I am not sure how we are expected to view the doomed Marriage if Ashok/Babita.
Now that we have been watching for about 6 Months now, how can some still blame Mita for the breakup of a failed Marriage, if the 2 people in the Marriage did nothing to save it for themselves.
We had Ashok who goes off to London to earn money leaving behind a pregnant Wife and what we are told did not return for the birth but came 5 years later and than when his Business failed in the UK. Not once did he request her to join him before or after Mini's birth. No interest in the Marriage at all.
Babita spend all her time in becoming the ideal Bhua at the expense of her Marriage. Made no effort to go to London to join him before or after Mini's Birth. Even after seeing how her Daughter was suffering for her Father's Love, she still made no effort to join him in London. Was happy playing the ideal Bhua and happily in love with her Husband and her Marriage in spite of making no effort to make it work or stay together as Husband and wife.
Her inlaws should have sent her to London instead of using her as a Servant to cook and look after them and selfish Lovely and husband.
Ashok left her after Marriage and if Mini is 17 years., what was he doing for 7 years in London. Did he have another Girlfriend than. Its for the last 10 years that he has been with Mita and lied to her for the first 3 years. and told her that his Marriage was dead and waiting for Divorce.
They never had a Husband/Wife relationship or Mini/Ashok a father and Daughter relationships. All were Strangers to each other. A classic when Ashok came back with a Doll, not even knowing how old his Daughter was.
So what I don't get us why people are blaming Mita for Babitas Marriage when it was already dead long before Mita came on the scene.
Why over the top drama from Babita for doomed, failed loveless Marriage.
Mini over the top Dramas and so called love for a non existent Father when there was no Happy family or love in it.
Time to stop blaming Mita and look at how long the Marriage was and when Mita came on the scene.
A dead and doomed Marriage with only 2 people who could not be bothered to make it work are the only ones to be blamed for it.
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