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its gonna be a long long post.. i am sorry but i need to write all this..
since most of the people are worried about end games so i thought of expressing my views about the JOURNEY OF SILSILA in terms of END GAMES..
we all love mauli and want THE BEST END for her.. but i am sure we don't want that at the cost of this story/journey.. i hope to find some lucky people here who can get both "THE BEST/preferred END" and "a good journey".
okay! let me be clearer!
as of now there the 3 possible "THE END" for this story/mauli.
1) stay single
2) marry ishaan
3) reunite with kunal
END GAMES do matter but lets not forget that there will be a JOURNEY to each END.. so we have to discuss that as well. and jhelofy that too to get our best/preferred end/option for mauli.. but are we ready to face it??
we can discuss/ debate on 1) stay single or 2)marry ishaan some other day (probably in my other thread) . right now everyone's concern is maunal..
AND I DO NOT WANT MAUNAL !!
my reasons --
1) I do not want KUNAL's butchering for one more time - kunal always claimed that he had loved nandini and it wasnt just an affair.. for him she was his destiny! kunal again falling in love with mauli be a joke if not handled well..
and if it is handled well then he would have to name his falling for nandini "a mistake" .. then what will he tell mauli?? and to himself?? and to the world?? that he never loved nandini and she was a mistake and he screwed up so many lives just like that??? that time he was a man in his late twenties, a mature doctor who was intelligent, compassionate and kind and supportive. CHOSING NANDINI AND LEAVING MAULI were conscious decisions and he knew the consequences.. and the phase did go for a long long time. even the news of his wife's pregnancy had not shaken him up to see the reality.. for him his love was the reality while mauli was breaking down every single day.. she was begging him to come back.. the same mauli he used to love like anything and the same mauli he will be claiming love again.. 😕 is it possible he can fall for her without getting butchered??
dont tell me that to love mauli again he doesnt need to forget his love for nandini and a part of him will still love nandini.. this theory can work for mauli but not for kunal.. he CHOSE to leave mauli..
he can not tell "main pehle tumse pyaar karta tha . fir nhi karta tha. fir se krne lga hun.. "😕
also, if they Unite at the end with the theory "love can happen twice" (many times here) then how can mauli be assure of his love again?? that he will not do this again. and now the "manzil" has changed.. earlier also he said the same things to her that she is the best wife, only a fool can leave her, he is a usoolowala banda(man of principles)
kunal has to accept that he didnt love nandini if they want maunal as end game.. and that will butcher his character again.. it will be an insult to pari and late nandini too.. just because she is no more he can again fall in love with mauli??🥱🤔
will he be not insulting mauli again??
its an insult to all the tears of his and his family and all those painful bad memories that his ema created.. does he really have the guts to say that he was just facinated towards nandini????
either way kunal will be butchered!! whether he chooses to say his love for nandini was not true or says a part of his still loves nandini but he has fallen for mauli again . pls note that mauli is the same person he chose to leave.. its not that she was some childhood friend or college friend..
(lol! i hate these adjectives "true/real" with the word love..love is love.. i wonder if there can be sacha jhuta love)
i hope there is some 3rd different option other than these two . i saw some hints of that option but i guess i am imagining all this and indian tv can never reach to those heights. ( i dont want to discuss that option) ..
i again repeat his falling for her can be justified to some extend if handled well but his getting back to her can never be justified.
2) i do not want to see MAULI's butchering specially when she already is a winner..
yes!! till now she is a winner.. she doesnt need kunal back in her life to prove that her love for him was stronger than kunan's relationship.. probably people are seeing this situation as nandini vs mauli and this makes them think like kunal getting back to mauli will proof that mauli is the best lover one can have. i wonder!🤔
didnt she WIN this "mauli vs nandini" when she chose to let him go,,?? yes she won that day only.. she didnt play her motherhood card and kept him for herself..
people complain that she didnt tell him the truth that time.. she should have and kicked him out that time.. do u really think kunal would have left?? he wouldnt have. he had to stay back and mauli had to live with the fact that he stayed ONLY FOR THE KID.. she would have got a "cheater husband" who was not willing to come back and was emotionally blackmailed..
initially when mauli was happy that he returned; she was happy as she thought he came for THEM (for her and the baby) she thought that he also wants to give a chance to their relationship willingly. he only came and asked her "kya hum is rishte ko ek aur mauka deke dekhein?" . she had faith on their relationship.. but when he accused her of telling a lie about pregnancy that faith had gone..
there is a difference between forgiveness at that time when he came for the baby and this time..
she forgave him for his ema.. wanted him back. begged him to come back.. why?? she loved him deeply and had faith in her love that she will make him love her again.
once again, she welcomed him with open arms when he came back . why?? she had trust on him and on their relationship that they will TOGETHER make things right..
