Chaat ki aa gayi plate but chat needed for the fresh slate... - Page 2

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Posted: 2 months ago

Originally posted by jankiraghav


Good afternoon sisterhood! 🌷🌷

Today the mood is built for an evening chaat outing 😜

Ab the "make up fight" menu was so tempting that a visit to the chaat house is mandatory. 😅😅😅 Whoever wants to join please do... I promise lip smacking dahi pooris and whatever you like. Kisi ke Saath share Karna ho toh unhe bhi Lete aana 😂🤗😜

Picking my moments from today --

Today Chavan Saheb gave lessons in how food is broken down into energy. But does he know that for a third person watching the act of food-sharing and feeding between a couple, it is a big indicator of the level of intimacy in their relationship... It has been a very established fact of intimacy that sharing a plate of food, feeding one another -- and that too with the same spoon -- is one of the 'physical' intimacies that are shared among the closest people -- especially spouses. 

Two people witnessed their moment of intimacy -- Aai, with all her good wishes and sincere prayer to keep them safe from evil eyes; and then the evil eye herself, who couldn't stop applauding them for their 'beshkimti' private moment in their private space and even rue the fact that she didn't have a camera on her to click the picture to share on the Chavan family WhatsApp group...

It made me think of the most commonly asked question: Does good win over evil or does evil triumph?

Aai - in her moment of anxiety and worry when she learnt that Sai was leaving the house, instinctively assured Usha Maushi and rushed to stop Sai from leaving. At that moment, it appeared as if Ashwini did not have the hope that Virat would have sobered and been in the frame of mind to stop Sai from leaving -- or perhaps that he would even know that Sai was leaving. For the first time, she appeared to be in no mood to pander to Virat which is understood by the fact that she was first concerned about Sai and Usha having a meal more than Virat. (and of course, Bhavani could only think of Chavan niwas ki maryada rakhne wala mard being hungry). 

The moment Ashwini sees Virat and Sai feeding each other the morsels of the meals, she knows they are taking steps towards reconciliation and leaves with a sincere prayer to save them from all evil eyes and to give them the faith to trust one another to rebuild that which has been damaged.

Patralekha witnesses that same moment in her moment of newfound hope that the fight has been the "ultimate"-- almost like a nail in the coffin in which the marriage was brought home. Yes, wasn't she aware that it was a marriage that was lying in a "coffin" that would be eventually buried once the consideration (Reason) of the deal between her 'imaginary husband' and his 'deal wife' was complete -- that she would become a doctor and leave? It was always supposed to be a 'dead marriage'. At the back of her mind, she was always worried about the deal wali shaadi becoming a 'dil wali shaadi' because she knows cohabiting in the same room can never leave two people untouched (not physically) by one another's love and affection. in between, she has witnessed the moments of Virat's conviction for Sai, his support to her against his family-- something that she could never have for herself when she needed it the most. When he refused to take her hand in marriage, it was because of this "family" that he rejected her... It also makes me wonder why does she not harbour a grudge against the family, actually? Is it because she thinks they would have eventually accepted her as 'wholeheartedly' (pseudo-feelings) as they have done now or because she knows that the only way to avenge her "beizzati" is to use the family as a crutch/cover? 

So, Patralekha until now never witnessed Sai and Virat's moments after their fights and disagreements that she thought were big enough for "Virat apne aap ko kuch kar na le"... Today, was the first time she actually witnessed their intimacy that she had only once heard of during a conversation between Ashwini and Sai. She actually witnessed them 'breathing life' into what she thought was the 'dead' marriage. 

The face-off between Sai-Virat and Delusional Didi was a pretty good one because Virat did not actually stay silent this time.  Thank God for small mercies... Usi par hum zinda Hain...

Loved each of Sai's dialogues to Delusional Didi -- and each coming not as a retort to the 'taunt' but as genuine advise. It might appear as a reply to her acerbic comments about husband and wife, but Sai with all her goodness actually wishes well for Vahini. 

Right from her reminder about her 'atmasamman' to PP's 'beizzati' rant and her reminder to PP about her 'conduct' in a couple's room. 

In fact, Sai brought up the issue of the 'relationship' of "bura lagna" and expectations between Virat and PP and it was another 'missed chance' from Virat to clarify the 'sach' between Sai and PP. 

