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Posted: 5 years ago
Kaira to me are too immature right now to be a good married couple. In marriage, more than love, respect, trust and moving in the same direction is important but all Kaira show is that they are so madly in love even when their love can be destructive to others. They never consider that their goals and opinions can be different and how to compromise, such as Naira insisting to have the baby and making the baby her priority even though Kartik did not want the baby for the sake of Naira's health and the fact that Naira is Kartik's first priority over the baby. Then knowing that her health is weak and anything can happen, they should have planned optimally not like Naira saying that she will die if anything happens to her baby. I understand she would have been devastated and  grief-stricken but there was a possibility due to her poor health. Plus they literally did not planning for after the baby came.

Kartik only wants Naira. He doesn't care for anything else or anyone else and his world revolves around Naira. Naira also is crazy in love with Kartik and she cares for her family too. But they have no boundaries, no limits, no structure in their relationship which can stabilize it. Naira should have realized/ known that Kartik is too fearful for her health. Her insisting on the baby and then having the baby only made matters worse resulting in the baby swap. Obviously the baby swap is completely Kartik's fault, I mean what was he thinking? but both should have planned to have the baby later. Not only in terms of health, but also mentally Kaira were not prepared to have a baby. There is no real life struggle in career and there is no growth in their relationship. What is point of all these twists and terms, if Naira and Kartik don't grow and become stronger? Their families are pretty useless, like they can't figure out the crux of the matter which is both have severe communication problems and believe that endless romance is what marriage is made of.

In this show, there are two main couples, Akshara-Naitik and Kartik-Naira and frankly the former were better. It feels like the CVS are trying to show that arranged marriage is better than love marriage for they have just shown constant negative ramifications of love marriage. The actors essaying the characters of Kartik and Naira are very attractive and have chemistry to make the show work, but the essence of YRKKH has been destroyed and I would never want anyone to take inspiration from Kaira or Kartik and Naira as individuals.

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Posted: 5 years ago
Naira had an unplanned pregnancy...they didn't plan baby on Naira's insistence...baby swap was carried forward because of chances of recurrence of brain clot and associated memory loss because of trauma...
Well during Naitik-Akshara time every single relationship was stable...be it of brother-sister, mother-daughter, father-daughter or even MIL-DIL, friends, SIL...here there is no balance in relationships...Naksh who didn't care about his sister who was thrown out of her in-laws home...had leg injury...all of sudden became so protective of her that he was ready to abandon his baby without even conversing with his wife...would Shaurya do that?...Keerti instead of conversing with Naksh conversed with Kartik and narrated a sob story...would Varsha do that?...Suwarna had panic attacks after losing her son whom she abandoned and declared dead for 19 years, chanted "I hate u Naira" every single day...though she herself couldn't observe Shubham's pain...would Gayatri be this ignorant towards her biological children?...Manish didn't informed his children about their mother's suicide only because they will get "hurt"...would Raj Shekhar do same if he was in Manish's place?...Goenkas for whom Suwarna's opinion was never important started getting scared of her...Manish never got Suwarna treated...Kaira are not the only one's to be blamed or their relationship is not the only unstable one with rinse repeat misunderstanding-milan...but all other characters have major flips and shared same unreasonable, extreme emotions...also yrkkh is far better than majority of the shows that promote polygamy, sexual assault, manhandling and show even more regressive and illogical content than yrkkh...writing needs to improve in general...not only for Kaira  but for all other characters...