EMA WAS FORGIVEN..
then he accused her and left her when she was pregnant. (not blaming him entirely, but no blame to mauli , have already made a post in his favour)
she lived with this pain for 6 years that he left her when she needed her the most. he didnt think once that what if mauli wasnt lying..
that shows that he was so unwilling to stay back.. mauli raised a daughter without him..
probably in these 6 years she had always dreamt of a happy family with him.. (her lantren lightening scene)
now when he told her that he wants to love mishti, wants to hug her she is overwhelmed with emotions.. she cried!! why?? she always knew (subconsciously though) that he can never hate his child and would have stayed back willingly or unwillingly for the kid sake. but that time it was not only about the child.. so she cried when she heard those words from his mouth. she was overwhelmed and sad at the same time. she was happy hearing all that but knew that the timing was wrong. now nothing can be changed.. she might be thinking "kaash yeh sab pehle feel kia hota usne, ab kya fayda"
I THINK/ASSUME that day she forgave him to some extent for leaving them alone.. FORGIVENESS GRANTED AGAIN.. and an overwhelmed mauli said she trusts him.. (ott dialogue- writer's fault to show it in a general way. should have used in terms of mishti)
but can she really forgive him for his not looking back ever??? he never cared to know if she is fine.. she could have gone into depression.. i guess he thinks she is very strong and can deal with her emotions too. i guess he never remembered her devastated look when she was begging him to come back. and never noticed her tears of happiness when he came back..
forgiveness can be granted again but accepting him again is... i dont know what to say.
why?? why she should accept him back this time?? i have stated all reasons for the times she wanted him back.. pls tell me why she would want him back this time??
dont tell me LOVE is the reason.. and her KID is the reason.. mishti has a father whom mauli trusts very much.. doubting ishaan will be doubting mauli.. so i dont want go there..
LOVE -- what is love??? how do we fall for someone?? can i love a person with same intensity all my life?? doesnt love changes its form??
definition of love can be different for everyone. but i feel we love (romantic love here) a person for many things that he possess.. a person is a package of his looks, habits, traits, nature, behaviour and many other things.. the intensity of loving someone changes as that "someone" changes..
kunal can never be that kunal again. he is tainted..this relationship is tainted.. he can not undo what he has done.. so definitely that intensity has mellowed..
i will be disappointed if mauli still loves him to the extent of wanting him back.. she probably can never hate him but loving him romantically is a disappointment..
A PART OF MAULI has always loved him and will probably keep loving him forever ( not romantically though, i just said love changes its form.) love stays in the heart of such people who have loved someone really deeply , just the form changes. many of u must have experienced this too.. must have gone through breakups and still care about that person , wish good for him but doesnt want him back..
probably u guys have experienced this too that sometimes our past suddenly comes in front of us and we are lured into imagining/recalling those sweet past memories.. but does that mean that we want that past as our future? same happened with mauli , she saw him in her dream saying "i missed u" .. may be a part of her wanted him so badly in these years but does that mean she actually want him back??
is this thing right??
can their passionate scenes lure me into wanting them together?? NO!!!
as a maunal fan, i would have loved to see them reconciling when the time was right.
for me that right time has gone way back..!
i hope writers do not act immature and give us some mature scenes. this betrayal is one unique betrayal so please dont make kunal look like a fool when he wonders why mauli wants to avoid him.. i know he is wondering why sudden change in her behaviour but he is actually forcing her to talk when she doesnt want to.. let him respect her decision and be silent about it.. let the logical circumstances do the work.. i dont want maunal but i never got pissed off seeing them together as it was always their journey.
this push and pull is needed to let their inner feelings come out..
i hope kunal is there to free mauli from those bad memories. thats it!! i want him to apologize to her for breaking her trust not bcz he regrets marrying nandini but he regrets not trying as much as mauli did. he regrets for compromising with his usools.. i hope he replies to all her questions that he didnt that time. he tells her that he could have stopped himself but he didnt make enough efforts.. "juzzbaat sahi galat nhi hote lekin unme behna na behna ek marzi hoti hai. ek choice hoti hai.." and he made a CHOICE..
ps : this is neither a bashing post nor an anti maunal post and most of u know it. so please dont use flithy words for characters.. read it again, absorb it, try to understand it and then reply..
we all love mauli and want THE BEST END for her.. but i am sure we don't want that at the cost of this story/journey.. i hope to find some lucky people here who can get both "THE BEST/preferred END" and "a good journey".
okay! let me be clearer!
as of now there the 3 possible "THE END" for this story/mauli.