Of course, one would desire that he should really open his mouth spashthly and make the stand clear because the "mera sach tumhare sach se alag hai" has been said to both Sai and Vahini but the spashthta is yet to be communicated to at least the 'wife'. I think it was a definite moment where he could have addressed it and backed Sai's comment about Mohit and Karishma with equally stern words about it being the space that belongs to the husband and wife. Does anyone believe in striking while the iron is hot? It was the perfect moment to end this entire "butting in" business. But no, how would we continue watching the show with 'special effects of zehereeli vahini'?

Moment of the day: 

To me, the moment of the day came from Patralekha's conversation with her mother:

"Ek baat poochun... Aapke aur Baba ke beech mein kabhi aisa hota hai ki aap dono ke beech khoob jhagda hua ho aur aap dono hi baad me maan gaye hon.."

"Haan, ek baar kya, aisa hazaar baar hua hai. Aur hum dono hi kya, har pati patni mein aisa hi hota hai..." 

"Matlab Sai aur Virat bhi pati patni ban gaye hain?"... 

It was not easy for her to witness the moment when she saw them breathing life into what she assumed was a dead body between them. All the time, so far, she has walked into their space when they have been silent, at a distance from each other physically or emotionally -- when they have been fighting or anxiety taking over their conversations. She has seen them turning their backs on each other in public. She has always found the space between them, where she could slide in and make her presence felt. Today, was the first time she witnessed that space had been "sealed". She could not find that space even when they were physically distanced apart -- when Sai was nowhere in close physical proximity to Virat, when she was outside the house and even when Virat was brooding alone in a distant corner. Yet, there was no space for her to slide in because it remained occupied by Sai even in her absence. When she tried to breach that space, she was snubbed and pushed away hard. 

And finally, she witnessed them 'sealing' that space they had created in their own moment of loss. Her meltdown in private was her acknowledgement of the fact that she had been trying to find her hope so far, assuming that the 'dead' would eventually be buried and she would have that space to herself because it should have originally "belonged" to her. But that is not going to be the case. A woman's instincts about a man are strong. And Patralekha's intuition about Virat's 'connection' with Sai has been right from the first time she heard him speak of her. 

Her mother's words were a reminder to her about the world's biggest fact, as Ashwini said, "Pati patni ke beech me kya chalta hai, ye sirf unhe hi pata hota hai.."

It would be so apt if Patralekha can still accept the reality and decide to find her 'atmasamman' that Sai spoke of. The reason why she feels the "beizzati" is not because someone else is doing it to her but because she is actually keeping her 'atmasamman' at stake to be able to get a oneupmanship in the power struggle that she's actually running alone -- "Sai jeet hi gayi" ... But Sai is actually running no race! 


I can't help but ask --ye Vedi Vahini ke room mein aise kya special acoustics use kiye hain that she can get away with all kinds of sounds, screamings and vase breaking -- without drawing the attention of the ever-ready sound investigators in Chakram niwas? 🤔😑🙄 Right from her suhaagraat wali cry "Main tumse pyaar karti hoon Virat" to her screaming all day of the never-ending Sunday and the ultimate tehes nehes of the pots and trinkets in the room-- and no one can hear her?😑😑😑 Kamaal hai! Aur wahan, lead couple ke bedroom se toh whispers bhi udd udd kar bahar aa jaate hain? Ye kaisi nainsaafi hai? 😒👿


Coming to the "sealing space" part: There is a lot left to be desired, a lot left to be stated and clarified. A lot of unanswered questions need to be asked again and answered spashthly (Will Websters' or Oxford accept the entry of this word to be included??😎🤓) There are unsaid emotions that need to be ironed out. And of course, the latest knot that has been added to the already tangled rope with the public spat needs to be "untied" eventually.

The attempt at reconciliation is filled with tender moments in the evident effort to move on from the ugly spat --most real life couples make the mistake of pushing away the crux of the fight aside while trying to first broker peace. But in this case, the marriage is far from being a rock solid one. The attempt has the potential to come down like a bridge built with a pack of cards that can never be strong enough to withstand even someone blowing a mild wind by their mouth at it -- and unfortunately there are more than a handful people waiting to bring their precarious bridge crashing down. Someone play the 'London Bridge is Falling Down' rhyme for them for tips... 

Sai's "Aapko mere haath se khaana hai, toh saaf saaf boliye na... ye drama karne ki kya zaroorat hai" -- it is a symbolic line. It applies to their entire relationship and the issue it faces -- lack of spashthata. 🤥🤕🥴

******

So, Why does it seem that 'evil' can win over good? Does it always win over good? Does Good really triumph over evil? 

