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Well few days ago i came across a very insightful video on what is right age to fall in love and how to act on it. The answer I received was, that their is no age to love but yes, their is indeed a age to act on it. That age comes after being emotionally mature and financially stable enough to support another person's needs along with yourself otherwise you'll end up doing things that would do no good to you Because Yes, Love indeed has that kind of Power.
I found this really on point and accurate.
Now when I reflect this on Samaina, Its absolutely fits , I believe!
Their Love was young , beautiful love, which is growing and maturing into a beautiful life long bond i suppose, They are beautifully overcoming each hurdle and growing stronger as a couple which I feel is being shown beautifully..
But was it really needed?
I mean they are too much engrossed in their dynamics as a couple aren't they losing out on the most important relationship of the world, which we have with ourselves.. Are they losing out their individuality? Love do make us Insane, and this is something i always love about it, But one should act Insane as much as they want but only, when they could afford it, when they are the one paying for it not others.
When Sameer gave that signed letter to principal, I was appalled, not because of the romantic sacrificial gesture, but because of the sheer insanity the guy has shown.Although later i did realize his perspective and kind of admire him for his guts. But still the ambitious girl in me could connect with his actions, because no matter how gutsy he was, that was not the right place and time to show those guts or his love. If tomorrow if Naina refuses some opportunity(like durdarshan one) for Sameer's happiness, i would be equally appalled and furious. Simply because right now its their time to live life to the fullest, explore every opportunity and focus on their careers rather than making blunderous sacrifices for each other which could pile up in Regrets and blame game later in life. They can make all sacrifices for each other and do whatever they want, once they are Man and Wife but for now atleast they should not let go once in a life opportunities and blow up college exams. Because doing that it will not just be them on the receiving end but their parents too. That's why i somehow found Naina's reaction justified when she slapped him because its seems more like she was snapping him out from his self sacrificial guilt trip. Honestly it was kind of needed. I really want Sameer and Naina to be able to put themselves first without coming across as villians. If they really consider each other as their strength , then they should act like one, no conditions attached. I always found, preeti, pandit and rest of the gang's life much simpler than these too, even munna and swati's.
I really found a the post named 'metamorphosis' on the forum posted few days back, very profound in this context.
Now Above's write Up completely from a perspective of single girl in her early 20s which i am, and this certainly doesn't mean i am against samaina's love. Its just a perspective on their love at the emotional and hormone driven age they are going through,
All constructive opinions are warmly welcome!
Love Wendy! 🤗
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