Originally posted by: flutterby
Hello Mili. 😳
Of course... the writers are doing it all for drama... the child will be a link to make Abhigya one again.. 🥱
The child should know what a joke her papa actually is.. it may be painful initially, but atleast the so called "father" will have to work that much harder to win his daughter's heart.
Flutter, your post was on my mind over the weekend😕. I am not festering on it, but wondering what I would want if it were my child.
I have a just turned 8 yr old. If I simply look at the child's point of view, I felt that she is too young to be able to digest and bear the burden of knowing mama being thrown out as garbage, her ( child's) possible existence is not even pondered about. No question, she should eventually know the truth about her sorry father, when she is ready, but I don't want her basic trust in human grace and spirit, her parent be taken away at this time. I am hoping against hope that she already knows dada and papa are two different people, so she doesn't have to deal with another heartbreak for herself. This news could have been delivered at a very young age in a matter of fact manner, without too much fuss. FYI, I am more than happy and grateful that King stepped in as a father figure in her life, solid, stable, dependable, but not liking the innuendo of being husband and wife to the world. There is simply no need for it. Who says you can't board with a good friend?😲
As for the disgraced husband, he will have to answer to his conscience. I know I said again and again, that I want this parent to face the guilt and culpability, but even that is not letting me wish that he is looked at by his young daughter through the glass of " you threw my mama out, didn't have any concern about her existence or what she had to face, didn't wonder if I existed and while we are going through this mess, you remarried"😡😡 That is a mouthful, but he will have to answer to every single one of those unasked questions from his daughter once he finds out the truth. And yes it is going to be hard to earn her trust, that is by no means a simple punishment. Not sure if I can write this here, if not, I won't do it again🤔
Edited by mili9 - 5 years ago
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