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Khushi....

@Khushi....

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Posted: 5 years ago

So now even Kunal's mum is acting like it's Mauli's choice whether to keep her marriage going or not.

Are all these women blind in this show? Can they not see the pain that Mauli is in and do they not understand the impact of Kunal's betrayal? He didn't just sleep with any woman, he slept with Mauli's best friend. If Mauli slept with Kunal's best friend would they all be ganging up on Kunal and asking him to give Mauli another chance? And he proclaims to love this other woman, and even went to stay in her house, how is a woman meant to forgive all that?

As for this marriage, Kunal ruined it the moment he went off with Nandini. And guess what, he doesn't give a damn. He is still running after Nandini, he doesn't care about Mauli, he clearly doesn't want Mauli. So why should Mauli fight for this marriage? What's there to save?

It should be Kunal fighting for his marriage, Kunal begging for forgiveness, Kunal not running to his mistress at every opportunity. Why don't the women talk to Kunal and tell him to fight for this marriage, let's see if he has the guts to tell them he wants to spend his life with Nandini.

Mauli is a great character, but she really shouldn't be putting her feelings at stake, and should tell Kunal's mum and dida that Kunal visits and talks to Nandini still, and wants Nandini.

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Basilisk

@Basilisk

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Posted: 5 years ago

Completely agree with everything you said ! Why is it always the women who has to compromise and try to mend a broken relationship?...A relationship that her 'loving' husband didn't give a shit about! And now that she is trying to move on, she has to face so much familial pressure to 'save' her marriage. Why is it HER burden to save this marriage? It's Kunal who should be groveling at her feet ! This marriage is beyond saving now. Once a cheater always a cheater. She has every right to break all ties with this cheating scumbag and live an independent and happy life from now on!

I hate such regressive thoughts. I think Indian culture is so collectivist that everyone tries to interfere in everyone else's personal lives. A young married couple can't even decide the right path for their own relationship without the elders of the family doing fake, over the top drama and emotional blackmailing. 🥱🥱🥱

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Sabyata

@Sabyata

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Posted: 5 years ago

I got confuse ..whatever Radhika said to mauli😕

Why she and dida not asking Kunal to leave nandini oranything ..I don't know what to say

Radhika's words ajeeb se lage

Poor Mauli--she 1st time opened up herself to Chakor..aur ab yeh Radika's words.no clue..what & how it's gonna effects her

I watched last 2 episode today ..looks like lots of things changed in this 2 episodes

kya tha woh --where Kunal telling to virat/tara..ki agar best wife ki trophy hoti toh..main Mauli ko deta aur khud ko bahut Lucky feel karta

What nonsense is that..

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Sabyata

@Sabyata

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Khushi...
So now even Kunal's mum is acting like it's Mauli's choice whether to keep her marriage going or not.

Are all these women blind in this show? Can they not see the pain that Mauli is in and do they not understand the impact of Kunal's betrayal? He didn't just sleep with any woman, he slept with Mauli's best friend. If Mauli slept with Kunal's best friend would they all be ganging up on Kunal and asking him to give Mauli another chance? And he proclaims to love this other woman, and even went to stay in her house, how is a woman meant to forgive all that?

As for this marriage, Kunal ruined it the moment he went off with Nandini. And guess what, he doesn't give a damn. He is still running after Nandini, he doesn't care about Mauli, he clearly doesn't want Mauli. So why should Mauli fight for this marriage? What's there to save?

It should be Kunal fighting for his marriage, Kunal begging for forgiveness, Kunal not running to his mistress at every opportunity. Why don't the women talk to Kunal and tell him to fight for this marriage, let's see if he has the guts to tell them he wants to spend his life with Nandini.

Mauli is a great character, but she really shouldn't be putting her feelings at stake, and should tell Kunal's mum and dida that Kunal visits and talks to Nandini still, and wants Nandini.

Good point..why she is suffering & y not informing them..

She loves Kunal..we understand that..per she is not thinking about herself,

Another thing we know--she loves/cares --Dida & Radhika..but y it is only her duty to take care of them..why not kunal??

why kunal is free to do whatever he want..and all responsibilities falls on Mauli

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Khushi....

@Khushi....

Senior Member

Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Basilisk
Completely agree with everything you said ! Why is it always the women who has to compromise and try to mend a broken relationship?...A relationship that her 'loving' husband didn't give a shit about! And now that she is trying to move on, she has to face so much familial pressure to 'save' her marriage. Why is it HER burden to save this marriage? It's Kunal who should be groveling at her feet ! This marriage is beyond saving now. Once a cheater always a cheater. She has every right to break all ties with this cheating scumbag and live an independent and happy life from now on!

I hate such regressive thoughts. I think Indian culture is so collectivist that everyone tries to interfere in everyone else's personal lives. A young married couple can't even decide the right path for their own relationship without the elders of the family doing fake, over the top drama and emotional blackmailing. 🥱🥱🥱

I guess we shouldn't be surprised, this is how TV shows and society seems to treat women. Women have to do everything.

Take this affair for example, both Kunal and Nandini are wrong, yet Kunal is shown as somehow redeemable. His family had one go at him and he stood up for Mauli once and somehow all is almost forgiven. Whereas Nandini, who is also wrong, seems to get all the hate rather than Kunal. And then comes Tara to blame Mauli for it all and not the husband who cheated. This would actually happen in real life.

The affair was wrong, but if Kunal doesn't want to be with Mauli and he wants to be with Nandini, then surely it is much better for Mauli for him to leave.

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poiu123

@poiu123

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Posted: 5 years ago

I don't think Mauli or Kunal s family know that Kunal and Nandini have slept together. They think it is restricted to feelings only

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Khushi....

@Khushi....

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: poiu123
I don't think Mauli or Kunal s family know that Kunal and Nandini have slept together. They think it is restricted to feelings only

This could right. But they also thought Kunal went to live with Nandini when he left the home, so they must know it's more than just feelings.

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Stark_Wolf

@Stark_Wolf

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Posted: 5 years ago

Jus started watching the show n hate every women in this shpw other than mauli...such cruel ppl who doesnt care abt victim or her suffering all they care abt is pavitra rishta n how to save it urghh n then those two scums nandu im nt evn gone talk abt her bt the moron hubby during divorce episode actually had the audacity to ask mauli that dis dida maa knw abt this divorce thing? Kyun bai? Did u inform them abt ur bang bang section with nandu chee such cheap n disgusting ppl n mauli's mom the less said the better!n i really dont think mauli has any idea abt them sleeping together:(

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JaZzs

@JaZzs

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Posted: 5 years ago

according to Kunal's mom n dida Kunal is a man he can have affairs with as many women as he want but mauli as a wife should be happy with the least bit of honesty/attention she receives from Kunal and be with him as his dharm patni, if not it will all be mauli's mistake for the broken marriage not Kunal's 😵 ...mauli should move out of that house asap rather than trying to knock sense to those who are blinded by their love for their son and regressive mindsets...

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Migraine

@Migraine

Senior Member

Posted: 5 years ago

Well said.

This is just insult now .

And it shows how women are dushman to other woman

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