Now, I first want to say that by 'evil' I don't mean people are "Evil". They do evil things because of warped reasons that make them feel justified in trying all means to achieve the 'goal'. It also depends on who is telling the story that decides who is 'good' and who is 'evil'. 

It depends on the "good". I don't think it is fair to generalise that good will always triumph. Good has the potential to triumph but in an ongoing war between good and evil, evil can definitely win if the good is unwilling to go far enough to thwart the bad. The weakness of the 'good' in a war is that it does not think of "outsmarting" the evil by hook or by crook -- using any necessary means, at the cost of conscience, is the doing of the evil. The goodness of the 'good' actually makes it vulnerable and easier to defeat. 

Evil thrives on selfishness and greed (for power, oneupmanship or whatever be the consideration). Evil does not conform to rules, values or even ethics because it puts survival first. 

That makes it even more significant for the 'good' to do much more than just believing in its value system... if not, evil can certainly appear like it is trampling the good, although deep within the fruits are only borne by the good. 

It's time for high-tea, but what would a high tea 🍵🍵🍵 party be without the dose of coffee ☕☕☕

Aaj aane mein der huyi, lekin aa hi gayi 

Kaisa tha din, do baatein pyaar ki kar ke batao na... bhook mitao na! 

🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️

Love you all,

❤️J 

 


Wow what a lovely post, the chaat seems thekha and if the chaat is not theekha its not a chaat. 


what an amazing post and well written 

1stly yes even I thought of the fact that itna thord phord karne kay baad bhi no one came to the room, and if i am not mistaken Kaku must be waiting for her to call Virat for dinner. So Kaku should atleast visit the room if she does, 


Like I posted earlier atleast they should have updated usa Mausi with the developments she was packing her bags and dint had anything either. 

2ndly, he had already told sai that she means to him (obvio he doesnt realize his feelings tabhi bola i dont know why I dint liked Sai going out for lunch with her prof or that he wanted to spend some time with her on trip and today for lunch) I dont really felt the need to clarify Sai that he has no feelings left for Pakhi because if Virat had clarified her or corrected her it would meant he is giving justification. Love is slow process and for them before love its imp to realize each others worth in each others life. If its portrayed and Cvs takes effort it can be portrayed beautifully, the feel of love is different, the idea of falling for someone hard. But before that ehsaas they both need to grow more nurture and acknowledge each other. 


Earlier Virat might be confused. He might not able to come in terms of his feelings. He made Pakhi clear that he doesnt loves her earlier I thought he should draw a line for Pakhi Which i guess he did today by saying why cant i bring food for Sai today he did replied Pakhi that if she ask any question she will get a reply and earlier he told Pakhi in front of everyone that Pakhi behaves differently with rest and different with Sai. I used to feel when Virat says zimadari uttana hai become more of an ehsaan, but somehow I am getting a feel that he is trying to come in terms of the fact that he is married. Whether Virat was in love with Pakhi or not thats subjective but he wanst sure shot ready to marry anyone let alone Sai. But he married when did not get time to even come in term of his feelings, Sai and Virat are that two individual who trying to know each other payaar tho dur hai. Where Virat is double of Sai's age. So he will take time to comprehend their feelings there attachments, somehow Virat is mesmerized by Sai's daring behaviors coz that what he needed to be inbuilt but its his childhood that had made him submissive. Yes Submissive I feel he is one  the way story has been projected so far I feel he is like is mother a submissive in thought and actions. Though he became an IPS officer but for me that was to please his family and to get recognized by them. From childhood he saw his mother been ill treated by the family members where an officer like him should have raised voice against the abusive, bad and unacceptable behavior of his family. Instead he let his fam treat his mother no less then a servant. he was shocked when aai compared him with his father, what aai meant was jitni bhi achi parvarish kari tumhari genes to tumhe tumre dad kay hi mile and so u misbehaved with ur wife or should I say when other day pakhi mentioned that u need to teach some manners to your wife u found this was best way to do so. Aai told Virat she saw Ninad in him, So was this the reason he apologized Sai because  he could not accept the comparison of him to his father, that somehow he hated his father for ill treating his mother but surprisingly never did anything to protect her honour. I guess Virat has this broken childhood, a childhood where he has seen his fam ill treating his mother and all wanted a recognition and acceptance from his fam and therefore becoming an IPS officer gave him that recognition from his family