1) stay single
2) marry ishaan
3) reunite with kunal
END GAMES do matter but lets not forget that there will be a JOURNEY to each END.. so we have to discuss that as well. and jhelofy that too to get our best/preferred end/option for mauli.. but are we ready to face it??
we can discuss/ debate on 1) stay single or 2)marry ishaan some other day (probably in my other thread) . right now everyone's concern is maunal..
AND I DO NOT WANT MAUNAL !!
my reasons --
1) I do not want KUNAL's butchering for one more time - kunal always claimed that he had loved nandini and it wasnt just an affair.. for him she was his destiny! kunal again falling in love with mauli be a joke if not handled well..
and if it is handled well then he would have to name his falling for nandini "a mistake" .. then what will he tell mauli?? and to himself?? and to the world?? that he never loved nandini and she was a mistake and he screwed up so many lives just like that??? that time he was a man in his late twenties, a mature doctor who was intelligent, compassionate and kind and supportive. CHOSING NANDINI AND LEAVING MAULI were conscious decisions and he knew the consequences.. and the phase did go for a long long time. even the news of his wife's pregnancy had not shaken him up to see the reality.. for him his love was the reality while mauli was breaking down every single day.. she was begging him to come back.. the same mauli he used to love like anything and the same mauli he will be claiming love again.. 😕 is it possible he can fall for her without getting butchered??
dont tell me that to love mauli again he doesnt need to forget his love for nandini and a part of him will still love nandini.. this theory can work for mauli but not for kunal.. he CHOSE to leave mauli..
he can not tell "main pehle tumse pyaar karta tha . fir nhi karta tha. fir se krne lga hun.. "😕
also, if they Unite at the end with the theory "love can happen twice" (many times here) then how can mauli be assure of his love again?? that he will not do this again. and now the "manzil" has changed.. earlier also he said the same things to her that she is the best wife, only a fool can leave her, he is a usoolowala banda(man of principles)
kunal has to accept that he didnt love nandini if they want maunal as end game.. and that will butcher his character again.. it will be an insult to pari and late nandini too.. just because she is no more he can again fall in love with mauli??🥱🤔
will he be not insulting mauli again??
its an insult to all the tears of his and his family and all those painful bad memories that his ema created.. does he really have the guts to say that he was just facinated towards nandini????
either way kunal will be butchered!! whether he chooses to say his love for nandini was not true or says a part of his still loves nandini but he has fallen for mauli again . pls note that mauli is the same person he chose to leave.. its not that she was some childhood friend or college friend..
(lol! i hate these adjectives "true/real" with the word love..love is love.. i wonder if there can be sacha jhuta love)
i hope there is some 3rd different option other than these two . i saw some hints of that option but i guess i am imagining all this and indian tv can never reach to those heights. ( i dont want to discuss that option) ..
i again repeat his falling for her can be justified to some extend if handled well but his getting back to her can never be justified.
2) i do not want to see MAULI's butchering specially when she already is a winner..
yes!! till now she is a winner.. she doesnt need kunal back in her life to prove that her love for him was stronger than kunan's relationship.. probably people are seeing this situation as nandini vs mauli and this makes them think like kunal getting back to mauli will proof that mauli is the best lover one can have. i wonder!🤔
didnt she WIN this "mauli vs nandini" when she chose to let him go,,?? yes she won that day only.. she didnt play her motherhood card and kept him for herself..
people complain that she didnt tell him the truth that time.. she should have and kicked him out that time.. do u really think kunal would have left?? he wouldnt have. he had to stay back and mauli had to live with the fact that he stayed ONLY FOR THE KID.. she would have got a "cheater husband" who was not willing to come back and was emotionally blackmailed..
initially when mauli was happy that he returned; she was happy as she thought he came for THEM (for her and the baby) she thought that he also wants to give a chance to their relationship willingly. he only came and asked her "kya hum is rishte ko ek aur mauka deke dekhein?" . she had faith on their relationship.. but when he accused her of telling a lie about pregnancy that faith had gone..
there is a difference between forgiveness at that time when he came for the baby and this time..
she forgave him for his ema.. wanted him back. begged him to come back.. why?? she loved him deeply and had faith in her love that she will make him love her again.
once again, she welcomed him with open arms when he came back . why?? she had trust on him and on their relationship that they will TOGETHER make things right..
