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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: nushy1995



@Bold

Your answer is in your question itself. 😊

Everyone is human here & everyone has his/her share of faults.

Do I hate Mauli? No. She is my favorite in this show. But do I find her way of dealing right now problematic? Yes, because she has created a mess & pretty much everyone in this forum is vocal about her.

i don't doubt u man!.. my concern is not mauli here.. yes she is problematic!
So why can't we point fingers at Ishaan's certain traits? And believe me by pointing at someones fault you can't justify yourself. Even Kunal was roasted by a few when he wanted to stop Mahek the other day..

u can point out fingers. definitely u can! and this is what we are discussing! but its not me who pointed out faults in other character but u compared mehek's reaction to ishaan. so i did the same to make u understand whose reaction was better.. kunal wasnt roasted and discussed to this level that the pages of thread reaches to page 14 and that condition can not be even compared to today's. pari was drowned in pool.. and everybody was saying mishti pushed pari.. kunal spared mishti and said those dialogues..
was that bearable? i made one small statement about him.. and here i am defending ishaan to page 14.. if thats the case then mauli's reaction is not motherly.. she is not concerned but strict.. πŸ˜•

Ishaan is a good person. But that doesn't mean he can never be wrong or lack some fatherly instinct.

yes we are debating about that only..

Plus leap has happened & pointing at KuNan has reached its' saturation point long ago.
Mishti is traumatized or Kunal chose Nandini - these aren't sufficient to overlook the blunders created by the adults here & I mean everyone including Kunal, Dida, Radhika, Mauli, Ishaan.

i didnt get these points of yours.. what do u mean to say here?? pls care to explain if u can.


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

@greeshma -- its just an assumptiom that if mishti is send to ishaan's home she will see the REAL face of ishaan's mother..

i dont know what real face are u talking about here.. as far as i know ishaan's mother has no problem with mishti. she met mishti with an open mind , brought her gift and was good with her..
she isnt a two faced lady i think..
what she said to mauli is her narrow thinking.. but she isnt an evil person..

everything is based on assumption only. If Mishti is handled with care and love , she will understand. If involve Kunal in this matter he will solve it, everything is like that only. By saying she will get to know "true face" that the thruth she doesn't know till now. That ishaan's mom doesn't approve her Mommy's marriage with popsie. She kept the condition in front of mouli. If she can overhear Kunal and mouli , Kunal and radhika comversation by chance . Who knows she can overhear ishaan - and her mother conversation too. She don't have a problem with Mishti because it's his son's choice. She doesn't accepted her whole heartedly. She was forced to accept it. She doesn't need to evil, but clearly can show her dislike towards her. Especially after break up with mouli, he doesn't need to take her child's responsibility. She can clearly state her point of view and ask him to send her back.
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: greeshma014

everything is based on assumption only. If Mishti is handled with care and love , she will understand. If involve Kunal in this matter he will solve it, everything is like that only. By saying she will get to know "true face" that the thruth she doesn't know till now. That ishaan's mom doesn't approve her Mommy's marriage with popsie. She kept the condition in front of mouli. If she can overhear Kunal and mouli , Kunal and radhika comversation by chance . Who knows she can overhear ishaan - and her mother conversation too. She don't have a problem with Mishti because it's his son's choice. She doesn't accepted her whole heartedly. She was forced to accept it. She doesn't need to evil, but clearly can show her dislike towards her. Especially after break up with mouli, he doesn't need to take her child's responsibility. She can clearly state her point of view and ask him to send her back.


yes ishaan's mother didnt approve of their relationship initially but it wasnt like she was making faces or met mishti with some pre assumed notions.
she wasnt forced but was convinced by ishaan!
. she may look like an evil aunty to mishti if she overhears them but ishaan's mother is not wrong completely.
anyways since the post wasnt about her and only u said that this isnt going to happen so we can wait and watch to find out more about her..

