Asim loves Himanshi. Himanshi loves AsiManshi. - Page 2

Originally posted by: NepaliArtist

Disclaimer: Its just my opinion based on everything we've seen.

To me, it looks like Asim genuinely loves Himanshi. It looked OTT when she was gone, with all the perfume in bed shit, but with her coming back and publicly friend-zoning him even after the 'I'm waiting for you' message from Parag, he is still the same. This sorta convinced me that he loves her. Granted, she didn't completely friendzone him, but just didn't make it official. One problem here is how little time they have spent together. Somewhere, Asim may love the idea of Himanshi more than Himanshi herself, because he has spent more time apart from her (in an isolated house with literally nothing to do all day except overthink shit) than together. There is an unseen video from yesterday where the two are eating together and talking about how their parents are with them. Its a cute, genuine moment between a young couple getting to know each other. But the problem is - it highlights how little they know about each other! This was a second/third date conversation they were having after Salman (infront of the whole world) held Asim responsible for Himanshi's broken engagement. Its insane pressure on both of them. But to me, Asim seems serious.

On the flipside, I think Himanshi loves the idea of the ship #AsiManshi. She loves that she went (as, in her own words, a TOP star) to a huge reality show and met a good-looking boy who couldn't stop complimenting her! Over time, she allowed more and more comfort between the two, and by the time she left he was full-on giving her all the attention in the world and professing his love for her even though she had made it crystal clear that nothing was gonna happen. She fell in love with the attention. Then, she was unfairly evicted (keeping her TOP star self-belief intact) and she went back to normal life where her fiancee, a guy who she's known and been close to for 9 years, wasn't acting like Asim. I mean, of course not! Asim was a totally different dude, locked in an isolated house, who fell for her. This is why her complaints about Chow revolve around attention issues. "I was sick, he didn't care. His parents (who she still calls her in-laws 😵) didn't seem to care that I went to this huge show and am now even more famous." Plus she mentioned there was some shit between Sana's friend or something, and Chow's brother. Additionally, the young good-looking filmy boy was also super famous now and had thousands of his own fans who were now her fans as well by association. Basically, she just didn't feel as important outside as she did in the house.

But she did get the importance somewhere else - social media. #AsiManshi exploded in popularity because of the timing of her eviction, when people were just getting invested in them as a couple. So she went balls-out and promoted the shit out of the couple, even using hashtags like #WeNeedHimanshiBack etc. Chow must have gotten sick of this and officially ended it at some point. Then, she got the re-entry as she hoped, and she is fully getting the attention she craved again in round two. But this time, she's disappointing people who were hoping she genuinely loved Asim. She met him and immediately (I think innocently) told him "People are going crazy over US!" That's the part that she is smitten by! The AsiManshi hype. Even when Rashmi told her how she is coming across, look at her body language - she ended up saying 'lets do it!' and implied she has kept Asim hanging on for a bit, but will fully express her love just as she is leaving! She even loved that Asim claimed his love infront of Salman! Why should that matter in the big picture? And why on your way out? Why not now and just spend the remaining time giving him game-related advice so he doesn't lose his mind after the connections thing ends? That is not the plan of someone who should be advising Asim to focus on the game. That is the plan of someone trying to create a 'moment' for AsiManshi fans to fawn over and trend on social media.

Again, these are just my opinions. Its what I think is going on here. In a way, they're both innocent because they are just pursuing what they like. But, Himanshi absolutely is selfish in her timing and approach given that we are 2 weeks away from the finale, and Asim is dumb for building her up in her head so much. Salman/BB/creatives are also hugely responsible for putting the seed of an eternal romance for the ages, building off from the ashes of a failed engagement, in Asim's mind - while what he got was a sweet gesture of interest, a little bit of jhappi-pappi, and no official commitment.

I was waiting for your take on this. Your write ups are just👍🏼

And honestly your theory does make sense. As much as I wish it to be otherwise, Himanshi is coming off as very very selfish. I mean imagine how apparent her intention are if people inside the house can sense it as well.

P.S. - If you decide to watch the next season and be part of IF, I wouldn't want to be in the fandom opposite yours😆

Originally posted by: ..WitchGrave..

This i agree with personally because I never got the attention seeker thing . Why would person destroy his own life for little attention from unknown people ! Himanshi did say that her fiance and she met in school post that things happened. Even Sana had said that her fiance was strict what if he had a strict hold on her ? Dominated her ?

Asim is very different on the other hand he is a person who goes all in ! Showers the girl with attention heck he also showers his friends with attention - artis rant ( Mittu ye Mittu wo 😆 ) .

I think she is not love with Asim but yes she is intruiged and likes the attention Asim provides that too after her 10 year old realtionship the newness of Asim intrigued her. She is not in love with Asim but definitely loves the idea of Asim !

I feel even Asim is in love with the image of Himanshi that he made up in his mind.He too is in love with the idea of love.He definitely cares for her but I think they both need to spend time together get to know each other away from public eye to see what they feel for each other can turn into something deeper and lasting.

I agree with you...asim is head over heels in love but same cannot be said for himanshi ....she definitely has feelings and attachment for asim ,she likes be be with him,she likes to talk about him ,she loves to spend time with him,she loves all the attention she gets form him but whenever the question of "commitment" comes she takes a back step 😆...

But this whole asimanshi fiasco has created monstrous buzz in social media and ppl are actually invested in this...their are positives and negatives in the buzz but for asim it is totally positive and will help him in long run ...

We can all see that she's a reserved person, atleast outside. It's only photos of her or 1/2 friends max. So she probably doesn't hang out much. So that avenue of getting attention/pampered is somewhat closed.

I agree, that she was recieving lots of attention and love from Asim , and as soon as she came out she must have started expecting and comparing with her fiance. She realised that she wasn't getting that kind of attention from him. They must have broke it off for whatever reason.

She didn't confess coz of 3 reasons I think (I'm assuming she likes him very much)

1.Image conscious which she is very much

2. Wasn't expecting a proposal

3. Umar (though it would be last in the list, coz she didn't have to confess I love you anyway, just a simple statement " I have feelings for you, and I want to take this forward after the show" would have done the trick.)

What pissed me off is

1. She sent a message to Asim that "I'm waiting for you" , purely because of SM pressure. She didn't have to do anything like that.

2. The fact that almost every tweet of hers is like "mere feeling" "mujhe" "mere Saath yeh hua" . You should love your self, but beyond a point people do end up thinking you're self centred.

3. Arhaan topic. It is very sensitive, and when rasim bond is so good why to talk about all that. Those are stuff which could be sorted in 15 days after BB.

4. Playing prank with VG of all people. It's not like she doesn't know Asim doesn't like VG. She's seen all the episodes, she must have seen tweets about how manupilative and cunning he is. I don't mind her talking to him, but playing a prank was too much, that too the morning right after she almost rejected him.

5. I hated one thing alot alot alot . Not related to Asim but the statement " I'm the type of person who won't care if a person is dying if I don't like them." I hated that dialogue, it's also the exact opposite of Asim. He consoles everyone if they are upset. Sorry if I'm nitpicking but that really really put me off. This statement she said while speaking to rashami yesterday.

Absolutely......she doesn't love Asim....she loves the attention she is getting because of her association with Asim.....its good though that the Asim fans are able to see through her nautanki and I hardly see anyone being fooled by her act....Asim on the other hand...is kissing the ground on which she walks...😳

Lol @ the title of the thread. I got the same feeling too. She wanted to ride the Asimanshi wave without committing to him. Which is sneaky unless shes doing it for his sake but is too scared to commit.