Good topic Sowmyaa.
I admire the people who deal with a close one's death by trying to do the things that were dear to the one who passed away. I know many such people in my own family.
About mourning, I have seen different kinds of funerals in North and South India. In Delhi, I would notice a number of wailing and weeping mourners, which often left me embarrassed. Sometimes I saw the same set of vocal mourners at different funerals!
In the movie Rudali, I came to know that there used to be professional mourners who could be hired for the occasion.
In the South, within my extended family, funerals are different from the ones I saw in Delhi. They are religious occasions where the rituals are performed for the departed soul with all earnestness. Smiling is certainly not prohibited. In fact, all efforts are made to cheer up the grieving family members. People behave normally. They try to recount their happy experiences about the departed person.
Histrionics are looked down upon, not encouraged. The idea is to move on as quickly as possible.
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