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Posted: 5 years ago
PW - idhar aa ja πŸ€— A big jhappi to you. You are being very patient here πŸ˜†

Parenting is a tough and most rewarding job.No parent is perfect.Every parent in this world is flawed and every parent has his/her own style of parenting and every parent along with the child learns in the process. We cannot really say ki this way is only right and that way is only wrong, it doesn't work that way. Kids are very smart, they know which parent is going to react in what manner and accordingly they place their argument in front of them. I can vouch for that being a parent myself. Hell even my toddler who is not even 2 runs to his dad when he see's my angry face πŸ˜† Basically I am the bad cop in my house. Both my kids will run to their father when they are upto some mischief or have done anything wrong, not because their dad will support them in their wrongs, itni door ki sochte bhi nahi woh πŸ˜† but at that very moment they just want to be shielded from mommy's scoldings/shoutings. They know dad has their back! Didn't we used to do the same. Run to the lesser strict parent when caught doing wrong because we used to feel that parent will understand us better?
Mishti trusts Ishaan the most and she knows he has her back and Ishaan has earned this trust from her by being there for her and doing things for her and most importantly spending time with her whenever and wherever possible.

Mauli needs to COMMUNICATE with her daughter ASAP! If Mishti is being rude, Mauli needs to know why she's being rude. Mishti didn't turn this hateful overnight.. how come her mom and grandmoms can't see this? Problem sab ko pata hai, solution nahi dhoondna. Keeping Mishti away from Popsie is taking Mishti more away from Mauli. And yes, strictly my opinion but Ishaan most definitely is getting the shorter end of the stick here.
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: sancheeta

PW - idhar aa ja πŸ€— A big jhappi to you. You are being very patient here πŸ˜†

ayye!! thnx to u girl πŸ€— much needed jhappi.. yeh mauli dekho kya kya krwa rhi hai mujse.. senty ho rha h sab. i hate being sentimental.. hehe

Parenting is a tough and most rewarding job.No parent is perfect.Every parent in this world is flawed and every parent has his/her own style of parenting and every parent along with the child learns in the process. We cannot really say ki this way is only right and that way is only wrong, it doesn't work that way. Kids are very smart, they know which parent is going to react in what manner and accordingly they place their argument in front of them. I can vouch for that being a parent myself. Hell even my toddler who is not even 2 runs to his dad when he see's my angry face πŸ˜† Basically I am the bad cop in my house. Both my kids will run to their father when they are upto some mischief or have done anything wrong, not because their dad will support them in their wrongs, itni door ki sochte bhi nahi woh πŸ˜† but at that very moment they just want to be shielded from mommy's scoldings/shoutings. They know dad has their back! Didn't we used to do the same. Run to the lesser strict parent when caught doing wrong because we used to feel that parent will understand us better?
Mishti trusts Ishaan the most and she knows he has her back and Ishaan has earned this trust from her by being there for her and doing things for her and most importantly spending time with her whenever and wherever possible.

Mauli needs to COMMUNICATE with her daughter ASAP! If Mishti is being rude, Mauli needs to know why she's being rude. Mishti didn't turn this hateful overnight.. how come her mom and grandmoms can't see this? Problem sab ko pata hai, solution nahi dhoondna. Keeping Mishti away from Popsie is taking Mishti more away from Mauli. And yes, strictly my opinion but Ishaan most definitely is getting the shorter end of the stick here.

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i have nothing more to add..
i am an unmarried girl , not a parent but i know what u are saying.
i guess i also needed some assurance like mishti needed.. thnk u so so much for understanding me..
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Edited by prettywomaniya - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
Merry Xmas, Pretty and everyone on this thread!
On the episode :

I find Mauli's parenting skills really lacking. As a mother, she should understand why Mish is acting like this and rectify it. That's one thing Kunal does right - he wants to know what is troubling his kid. He is understanding enough not to judge his firstborn when it comes to her hurting Pari. And he knows there's no point elaborating on the pool because it was a genuine mistake as Mishti confesed .

Mishti - my heart goes out to her. I can totally sympathise with her, when she feels everyone loves Pari more than her. Roaming about was a dumb thing to do - but she's going to fight back if she's denied the popsie she is proud of. Mauli can't just cut off her support system according to her whims and fancies. How's she going to handle Mishti in her teenage if this is all she can understand about her daughter ! Both Kunal and Ishaan have a better sense of parenting, that way.

Kunal - In the precap he sounded truly sorry of the mess HE created. I'm so glad Mauli's agony finally got through to him.

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Posted: 5 years ago
I think Pari must know by now that Kunal is Radhika's son. They discussed it very openly today in front of her when Mehek asked Kunal to call his mom to find out about Mishti .
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Merry Xmas, Pretty and everyone on this thread!