Today epic for me was finally Pakhi saying Virat is not a good friend, for me Virat and Pakhi were not friends at all let alone best friends. Yes Virat cares for Pakhi like he cares for all other family members probably Karishma too. In 1st first case Virat and Pakhi were attracted to each other they how did Pakhi become his best friend bhai dosti humne bhi ki hai and it takes time to call anyone ur best friend let alone that person u thought u loved, whose number you lost and had no ways to reach out to her. and then u meet her as ur hone wali bhabhi. tho yeh best friend kaha say aya. 

Posted: 2 months ago

Good evening ☀️

Aap aaye bahaar aayi ❤️❤️❤️

Today I waited for your post more than any other day. I couldn't find significant leads in the episode which is why I wanted to read your post and then go back watch again. So I was refreshing the feed many times since morning😂 . Chalo der aaye durust aaye.

Them feeding each other was such a significant moment. There is no awkwardness at all which is supposed to be a inherent part of a deal marriage. These people have come a long way and started holding bahut maayne in each other's life. Personally for me feeding someone with my own hands is a very intimate thing.  I only do that with the closest of ones. So I really wanted to know from you if that is considered intimate in a spousal relationship???? 


Our dewdrop still cares about that family 🥺🥺🥺. Ye ladki bhi na !!!!! I also felt aaj virat thoda guilty tha shuru mein. He didn't even want to eat.


The relief that spread over ashiwini's face on seeing them together was so pure. I also liked that fact she considered sai as her own with every bit of her heart. "Mai aayi hu uski " was so poignant. And the small prayer she sent out later is the voice of everyone watching the show🧿🧿🧿


Patralekha ke baare mein kya hi kahun !!!! Sai was absolutely right when she said that she is only putting her self respect at stake. All this taanabaazi is only revealing the ugliest side of otherwise susheel sanskari shahanukulli maratha khaandaan ki beti. She has really slipped into a state of obsession about virat. She is unable to look at the other side even when virat has vocalised it in  sound mind in spasth words. Infact he expressed disgust about Sai's thoughts when revealing to pakhi. But still vahini is obsessed🤦🤦🤦. It makes me wonder sometimes about the values she inherited. Sai and virat have never seen a happy married couple all their life . Still these two have high values with regard to every relationship not just pati patni. On contrary to it patralekha grew up in a happy going household but failed to acquire these values. We can't attribute her behavior as a reaction to virat's marriage or vaada. She has not made any true relationship in chavan household not even with maansi. She is just being a oppurtunist and taking up every chance at hand to belittle sai and keep herself at a higher pedestal. Her " Tum mere dost nahi ho " left me in splits. Behen dosti ka matlab bhi pata hai tumhe 🤦🤦🤦🤦


I can't understand her agenda. Maan lete hai ki sai will leave after her course and samrat will never return. Then is she expecting chavans to get her married to virat because she has been susheel all these days and kitna khyal rakhti hai virat ka as per bhavani words????? There is something seriously off with her characterisation. We just can't understand the motto behind all her actions🤷🤷🤷. And the actress is making it impossible to understand the nuances of pakhi of there are any 🤦.


The audacity with which she enters sairat room and taunts them on their relationship is 😡😡😡. What would she have done if samrat was not virat's brother but a friend and rest of the story remained same???? Arghhhhh I really hate her !!!!!!!


Thankyou for the post. It was lovely and I get to learn a lot from you everyday❤️. Hope you have shifted to the new place. I badly want to hit ur place now for all the dahi puri love you shared and maybe try one too 😂😂😂

Edited by Ishradivani - 2 months ago
Posted: 2 months ago

Originally posted by jankiraghav


Good afternoon sisterhood! 🌷🌷

Today the mood is built for an evening chaat outing 😜

Ab the "make up fight" menu was so tempting that a visit to the chaat house is mandatory. 😅😅😅 Whoever wants to join please do... I promise lip smacking dahi pooris and whatever you like. Kisi ke Saath share Karna ho toh unhe bhi Lete aana 😂🤗😜

Picking my moments from today --

Today Chavan Saheb gave lessons in how food is broken down into energy. But does he know that for a third person watching the act of food-sharing and feeding between a couple, it is a big indicator of the level of intimacy in their relationship... It has been a very established fact of intimacy that sharing a plate of food, feeding one another -- and that too with the same spoon -- is one of the 'physical' intimacies that are shared among the closest people -- especially spouses. 

