Originally posted by: mintyblueSo I was wondering: how do you cope with conflict and with people who love conflict? There are people who rub you in the wrong way intentionally and get a high off that. How do you cope with such people? Do you prefer to ignore, or do you engage in a dialogue with them? I run away from conflict, and people who spin too much garbage. This is a weakness of mine. I stay away from such people completely. But that approach doesn't always work, IMO.
So what are your ways of dealing with conflict?
Never think that's a weakness.
Such people are toxic. Ignore and behave as if their behaviour doesn't matter to you.
Under job or work, if you are junior to them, listen to them but don't ever bow down to thoughts where you are targetted and you are right when you have to defend yourself. Let me tell you, politely explain your defense. It wins you. If you are a senior to such people, make sure if its serious, make them realise their faults and teach them a lesson.
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