On the episode :

I find Mauli's parenting skills really lacking. As a mother, she should understand why Mish is acting like this and rectify it. That's one thing Kunal does right - he wants to know what is troubling his kid. He is understanding enough not to judge his firstborn when it comes to her hurting Pari. And he knows there's no point elaborating on the pool because it was a genuine mistake as Mishti confesed .

Mishti - my heart goes out to her. I can totally sympathise with her, when she feels everyone loves Pari more than her. Roaming about was a dumb thing to do - but she's going to fight back if she's denied the popsie she is proud of. Mauli can't just cut off her support system according to her whims and fancies. How's she going to handle Mishti in her teenage if this is all she can understand about her daughter ! Both Kunal and Ishaan have a better sense of parenting, that way.

Kunal - In the precap he sounded truly sorry of the mess HE created. I'm so glad Mauli's agony finally got through to him.


hey chick, merry xmas to u too girl.!

yes mauli is lacking parenting skills and i hope they give proper explanation for this.. is it bcz of her shaken confidence that she isnt able to get a grip of things?

regarding kunal , yes he is truly sorry and probably is regretting his decision of leaving mauli.. i guess so. .
i am glad if he actually realises that he was wrong back then but i have no sypmathy for him.. i can only pity him for losing such wonderful wife..
now that kunal is going through bad phase in life he is able to understand mauli's pain .. its not like she didnt cry before , or she didnt accuse herself before for being a bad wife but that time he was thinking about him only..

life is teaching him a good lesson..

and i noticed pari was there when he called..but they didnt make her notice all that which is stupid but again cinematic liberties..


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Mages

I agree...the best way is to send mishti to her popsie...thats the best idea


If Mauli send Mishti to Ishan Mishti will be very happy. Ishan told he loves not only Mauli but her entire family. If Mishti joins him ...he will accept her. If Ishan's mother bother...I don't think she is a horrible person to misbehave with Mishti. But may be she will directly talk with Ishan or Mauli. If she talks with Ishan ...Ishan will support Mishti. Moma will leave. Then Ishan has two things to do...bring Dida and Radhika in his home too. Now what will Mauli do alone at that house? πŸ˜† People use this technique to catch the moma elephant. πŸ˜†

Actually this would be a brilliant idea for Ishan if Mauli makes a mistake like this. πŸ˜† he will catch the baby first...then moma will come to him like the moma elephant. πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

To me the better plan is threat Mishti "If you utter a word about I want a papa...I will send you to your real papa...Kunal. " πŸ˜†πŸ˜† If I was Mauli I would do this. Threat Mishti. "Misbehave with Pari ...I will make sure you stay with Pari in the same house calling Kunal papa." πŸ˜†
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If Mauli send Mishti to Ishan Mishti will be very happy. Ishan told he loves not only Mauli but her entire family. If Mishti joins him ...he will accept her. If Ishan's mother bother...I don't think she is a horrible person to misbehave with Mishti. But may be she will directly talk with Ishan or Mauli. If she talks with Ishan ...Ishan will support Mishti. Moma will leave. Then Ishan has two things to do...bring Dida and Radhika in his home too. Now what will Mauli do alone at that house? πŸ˜† People use this technique to catch the moma elephant. πŸ˜†

Actually this would be a brilliant idea for Ishan if Mauli makes a mistake like this. πŸ˜† he will catch the baby first...then moma will come to him like the moma elephant. πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

To me the better plan is threat Mishti "If you utter a word about I want a papa...I will send you to your real papa...Kunal. " πŸ˜†πŸ˜† If I was Mauli I would do this. Threat Mishti. "Misbehave with Pari ...I will make sure you stay with Pari in the same house calling Kunal papa." πŸ˜†


are u sure this is a good ideaπŸ˜†...becos i am sure the reverse will happen if she goes to kunal...she will never go back to ishaan-mauli ever..infact she will want her real parents to unite back and pari her sister to be with her

what is a win win situation for ishaan is...mishti has never bond with her real father..she doesn't have a emotional connect...the day this father-daughter start to bond and the father-daughters(trio)start to bond...ishaan though will remain her popsie will take a backseat till mishti comes back to him

never judge the cover by its book...mishti has not bond with kunu...thus she is doing popsie rant...the day she bond with kunal n pari with her heart...she will have a change of mind n heart...

post-leap i did observe...how even with ishaan being with her...she was drawn towards kunal did fall into his charm...its only the truth torn them apart...

so mauli better don't make this mistake if she wants kunu to stay out and make ishaan her popsie
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