EMA WAS FORGIVEN..
then he accused her and left her when she was pregnant. (not blaming him entirely, but no blame to mauli , have already made a post in his favour)
she lived with this pain for 6 years that he left her when she needed her the most. he didnt think once that what if mauli wasnt lying..
that shows that he was so unwilling to stay back.. mauli raised a daughter without him..
probably in these 6 years she had always dreamt of a happy family with him.. (her lantren lightening scene)
now when he told her that he wants to love mishti, wants to hug her she is overwhelmed with emotions.. she cried!! why?? she always knew (subconsciously though) that he can never hate his child and would have stayed back willingly or unwillingly for the kid sake. but that time it was not only about the child.. so she cried when she heard those words from his mouth. she was overwhelmed and sad at the same time. she was happy hearing all that but knew that the timing was wrong. now nothing can be changed.. she might be thinking "kaash yeh sab pehle feel kia hota usne, ab kya fayda"
I THINK/ASSUME that day she forgave him to some extent for leaving them alone.. FORGIVENESS GRANTED AGAIN.. and an overwhelmed mauli said she trusts him.. (ott dialogue- writer's fault to show it in a general way. should have used in terms of mishti)
but can she really forgive him for his not looking back ever??? he never cared to know if she is fine.. she could have gone into depression.. i guess he thinks she is very strong and can deal with her emotions too. i guess he never remembered her devastated look when she was begging him to come back. and never noticed her tears of happiness when he came back..
forgiveness can be granted again but accepting him again is... i dont know what to say.
why?? why she should accept him back this time?? i have stated all reasons for the times she wanted him back.. pls tell me why she would want him back this time??
dont tell me LOVE is the reason.. and her KID is the reason.. mishti has a father whom mauli trusts very much.. doubting ishaan will be doubting mauli.. so i dont want go there..
LOVE -- what is love??? how do we fall for someone?? can i love a person with same intensity all my life?? doesnt love changes its form??
definition of love can be different for everyone. but i feel we love (romantic love here) a person for many things that he possess.. a person is a package of his looks, habits, traits, nature, behaviour and many other things.. the intensity of loving someone changes as that "someone" changes..
kunal can never be that kunal again. he is tainted..this relationship is tainted.. he can not undo what he has done.. so definitely that intensity has mellowed..
i will be disappointed if mauli still loves him to the extent of wanting him back.. she probably can never hate him but loving him romantically is a disappointment..
A PART OF MAULI has always loved him and will probably keep loving him forever ( not romantically though, i just said love changes its form.) love stays in the heart of such people who have loved someone really deeply , just the form changes. many of u must have experienced this too.. must have gone through breakups and still care about that person , wish good for him but doesnt want him back..
probably u guys have experienced this too that sometimes our past suddenly comes in front of us and we are lured into imagining/recalling those sweet past memories.. but does that mean that we want that past as our future? same happened with mauli , she saw him in her dream saying "i missed u" .. may be a part of her wanted him so badly in these years but does that mean she actually want him back??
is this thing right??
can their passionate scenes lure me into wanting them together?? NO!!!
as a maunal fan, i would have loved to see them reconciling when the time was right.
for me that right time has gone way back..!
i hope writers do not act immature and give us some mature scenes. this betrayal is one unique betrayal so please dont make kunal look like a fool when he wonders why mauli wants to avoid him.. i know he is wondering why sudden change in her behaviour but he is actually forcing her to talk when she doesnt want to.. let him respect her decision and be silent about it.. let the logical circumstances do the work.. i dont want maunal but i never got pissed off seeing them together as it was always their journey.
this push and pull is needed to let their inner feelings come out..
i hope kunal is there to free mauli from those bad memories. thats it!! i want him to apologize to her for breaking her trust not bcz he regrets marrying nandini but he regrets not trying as much as mauli did. he regrets for compromising with his usools.. i hope he replies to all her questions that he didnt that time. he tells her that he could have stopped himself but he didnt make enough efforts.. "juzzbaat sahi galat nhi hote lekin unme behna na behna ek marzi hoti hai. ek choice hoti hai.." and he made a CHOICE..
ps : this is neither a bashing post nor an anti maunal post and most of u know it. so please dont use flithy words for characters.. read it again, absorb it, try to understand it and then reply..
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