This content was originally posted by-GulneerKaur
I can't believe I'm making another post on this show that has blown my mind away with its level of shit but I guess I just had to because it seemed like a lot of things I still had to vent out, otherwise my hands will itch and my mind would be in some utter restlessness.
1. A lot of people are feeling bad for Nandini after today's episode...
What exactly is creating that softcorner in all your heart (Just a genuine question)? Is it the way she locked herself in the room? Is it because she practically started shivering out of guilt? Was it because she was shedding buckets of tears? Did her "humein usse akele nahi chhor na chahiye tha" make you feel that she's being caring towards Nandini? Or were they the lines laced with "concern" that she spoke on the phone, "what if she does something to herself!!??".
because none of them are good enough of a reason for us to even THINK about Nandini at this point. Just because she is shown as one of the female leads of this show and (I mentioned this somewhere else as well) just because her character is shown so "pure" and "naive" and "helpless" doesn't not make her free of the sins she committed. What I don't understand is, if it was an actual vamp playing nandini's character and her character was not shown to be so "pure" and "naive", I wonder if people would still so just as much sympathy. because in either of the cases, the fact remains the same. Now, many would argue by saying "But nandini had no bad/evil intention." DUDE! she's a grown up, an effing adult. And we have got brains as well to at least understand that Just because she's crying buckets with mauli's picture in her hand and pleading her to believe "I had no intention to hurt you", doesn't actually mean she actually didn't want to hurt her. Wasn't it always in her subconscious mind where her actions were going at? and what significant impact it might have on EVERYONE'S life?! Shouldn't she have just turned her back at Kunal as soon as she realized where all these were going? She still decided to put her wrong foot forward...because She became SO selfish for her happiness that she thought it was OKAY to let her heart build those feelings and as expected, eventually she just got carried away and slept with her best friend's husband... and people still FEELS for this woman? How?!
2. People are saying she's been abused by her husband for a long time, she's been mentally and emotionally very upset and so she couldn't see or understand what she was doing...
Achha, chalo yeh bhi man le te hai...but what about now? Reality hit her right? Why did she still take kunal's call? Why didn't she turn her back towards him? Shouldn't he have left the town out of guilt now that she's "feeling" the guilt? Why did SHE become that helpless, naive woman, talking to kunal like "Humein usse akele nahi chhor na chahiye tha" Like this lady needs a major punch on her face for even having the audacity to say that...YOU have snatched the meaning of life from her and now you're saying you shouldn't have left her alone...Like, are you good?! Where was all these concerns when you did not stop yourself to have sex with her husband? and where were those lines of worries on your forehead and buckets of tears when you didn't even feel a tinge of guilt after you woke up in the morning with him? She behaved like she felt like a goddess or something when she should have felt SICK out of guilt.
3. Some are trying to Justify her actions at this point saying since she was deprived of love all her life, when she got a little bit of love and care from kunal, she just gave in...
Are you basically trying to say that Kunal's love was everything? What about Mauli? what about everything she did?! what about her selfless love that she always showered her with that not even blood sisters do in today's world? What about the emotional, and mental support she gave to her? What about all the efforts she put in to get back Mauli's confidence? What about her countless attempts to get her out of the anxiety, depression phase? What about all those genuine joy she felt seeing a simple smile on Nandini's face? Is love from an opposite sex is the only thing that could get her out of that phase? Is the caring gesture only from a man can pleasure her? Like, how does she even have the audacity to say that "I can't leave friendship but I can't leave my love either"?! HER love?! Is this woman mentally unstable?! it still hasn't struck her that that "love" was never hers?! And how did love become as important and precious as her CHILDHOOD bestfriendship?! she just met kunal few days ago and now she's not ready to let go of her own bestfriend's husband, claiming it HER love...so a few months of "love" became so valuable to this woman that she's ready to ruin her own bestfriend's life by snatching her husband? Like, you shouldn't even show your face to anyone in the society at this point for the sin you have committed, and here you have the audacity to still call it YOUR love?! Woman, you would have been dead by now if MAULI didn't give a shelter in her house, calling you her bestfriend and treating you like your own blood sister. And you still don't feel the guilt!
I just genuinely wonder which world's logic and sentiments as a woman you are trying to follow... because I have been really trying to understand what exactly could be still left out there that is building such a soft corner in people's heart and I can find NONE.
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