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Posted: 5 years ago
#31
I didn't like Ishaan's approach with Mishti, he doesn't know she locked Pari or anything but he knows how dangerous it can be for a 6 year old girl to walk from school to his restaurant. I am not saying he encouraged it but any parent would be terrified at the thought of how easily Mishti is running away from school, which means school isn't as safe as they are expecting
As a father he should have been worried and explain the danger of doing this, Mishti wants to meet him, why can't he tell Mauli that she doesn't have to marry him but that doesn't change the fact that he is Mishti's Popsie, they weren't getting married before but he was her Popsie, it should come from him that he is not expecting a marriage but if Mishti wants to meet him, then there is no problem...


I don't know about Mauli, her "Dekha Dida" "Dekha ma" is irritating me, dekh to rahe hai aur kya kare
Dida and Radhika are the worst people to turn for advice on anything, their suggestions are stupid.


Finally, I got the answer that Mehek knows Kunal cheated on Mauli
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Posted: 5 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Mages


@bold...thats wrong...the word No should be accepted too...her demands shoukd not be encourage...its becos her demands are being listened she can't hear the word No...she rebels...jo chahiye usko chahiye

and what did she demand that is been encouraged??

count me in...i support mauli scolding mishti..bunking of school...pari issue...rudeness to elders are all wrong...as a mother she has all rights to be stern to her daughter...this are discipline actions...i totally support that

when the child is suffering from some serious issues you are supporting mauli in scolding her.. i think mishti needs assurance and love.
scolding her will make her a rebel and we all are seeing this only.. she is rebelling bcz her feelings are suppressed..


but what i don't support is breaking off ishaan-mishti relationship...thats wrong...


my queries in bold.
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Posted: 5 years ago
#33
@pw...assurance n love in wrong doings...its wrong...it will encourage the kid to do more...sometime parents needs to be stern...i was also scolded by mom when i do wrong...i hit a kid in my high school...though wrong from both side...mom scolded me n i realise my mistake...than mom came back to me advise n shower me with love...thats when i realise never do such mistakes again...love n assurance is needed at the same strictness is also needed...
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Hi PW! Merry Christmas to you too and I'm so glad Santa granted you your IshTi Christmas wish 😊
IshTi share such a beautiful bond between themselves, they have their own little world between them away from the outside world and your heart just warms up looking at them 😊 Ishaan's I trust you beta.. plain simple three words, but the impact it has on a child's psyche is tremendous! Ishaan sure is her Lion King whom she trusts and loves unconditionally. We both should get down someday to write a thesis on IshTi 😆
Mauli ke liye kya bolu yaar.. gussa bhi aata hai aur pyaar bhi 😆 She has messed herself up so badly, blaming herself for everything that has happened, I don't know how she's gonna fix things. Mishti looks in no mood to talk to her and instead of leaving Mishti alone for sometime like Radhika said yesterday, Mauli should have taken matters in her hands and talked to Mishti and atleast try to get a grip of things.. Baad mein rone se kya faayda?
And I am grateful that Kunal finally remembered his sacha pyaar. Thank you Kunal 😆 By the way I love buddy and his Pari 😊
PS - How did Mishti land in Popsie's restaurant alone? She was walking all by herself on the road to meet him 😕 She's only 6 na? I guess writers were also very keen on Ishti meeting toh saara logic window ke bahar 😳
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Posted: 5 years ago
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@Mages
I agree with @Anahi here, slapping, scolding etc does not solve anything, they can scare Mishti into submission but what kind of childhood is that? There is a difference between discipline and strictness, Mauli is being strict which was needed when Mishti locked Pari but not needed when you have to tell Mishti that it's not right to walk around like that, this comes under discipline... If Mauli can't handle her herself, she can definitely take her to a Psychiatrist, Mishti is going through alot, hitting her or scolding her will scar her further
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty

@Mages

I agree with @Anahi here, slapping, scolding etc does not solve anything, they can scare Mishti into submission but what kind of childhood is that? There is a difference between discipline and strictness, Mauli is being strict which was needed when Mishti locked Pari but not needed when you have to tell Mishti that it's not right to walk around like that, this comes under discipline... If Mauli can't handle her herself, she can definitely take her to a Psychiatrist, Mishti is going through alot, hitting her or scolding her will scar her further


thats what i am saying...when strictness needs to apply..it should be...a little bit scolding is needeed..than calm down...go to your kid advise n shower love...in your own way advise the kid..this should not be done...

If scolding...strictness leaves a scar...hum sab trauma mein jeetein...beating i will never support that...as a parent have rights to scold the kid than calm down shower with love n advise the kid...

i don't know abt others...but this is my experience...i was naughty in my childhood...mom scolds me...after that she calms down...advise me...shower me with love n spend her whole time with me

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Posted: 5 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I didn't like Ishaan's approach with Mishti, he doesn't know she locked Pari or anything but he knows how dangerous it can be for a 6 year old girl to walk from school to his restaurant. I am not saying he encouraged it but any parent would be terrified at the thought of how easily Mishti is running away from school, which means school isn't as safe as they are expecting

As a father he should have been worried and explain the danger of doing this,

yes it was a bit underwhelming. i agree. but these cvs naaa. i tell u.. they keep making a joke of kids related things. first they showed that its that easy to bring someone elses' child from school camp to home. 👏
then kunal saying "are kuch hua to nhi na" when pari fell into the pool..
and now its not a big deal to wander on roads.. ishaan said few things but u r right they could have given him more concerned dialogues..
i was so excited to see ishti that i dont even remember his initial dialogues. gotta watch that again.