Two people witnessed their moment of intimacy -- Aai, with all her good wishes and sincere prayer to keep them safe from evil eyes; and then the evil eye herself, who couldn't stop applauding them for their 'beshkimti' private moment in their private space and even rue the fact that she didn't have a camera on her to click the picture to share on the Chavan family WhatsApp group...

It made me think of the most commonly asked question: Does good win over evil or does evil triumph?

Aai - in her moment of anxiety and worry when she learnt that Sai was leaving the house, instinctively assured Usha Maushi and rushed to stop Sai from leaving. At that moment, it appeared as if Ashwini did not have the hope that Virat would have sobered and been in the frame of mind to stop Sai from leaving -- or perhaps that he would even know that Sai was leaving. For the first time, she appeared to be in no mood to pander to Virat which is understood by the fact that she was first concerned about Sai and Usha having a meal more than Virat. (and of course, Bhavani could only think of Chavan niwas ki maryada rakhne wala mard being hungry). 

The moment Ashwini sees Virat and Sai feeding each other the morsels of the meals, she knows they are taking steps towards reconciliation and leaves with a sincere prayer to save them from all evil eyes and to give them the faith to trust one another to rebuild that which has been damaged.

Patralekha witnesses that same moment in her moment of newfound hope that the fight has been the "ultimate"-- almost like a nail in the coffin in which the marriage was brought home. Yes, wasn't she aware that it was a marriage that was lying in a "coffin" that would be eventually buried once the consideration (Reason) of the deal between her 'imaginary husband' and his 'deal wife' was complete -- that she would become a doctor and leave? It was always supposed to be a 'dead marriage'. At the back of her mind, she was always worried about the deal wali shaadi becoming a 'dil wali shaadi' because she knows cohabiting in the same room can never leave two people untouched (not physically) by one another's love and affection. in between, she has witnessed the moments of Virat's conviction for Sai, his support to her against his family-- something that she could never have for herself when she needed it the most. When he refused to take her hand in marriage, it was because of this "family" that he rejected her... It also makes me wonder why does she not harbour a grudge against the family, actually? Is it because she thinks they would have eventually accepted her as 'wholeheartedly' (pseudo-feelings) as they have done now or because she knows that the only way to avenge her "beizzati" is to use the family as a crutch/cover? 

So, Patralekha until now never witnessed Sai and Virat's moments after their fights and disagreements that she thought were big enough for "Virat apne aap ko kuch kar na le"... Today, was the first time she actually witnessed their intimacy that she had only once heard of during a conversation between Ashwini and Sai. She actually witnessed them 'breathing life' into what she thought was the 'dead' marriage. 

The face-off between Sai-Virat and Delusional Didi was a pretty good one because Virat did not actually stay silent this time.  Thank God for small mercies... Usi par hum zinda Hain...

Loved each of Sai's dialogues to Delusional Didi -- and each coming not as a retort to the 'taunt' but as genuine advise. It might appear as a reply to her acerbic comments about husband and wife, but Sai with all her goodness actually wishes well for Vahini. 

Right from her reminder about her 'atmasamman' to PP's 'beizzati' rant and her reminder to PP about her 'conduct' in a couple's room. 

In fact, Sai brought up the issue of the 'relationship' of "bura lagna" and expectations between Virat and PP and it was another 'missed chance' from Virat to clarify the 'sach' between Sai and PP. 

Of course, one would desire that he should really open his mouth spashthly and make the stand clear because the "mera sach tumhare sach se alag hai" has been said to both Sai and Vahini but the spashthta is yet to be communicated to at least the 'wife'. I think it was a definite moment where he could have addressed it and backed Sai's comment about Mohit and Karishma with equally stern words about it being the space that belongs to the husband and wife. Does anyone believe in striking while the iron is hot? It was the perfect moment to end this entire "butting in" business. But no, how would we continue watching the show with 'special effects of zehereeli vahini'?

Moment of the day: 

To me, the moment of the day came from Patralekha's conversation with her mother:

"Ek baat poochun... Aapke aur Baba ke beech mein kabhi aisa hota hai ki aap dono ke beech khoob jhagda hua ho aur aap dono hi baad me maan gaye hon.."

