Originally posted by: krystal_watz
Mages: 'Chamdi utar deni chahiye' is actually the literal Hindi translation of a Bengali saying 'mere chhal chamra tule debo'. Ask any Bengali person, it was a very popular saying by parents and elders in our childhood. It's not to be taken in literal sense. It's a saying which means "will give a sound thrashing/beating".
No actual skinning is involved here, lol.
Originally posted by: krystal_watz
Mages: 'Chamdi utar deni chahiye' is actually the literal Hindi translation of a Bengali saying 'mere chhal chamra tule debo'. Ask any Bengali person, it was a very popular saying by parents and elders in our childhood. It's not to be taken in literal sense. It's a saying which means "will give a sound thrashing/beating".
No actual skinning is involved here, lol.
Originally posted by: prettywomaniya
what mishti did is wrong.. she should be punished or counselled..no! i guess u dont realise u are supporting a CRIME..
Originally posted by: krystal_watz
You are suggesting an ideal world with ideal human beings. Sorry, but it does not work that way. Psychological issues were always there; its just the we're aware of them today.And let me tell you, children are never traumatised by beatings when they know it's for a good reason. Children are not robots; they have enough instinct and intellect to tell the right from the wrong in basic matters.Also, it is not possible to raise a child without ever raising hand even ONCE. I haven't met not heard of anybody (this includes young parents of today with little kids) who never hit their children even once. Kids routinely get beaten up even today; and they don't get traumatised because of it.And please remember what Mishti has done is NOT normal child misbehaviour.
Originally posted by: krystal_watz
You are suggesting an ideal world with ideal human beings. Sorry, but it does not work that way. Psychological issues were always there; its just the we're aware of them today.And let me tell you, children are never traumatised by beatings when they know it's for a good reason. Children are not robots; they have enough instinct and intellect to tell the right from the wrong in basic matters.Also, it is not possible to raise a child without ever raising hand even ONCE. I haven't met not heard of anybody (this includes young parents of today with little kids) who never hit their children even once. Kids routinely get beaten up even today; and they don't get traumatised because of it.And please remember what Mishti has done is NOT normal child misbehaviour.
Love ur sense of humor. Mishti did a very bad thing, she should be shown the correct way. For some it is mar ke chamri utar dena chahiye. Being a Bengali I know when it is used and what is the meaning. It is literally hit so hard that you are skinned out.But people do not have the humbleness to accept their thinking is not right. They will stand by that making excuses that it had different meaning.Forum is divided first M vs N now M vs P. Any fault of M - one set is ready to hand her over to flesh trader. Any fault of P - one set ready to hit on her head.I think more than Mishti s help person who is still on this brutal beating spree needs counselling or phsyco help.
My children are 21 n 19 now. And I CAN PROUDLY SAY THAT I HV NEVER EVER RAISED MY HAND ON THEM. And touchwood, they hv grown up to be amazing human beings, where my friends n family gives my kids examples in their circle..
Point is beating is not required. TALKING IS. There is nothing we don't share. They share their gf-bf clashes with me n I guide them how to handle issues calmly...
Originally posted by: krystal_watz
When you're thrashed, your body will ache.IDO: Yes, and please tell me no elder ever used that phrase for you when you were up to serious mischief in your childhood. We used to hear it all the time. Like "Ami eta korle maa mere chamra gutiye nebe" or "baba jante parle chhal chamra tule nebe". Literally everybody heard these stuff in childhood and nobody took them seriously. 😆But yeah, we would definitely hurt after a good beating. 😠Especially our backs.
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