Mishti wants to meet him, why can't he tell Mauli that she doesn't have to marry him but that doesn't change the fact that he is Mishti's Popsie, they weren't getting married before but he was her Popsie, it should come from him that he is not expecting a marriage but if Mishti wants to meet him, then there is no problem...

i guess ishaan thinks that mauli is forcing herself to give up on this marriage bcz of the differences in her and his maa's thinking but she wants to marry him. so he doesnt want to give up on this relationship so easily..
he has hopes..

I don't know about Mauli, her "Dekha Dida" "Dekha ma" is irritating me, dekh to rahe hai aur kya kare
Dida and Radhika are the worst people to turn for advice on anything, their suggestions are stupid.

i always find dida radhika as a balance in her life.. ummm how to explain.. we can discuss this some other time.. like in detail.. see every person has some flaws.. mauli has her own and they have theirs..
here the problem with mauli is she is overwhelmed with emotions. she needs to gather strength for her kid and herself and if she actually cares about ishan then for him too.
first she needs to sort things between her and ishaan bcz it is affecting mishti, ishaan and herself and the whole family.. i hope they can come to a mutual decision..


Finally, I got the answer that Mehek knows Kunal cheated on Mauli

haha. !! u had a doubt about it.. she knows..she was nandini's best friend.
she must have shared things with mehek.
thats why i find mehek utter insensitive when she said "then go for mauli"


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Posted: 5 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

@Mages

I agree with @Anahi here, slapping, scolding etc does not solve anything, they can scare Mishti into submission but what kind of childhood is that? There is a difference between discipline and strictness, Mauli is being strict which was needed when Mishti locked Pari but not needed when you have to tell Mishti that it's not right to walk around like that, this comes under discipline... If Mauli can't handle her herself, she can definitely take her to a Psychiatrist, Mishti is going through alot, hitting her or scolding her will scar her further


thank god u said all this..

@mages my point is mishti hasnt bunked school for some fun.
she is emotionally weak and vulnerable and scared .. did u see her expressions today???
the way she was hiding behind his back??
the way she said "nahi nahi gahr nhi jana"
she was so damn scared..

did u see ishaan's concern was only that she shouldnt be scolded.??

we all must have seen this at our homes that if one parent is strict then other has to assure the kid..
ishaan and mauli are the examples..


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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: sancheeta

Hi PW! Merry Christmas to you too and I'm so glad Santa granted you your IshTi Christmas wish 😊

heheheehe. yes santa granted my wish. 😊
ishti.. they are heart warming.

IshTi share such a beautiful bond between themselves, they have their own little world between them away from the outside world and your heart just warms up looking at them 😊


why do like ishaan?? why?
bcz i never wanted mushy romance for mauli and never wanted "only a lover boy" for mauli..i was surprised to see that he is beyond that.
as @rimjhimm said ishaan mishti's relationship is independent of mauli ishaan's relationship..

Ishaan's I trust you beta.. plain simple three words, but the impact it has on a child's psyche is tremendous! Ishaan sure is her Lion King whom she trusts and loves unconditionally. We both should get down someday to write a thesis on IshTi 😆

lmao.. 😆 thesis haha.. I TRUST U BETA ! golden words.. 😊 do u remember his golden words for her in the engagement party?? pure gold.!!


Mauli ke liye kya bolu yaar.. gussa bhi aata hai aur pyaar bhi 😆 She has messed herself up so badly, blaming herself for everything that has happened, I don't know how she's gonna fix things. Mishti looks in no mood to talk to her and instead of leaving Mishti alone for sometime like Radhika said yesterday, Mauli should have taken matters in her hands and talked to Mishti and atleast try to get a grip of things.. Baad mein rone se kya faayda?
And I am grateful that Kunal finally remembered his sacha pyaar. Thank you Kunal 😆 By the way I love buddy and his Pari 😊

haha. discussed mauli, kunal and mishti already.. u must have read my posts.. i feel for mauli and sometimes i m miffed with her. i wish i could go and held her hand as a friend and tell her jaag naari jaag.!! u have tremendous strength..!!

PS - How did Mishti land in Popsie's restaurant alone? She was walking all by herself on the road to meet him 😕 She's only 6 na? I guess writers were also very keen on Ishti meeting toh saara logic window ke bahar 😳

just replied to @fruity regarding this. they keep making joke of kids related issues! i hate it..


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Posted: 5 years ago
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@Mages
Mishti's situation is different from situation of normal kids, she is not throwing tantrums, she is going through serious rejection and insecurity issues, let's take blood test for example, it's easy for someone to prick their fingers for blood test but what if there is a wound on finger, would you suggest pricking and opening the wound?
When someone is going through a mental stress scolding will make it worse, Mishti has to know that she is loved by Mauli, Radhika and Dida...

Pata nahi why they are adamant on showing that Mishti needs a father's love only, that was the problem with Nandini too, she had Mauli's love as a friend but she never appreciated it, she needed a man's love, now Mishti has love of 3 women but she needs a man's love


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