"Haan, ek baar kya, aisa hazaar baar hua hai. Aur hum dono hi kya, har pati patni mein aisa hi hota hai..." 

"Matlab Sai aur Virat bhi pati patni ban gaye hain?"... 

It was not easy for her to witness the moment when she saw them breathing life into what she assumed was a dead body between them. All the time, so far, she has walked into their space when they have been silent, at a distance from each other physically or emotionally -- when they have been fighting or anxiety taking over their conversations. She has seen them turning their backs on each other in public. She has always found the space between them, where she could slide in and make her presence felt. Today, was the first time she witnessed that space had been "sealed". She could not find that space even when they were physically distanced apart -- when Sai was nowhere in close physical proximity to Virat, when she was outside the house and even when Virat was brooding alone in a distant corner. Yet, there was no space for her to slide in because it remained occupied by Sai even in her absence. When she tried to breach that space, she was snubbed and pushed away hard. 

And finally, she witnessed them 'sealing' that space they had created in their own moment of loss. Her meltdown in private was her acknowledgement of the fact that she had been trying to find her hope so far, assuming that the 'dead' would eventually be buried and she would have that space to herself because it should have originally "belonged" to her. But that is not going to be the case. A woman's instincts about a man are strong. And Patralekha's intuition about Virat's 'connection' with Sai has been right from the first time she heard him speak of her. 

Her mother's words were a reminder to her about the world's biggest fact, as Ashwini said, "Pati patni ke beech me kya chalta hai, ye sirf unhe hi pata hota hai.."

It would be so apt if Patralekha can still accept the reality and decide to find her 'atmasamman' that Sai spoke of. The reason why she feels the "beizzati" is not because someone else is doing it to her but because she is actually keeping her 'atmasamman' at stake to be able to get a oneupmanship in the power struggle that she's actually running alone -- "Sai jeet hi gayi" ... But Sai is actually running no race! 

I can't help but ask --ye Vedi Vahini ke room mein aise kya special acoustics use kiye hain that she can get away with all kinds of sounds, screamings and vase breaking -- without drawing the attention of the ever-ready sound investigators in Chakram niwas? 🤔😑🙄 Right from her suhaagraat wali cry "Main tumse pyaar karti hoon Virat" to her screaming all day of the never-ending Sunday and the ultimate tehes nehes of the pots and trinkets in the room-- and no one can hear her?😑😑😑 Kamaal hai! Aur wahan, lead couple ke bedroom se toh whispers bhi udd udd kar bahar aa jaate hain? Ye kaisi nainsaafi hai? 😒👿

Coming to the "sealing space" part: There is a lot left to be desired, a lot left to be stated and clarified. A lot of unanswered questions need to be asked again and answered spashthly (Will Websters' or Oxford accept the entry of this word to be included??😎🤓) There are unsaid emotions that need to be ironed out. And of course, the latest knot that has been added to the already tangled rope with the public spat needs to be "untied" eventually.

The attempt at reconciliation is filled with tender moments in the evident effort to move on from the ugly spat --most real life couples make the mistake of pushing away the crux of the fight aside while trying to first broker peace. But in this case, the marriage is far from being a rock solid one. The attempt has the potential to come down like a bridge built with a pack of cards that can never be strong enough to withstand even someone blowing a mild wind by their mouth at it -- and unfortunately there are more than a handful people waiting to bring their precarious bridge crashing down. Someone play the 'London Bridge is Falling Down' rhyme for them for tips... 

Sai's "Aapko mere haath se khaana hai, toh saaf saaf boliye na... ye drama karne ki kya zaroorat hai" -- it is a symbolic line. It applies to their entire relationship and the issue it faces -- lack of spashthata. 🤥🤕🥴

******

So, Why does it seem that 'evil' can win over good? Does it always win over good? Does Good really triumph over evil? 

Now, I first want to say that by 'evil' I don't mean people are "Evil". They do evil things because of warped reasons that make them feel justified in trying all means to achieve the 'goal'. It also depends on who is telling the story that decides who is 'good' and who is 'evil'. 

It depends on the "good". I don't think it is fair to generalise that good will always triumph. Good has the potential to triumph but in an ongoing war between good and evil, evil can definitely win if the good is unwilling to go far enough to thwart the bad. The weakness of the 'good' in a war is that it does not think of "outsmarting" the evil by hook or by crook -- using any necessary means, at the cost of conscience, is the doing of the evil. The goodness of the 'good' actually makes it vulnerable and easier to defeat. 

