let's not use the "if it was reversed" card because it's pointless talking about hypotheticals when the reality is different. Maybe the discussions would b different if it was reversed but we will never know that soo lets focus on what actually happened. Yes she is a planner and she values honesty. However, her plans are not going the way she wants to. In any other case, Alia has proven to take timee to herself and shake it off and move on, case in point being her relationship with Veer. But this situation is different because this is a baby. She got scared and she made a mistake by taking Sarang's signature by fraud. It's not the right decision but a decision but a decision that is relatable because when we fear of what is at stake we make dumb decisions.Originally posted by: john909So far what I have been reading in comments is in favor of alia but I wonder if the situation was reversed, would everyone be saying the same things. Alia took a decision for her babies and that is alright but she had a conversation with sarangdhar last week, she basically told him how he feels and too based on her half baked knowledge about sarangdhar. If she doesn't like it when people do that to her, how does she expect sarangdhar to be ok with it? First she said she understands that money is not everything but that was key point because of which she considers him an unfit father. So I am not sure what she meant by saying she understands. She is a planner but when did life ever work according to plans? That is what happened here and instead of accepting that she gave a check to sarangdhar to get rid of him. As I asked before, if it was sarangdhar giving alia a check like that, would you be saying the same thing? She hurt his self-respect because she was feeling insecure. Today whatever sarangdhar is doing is not completely right but what choice has alia left him with. She doesn't want him in her life but how can she decide whether sarangdhar should want to be in their babies life or not? She could have made an arrangement of sorts with him as a way to tone down the situation but here she is in a my way or highway mode. They both were cheated and sarangdhar who never wanted a baby is changing and want to prove himself for the babies so why doesn't he have the right to choose considering he didn't donate or sign with intention of being okay with a baby of his own and not knowing him/her. Alia got cheated by Rahul so she felt it was ok to cheat sarangdhar? Is she setting a good example for her babies? Just becoming a mother is not enough. Setting a good example and giving values is also a major part of the process. I never had any issues with her when she was planning to do it alone and both sides were consenting but that is not the case anymore. Situation has changed.
In terms of money and taking care of the child, no money cannot buy happiness, but it helps A LOT. Alia doesn't want to think twice about spending money on her child. Money makes things super weird between people, you don't want to ask people for money, you feel weirdly obligated to people if you spend their money so this was the emphasis on her point.
Just because Sarang wants to completely change his life around to care for the baby, it doesn't mean Alia must accept his offer and co-parent with him.
Alia had thought of a different life with the baby so when that is threatened, of course she will do everything in her power to protect it. Situation has definitely changed but both people need time to see the situations objectively but neither of them have as of yet. We just gotta wait and see what happens next.
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