Nandhini is not rape victim

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Posted: 2018-09-19T05:10:12Z
Stop saying nandhini us a rape victim .she is NOT there us a reason why marital rape is not considered rape in many countries ..it's a GREY Area
Trauma in marital rape us different and less compared to brutal gang rape like nirbhaya or child rapes

So don't consider nandhini as rape victim


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Posted: 2018-09-19T05:40:33Z
Rape is sexually forcing someone when he/she is unwilling.Rajdeep used to behave exactly in this manner.Ergo Nandini was raped by rajdeep.Just because it was not as brutal or 'extreme' a case does not mean it was not rape.The definition of rape does not specify any level of brutality crossing which it becomes rape.
She was completely unwilling.He forced her.Rape.

I don't know if in some marriages it is a "grey area" or no.But in Nandini's case there is no grey area.She was clearly and completely unwilling.He knew that and didn't care of her unwillingness.A trait I am thinking must be pretty common in rapists.
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Posted: 2018-09-19T05:45:13Z
Originally posted by Saazhumsafars


Rape is sexually forcing someone when he/she is unwilling.Rajdeep used to behave exactly in this manner.Ergo Nandini was raped by rajdeep.Just because it was not as brutal or 'extreme' a case does not mean it was not rape.The definition of rape does not specify any level of brutality crossing which it becomes rape.
She was completely unwilling.He forced her.Rape.

I don't know if in some marriages it is a "grey area" or no.But in Nandini's case there is no grey area.She was clearly and completely unwilling.He knew that and didn't care of her unwillingness.A trait I am thinking must be pretty common in rapists.
Absoulety agree with you
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Posted: 2018-09-19T06:05:34Z
There are many men who force their wife for sex.Next day these woman are completely decked up ,dancing partying.At the back of their mind it remains though...


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Posted: 2018-09-19T06:11:27Z
Nandini IS a rape victim. Just because her predator is married to her, doesn't mean she's not a rape victim. This is a silly irrational argument. Nandini is also a victim of repetitive domestic abuse.
Rajdeep is a great written villain character, but let's not defend his sins.
ALSO STOP COMPARING TRAUMA AS GREATER THAN THE OTHER. EVERY PERSON TREATS AND REACTS TO TRAUMA DIFFERENTLY!
Edited by Sarahbelle - 2018-09-19T06:13:02Z
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Posted: 2018-09-19T06:17:35Z
Originally posted by Saazhumsafars


Rape is sexually forcing someone when he/she is unwilling.Rajdeep used to behave exactly in this manner.Ergo Nandini was raped by rajdeep.Just because it was not as brutal or 'extreme' a case does not mean it was not rape.The definition of rape does not specify any level of brutality crossing which it becomes rape.
She was completely unwilling.He forced her.Rape.

I don't know if in some marriages it is a "grey area" or no.But in Nandini's case there is no grey area.She was clearly and completely unwilling.He knew that and didn't care of her unwillingness.A trait I am thinking must be pretty common in rapists.


A bit off topic here, but letting some know that an  teacher who is a lawyer from my university told the class is that there are a lot of sexual predators that assume the victims secretly loves the pleasure of being dominated and obedient as one major reason for their treacherous acts.


Edited by Sarahbelle - 2018-09-19T06:18:28Z
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Posted: 2018-09-19T06:27:13Z
She IS a rape victim. Rape is rape no matter what as long as the victim did not fully give consent. Marital rape is not a grey area in the developped world, it's a clear cut crime. Also the amount of trauma a person feels from a situation is subjective and variable. Even if marital rape isn't as traumatic for you doesn't mean other people won't feel completely devasted if something like that happens to them
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Posted: 2018-09-19T06:38:44Z
Nandhini is a rape victim and its even more painful living with a person who did it, not knowing what is going ot happen next or when. You are never at peace. 
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