Evil thrives on selfishness and greed (for power, oneupmanship or whatever be the consideration). Evil does not conform to rules, values or even ethics because it puts survival first. 

That makes it even more significant for the 'good' to do much more than just believing in its value system... if not, evil can certainly appear like it is trampling the good, although deep within the fruits are only borne by the good. 

It's time for high-tea, but what would a high tea 🍵🍵🍵 party be without the dose of coffee ☕☕☕

Aaj aane mein der huyi, lekin aa hi gayi 

Kaisa tha din, do baatein pyaar ki kar ke batao na... bhook mitao na! 

🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️

Love you all,

❤️J 

 

Loved ur analysis as always....... 

Posted: 2 months ago

@maahi11 Virat is not double sayi’s age ..

He just completed his IPS training and got his GC posting .. so he can be 27-29 years old .. yes sayi is now 18-19 years old .. so there’s a gap of 8-10 years .. which is big no doubt but not unusual ..



Janaki I liked the episode today .. both navra baiko made efforts to make the other happy ..


I like ashwini tai ka thoughts .. she wanted to feed Usha mausi .. and gave her tiffin to her .. she heard sayi was planning to leave the house .. but how did she assume .. sayi would stay hungry and without  money in Chavan house .. 



When she peeked into their room she was relieved . Thank god she did not disturb them .. but it would be good if she tells them together .. not to argue outside infront of others .. atleast stick to each other in public .

Show a joint front .. 



I like the cute interaction between SaiRat they know how to bring humour in the conversation..they enjoy each other’s company .. 



Pakhi ka intervention was bad ... and she’s wrong on many levels .. virat cannot be so immature not to understand her behaviour 

Police officers are trained to understand body language conversations.. they are supposed to pick up cues ..

Yeh kaise interrogation karega ... criminals ki 


Anyways I feel virat is pandering to pakhi because she’s samrat ki wife and he respects that relationship..

He feels bad for her and wants to maintain the status quo 


But he should have told sayi in front of pakhi or even infront of others . That pakhi is your jethani ..a representative of Samrat dada .. her scolding is like a blessing for us 


Pakhi would have got the message .. 

Pakhi herself revealed herself to sayi n virat .. you are bewafa, dhokhebaaz .. she behaved like a spurned lover and not any sister in law 


How can virat deny this to sayi .. and say u are mistaken 


I am glad atleast sayi said why don’t u tell ur pain to virat sir .. and also virat sir cares a lot for you pakhi di 



So virat should get the message clearly . Till he clears the MU it’s an embargo to their relationship..

Posted: 2 months ago

Beautiful analysis Janki ..The patch up was very nicely done. Pakhi shown her place and like you rightly pointed out, another missed opportunity for Virat to clarify that Sai is his wife and usko manana is his job. She entered and she should be happy, but she started her taunt. I think Virat addressed that part. But made me think, even if he clarifies clearly..lol..that she is only the Vahini ..she will still make attempts to get back to Virat bcos they dont want to accept or their mind is not to accept.


Question of the day..Why no one is in zillat arena after such thod-phod of so many things? 

Posted: 2 months ago

But at time of when virat and Sai came after marriage kaku said you married a girl half of ur age. 


And I missed to mention Virat ka reaction when Sai said she try stop herself from arguing and back answering Pakhi. Wow he was surprised that Sai only replies back when Pakhi taunts her to limit where she cant take it anymore 

Posted: 2 months ago

Originally posted by maahi11


But at time of when virat and Sai came after marriage kaku said you married a girl half of ur age. 


And I missed to mention Virat ka reaction when Sai said she try stop herself from arguing and back answering Pakhi. Wow he was surprised that Sai only replies back when Pakhi taunts her to limit where she cant take it anymore 


Kaku was taunting .. because sayi was freshly out of school .. and ninad n ashwini had been married for 28 years .. so virat is Max 28 .. allowing the the time gap in this period .. 



In the first episode we saw virat getting a letter .. and starting his job after finishing training .. that cannot happen at 36 ..😊

Posted: 2 months ago

Nice post! 


I liked that Sai was  protective of Virat. When Pakhi told him tum dhokebaaz she called her out saying he looks after you and is caring, how can you call him dhokebaaz!


Ghum Hai Kisikey Pyaar Meiin 


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