Is Nandini not at fault?

Posting after a looonnnggg time, I had sworn off of using India Forum but couldn't stop myself from asking this question, this is not about Kunal, Kunal is solely responsible for breaking his marriage, he's responsible if his marriage breaks but that's not what I am talking about, none will defend Kunal but how isn't Nandini wrong?

What we know about Nandini?

Nandini and Mauli were best of friends, then came Rajdeep, Rajdeep was nice to Nandini obviously because he wanted to marry her, he did not reveal his true face in front of her, but he did it in front of Mauli, he misbehaved with her, Mauli told Nandini about it but Nandini believed Rajdeep over Mauli and she had to pay the price of that one mistake, none should face all she did, none should go through what she went though, Rajdeep made her life miserable but thankfully Mauli came back in her life and got Nandini out of an abusive marriage and the life which was nothing better than hell

I have seen people writing that it's not wrong for Nandini to fall in love with Kunal or it's understandable that Nandini falls for Kunal, how so? How is it understandable from any point of view?

Nandini a woman who went through so much, she paid heavily for one mistake she made, do you think one week is all she needs to come out of that trauma of being abused and fall in love with or be attracted to the first man she meets? Wouldn't she need the time to heal the mental scars? It's not about Kunal, it's about Nandini, the woman Nandini who got out of one messy life, why would she choose the same pain for herself?

Then there is Mauli's friend Nandini, even if Kunal is the nicest man she knows can she really fall for Mauli's husband? And if she does how isn't it her fault? So you have been wronged by someone so you get the free pass to hurt people without thinking about who is it that you are hurting? Nandini is responsible for her actions as much as Kunal is
I don't believe that you can't control your feelings, of course you can control your feelings, people get all kinds of wrong feelings but they do control it when they don't then we have problems, as they say "Genius is knowing when to stop"
I hope I am clear that I am not blaming Nandini for breaking Mauli's marriage that ball is in Kunal's court, but I am blaming Nandini for breaking Mauli's trust, again, she did it once with Rajdeep and she's doing it again with Kunal Edited by Metis - 5 years ago

if Nandini totally decided that she will sure fall.for Kunal then surely it is her fault but here Nandini has regretted by showing feelings to Kunal . she has feel sorry for mauli . Nandini has initial feelings but after ward she has control her feelings and regretted such thoughts
btw I love this line" genius is knowing where to stop and i think Kunal and Nandini following this line
both Kunal and Nandini controlling their feelings towards each other in order not to hurt mauli


Edited by surabhi01 - 5 years ago

Kunal & Nandini both are at fault if Nandini just fall for Kunal with out any regret .
Kunal must take more blame because he has a pretty , intelligent and supportive wife unlike Nandu

If they do end up having an affair then both Nandini and Kunal are at fault.

I guess I wasn't as clear as I thought lol

in. Friday episode Kunal did not c Nandini through mirror in car though mauli and all other sleeping only Kunal and Nandini were awake

Kunal was disgusted with himself that I cannot see in my eyes now I have to make myself so that I can see in my eyes

and Nandini too regretted in her room that how can she destroy life of friend who has make my life bright


Kunal has shared indirect feelings to mauli that if I am lost will u search me?Edited by surabhi01 - 5 years ago

Hi Dracarys, good to see you here. I totally understand your point.
I think I've also said that I won't blame Nandini if she falls for Kunal coz of the abusive husband and torturous married life she experienced in her past, and its natural if she falls for Kunal since he saved her many times and gives her respect and care which she must have craved from a man. But that doesn't mean she is right in falling for Kunal. It's wrong and a betrayal to Mauli's trust obviously.
Even if she starts to feel for Kunal she should know how to control it for Mauli's sake, Coz if she owes her happiness and freedom she has in her life at present it is to Mauli and not Kunal exactly. Mauli is the one who stood for her when she had nobody. She choosing Rajdeep was somehow fine, But betraying or breaking her trust by having feelings for her husband can never be called fine or acceptable. She would be similar to Kunal then.Edited by Luv_PaRiAnSh - 5 years ago

Edited by Alohomora_ - 5 years ago

we have to wait  and  see what exactly going to happen wether she try to snatch her friend's husband or leave them and go somewhere else.

Hey, how are you? It's good to see you again

I understand the whole point of love and care, when a victim is looking for love she'll receive it from anyone, is it necessary that she will harbor feelings for her preferred sex, because from what I see Mauli loves Nandini too, she's doing much more for her than Kunal, in the beginning Kunal said he's helping Nandini because that will make Mauli happy but from the beginning Mauli has done everything for Nandini because she cared about Nandini.

So think from perspective of a victim, don't you think she'll trust or take shelter or put her every hope on people in her inner circle, from what I have seen Kunal doesn't belong to that inner circle, it's Mauli the abused woman will take love from anyone, not romantic love it's too soon for that but the love which makes her feel alive again.

I never fell for the tears of people who do wrong things, think about it like this if Rajdeep beats Nandini then cries and apologizes then does it again, are we going to say the man is not wrong because he's feeling bad? You do wrong things then cry then do it again, you are not a victim you are a habitual offender and this goes for both Kunal and Nandini
Edited by DracarysTrio - 5 years ago