Originally posted by brownpride
Hi everyone,
I know I will be bashed and everything but that's fine I wrote before and finally got the courage to write a post again I mean I read everything on here but I think it's high time I try and spread a bit of love I know what Nandani did was wrong but think about it you were married to a guy who treated you like a slave beat you tortured you and then force himself on you and then to top it of sell you as if you were his prostitute and he your pimp for his business gains. Whenever he got a chance he would throw himself on Nandani when he was intoxicated and never in his senses why? Maybe he knew that if he was drunk he would be able to use more power and force and just hurt her more? I feel for Mauli as she does not deserve what happened to her but in some case it was also her fault I mean trying to be super human isn't right you have a husband spend time don't avoid him and work as a team include Kunal in his dream project support him but what Mauli did was leave a void he wanted to spend time with his wife get that alone time I mean Nandani is your friend but she should have separated it where she should have some alone time with Kunal and time for Nandani she shouldn't have to drag them when Kunal kept on saying to her he just wanted to spend time with her only.come to Kunal he shouldn't have cheated and acted more mature and communicated this clearly with Mauli but then again it's human nature to get tempted and then it's your own self control that you go for it or don't but in all this all three characters have some fault but Nandani's main fault is that she was a coward and didn't say no and she also gave into a new feeling that she has never experienced and was trying so hard to not fall into it she even tried to leave I mean people she is not a dark character she is just a sponge who follows or goes where she feels secure she felt secure with Mauli and Kunal and yes she is wrong to have sex with Kunal but it was the temptation that was to strong and she is not mentally stable so her character is more of a person who isn't fully aware and is easily manipulated.
Sorry for the long post but please do comment and tell me if I am wrong or if you agree
You said N didnt deserved the abuse by R. Yes I agree.
Then, you said that M is at fault, because she worked and didnt spend time with her hubby. No I don't agree because victim blaming goes two ways. You said N didnt deserve abuse, but then you put the blame on M. I can say same thing, for the sake of argument: It could be N fault as well, why she stayed with an abusive hubby?
See.
Your temptation excuse for Kunal is really weak. There is something called self control. Think about temptation and a rapist. You will get your answer. You cannot act on some of your thoughts.
Lastly, N isnt mentally unstable. They didnt show that angle. She is aware of what she is doing. She is just being selfish. Manipulated by whom? Kunal.Well she also enjoyed the sex and it was consensual so why making a big deal?
She also deserves all the hate.