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Rudhita and a relationship built brick by brick

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Posted: 3 years ago

Sorry for breaking up this post but for some reason IF is not letting me post the whole thing at once

Love can happen at first sight, but relationships need to be built with time and effort.

Each of BB's tracks can be grouped, leading to a culminating moment a scene, a shot where one more brick is added in their relationship, where both of them individually grow towards each other.

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Posted: 3 years ago

The first brick was Anirudh's realization about what marrying Bondita meant. Till before the BW track, Anirudh sprung to Bondita's defence majorly when she was in some major danger like the widow's taking her to Vrindavan. 

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Posted: 3 years ago

But when Bondita was about to be sent to her village, he has a major realization of what 'zimmedari' means. That is when he decides to take it upon himself to solve her problems. The moment when he declares that Bondita's problems are his to solve is the first brick in their relationship.

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However, there is still no trust in the relationship. Bondita still didn't understand the reasons behind Anirudh's actions, and both were still prone to influence from outside, something seen in the studies vs gruhini track as well as the Brijwasi track. The low point in their relationship came when Bondita was disowned. However, both grew from this experience, from the Hira Mandi track, from Mini being exposed. There were two culminating moments for this track. The first, where Anirudh declares in front of everyone at the diwali function that he trusts Bondita fully, and the 2nd when Bondita gives Anirudh a spot equal to her Mother in her life - A large step for uske Ma ki Bondita. Now, their relationship has both acceptance and trust.

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The third set of tracks covered the education track, the false Ma track and the Menstruation track. Here there was acceptance and trust, but to a large extent each was making their own decisions. There were moments where each of them had to fight alone. But it culminated in Anirudh giving Bondita the space and freedom to make her own decisions and Bondita realizing that Anirudh will try his best to answer her questions and that she can share everything with him. This was when their dreams aligned and they took that step together to fullfil them and stood together, hand in hand, against society.

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Posted: 3 years ago

This is their new test, where they have to battle society's expectations from their relationship. Today they are being prepared for a ritual which is a crime in this day and age, for both of them, but this is when their relationship will take one more step to breaking the 'prathaon ka bhavar' surrounding them, and I for one, cannot wait.

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Posted: 3 years ago

So this is my wishlist from the track and from the future.

A proper scene between rudhita explaining the physical aspect of a relationship.

Anirudh realizing that distancing himself from Bondita simply leaves her more vulnerable to nonsense.

A Rudhita against the world track where together they demand the right to choose what relationship they want.

A track focussing on Bondita's first crush (no points for guessing the most likely candidate)

I have a feeling that they will completely isolate Rudhita from everyone, after Saurabh dying and Sampoorna undergoing a personality transplant, + Trilochan's rigidity and Sumati missing will leave them with just each other for support. How they overcome this is what is important.