I felt No one knew her personally coz she kept it private and never spoke about it.
From what I know, her mom was overprotective and used her as a golden goose which she denied and her sister looted her money by staking a claim on her mom's properties and money which was bought from Sridevi's money.
Her interview with Vir singhvi in 2017, she said she never went shopping as her mom did it for her, her full day was spent on the sets.
Anyway, Boney and Sridevi were in love and people usually are quick to blame the lady, the onus falls on the guy, he is the one married and has a responsibility towards his family.
anyway what happened , happened and it was sad for mona and her kids but all those who said Madhuri was spotless...I disagree
Madhuri too was in a full feldged affair with a much married sanjay dutt and in fact, his then wife richa was sichk and dying. i remember her daughters open letter to Madhuri requesting her to leave her dad ...
Richa passed away
But then the Sanjay Dutt was arrested and Madhuri broke off with him ..
so there's a dark shade in every hero and heroine's life. No one in the industry is spotless