't even realize the things she said. Her expression was like what are you talking about?

- Though Virat agreed with many things Sai said, it would have been nice coming from him, but today he really listened. He had sided Pakhi so many times before without giving a second thought .

 Virat was watching and hearing a rally of taanes between the two, wonder if he will need a neck massage after the multiple twists and turns he had to make to look and listen to Sai and Pakhi.

- He did notice that Sai cares a lot about Pakhi and tries to control herself unlike with his family, only coz she thinks Virat loves Pakhi.  

-He missed his chance again, atleast he could have said wife or u r my bhai ki wife and you shd not be saying such things, but if he does, then how will show go on forever.

- For the first time, he actually demanded Sai to feed him but in a cute loving jalebi kind of way and she understood and obliged for a change. See how easy it is with Sai, just treat her with love. Lets see how long he controls his Hulk mode.

- when Pakhi said dhokebaaz, it was nothing but repeat of what Sai told him the other day, your behavior (with me) is nothing less than dhoka to Pakhi didi, which he didn't agree that day, but today Pakhi confirmed that Sai was right in reading her.

Best was after the Pakhi's first taana, Virat was like kuch kaam tha or you just came to say this. 😆

I want to see how she wil twist all this to say they did her beizzati tomorrow.

Sai still didn't apologize about her behavior. Will we get a continuation of the dinner tomorrow?

I do want them to carrying on eating as if uninterrupted even its its just a 30 second to 1 min scene.

How smartly amd easily you play with the words😆.. 

most of the time i find it difficult to understand your write up..mujaey simple english samaj mein atha hey but not like yours😆.. Are you relative of Shashi Tharoor?😆

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Sai's "Aapko mere haath se khaana hai, toh saaf saaf boliye na... ye drama karne ki kya zaroorat hai" -- it is a symbolic line. It applies to their entire relationship and the issue it faces -- lack of spashthata. 

Was waiting for your analysis Janki!! Aap late hoti ho to hum log desperate ho jate hai😊!

Thank you for the analysis! spot on!!

Sai's above sentence is the biggest cue Virat should take. He is old and experienced enough to know that if he wants something from Sai, just tell her straight out, Mil jayega! Khana kya hug or kiss bhi!!