Sometimes love holds us back from giving medicine to pain

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Posted: 8 years ago
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What a beautiful line. That is what obsessive love makes you do. It holds us back from giving medicine to our own pain. It stops from giving medicine to other's pain.
Arjun's love for his mother who was no longer there made him blind towards Vandana, because he was trapped in that love. Love he had experienced for 6 years. he wanted that love. But he remained in that cage without realizing if he could just allow himself to come out of that cage that love was available for him.

When he hears Maya who has kept her mother in a cage because she cannot tolerate her father and she is not strong enough to let go of her mother, unable to give medicine to her mother because she loves her mother so much he realizes the cage he had put himself in.

And what he had told Vandana. Another aspect that runs through Arjun is how Maya's biological father have behaved with her. For her money as a child he tortured Maya, made her behave abnormally in public as he did so much torture in private. Then in public told she is mad. The child Maya who from young age has been locked in rooms for hours, berated, drowned in water, beaten publicly, humiliated publicly is fragile and insecure. While Vandana Arjun's step mom had treated him with care. That perception your father-mother will be nice to you, stepmom-step father will wrong you also break for Arjun as he listen's to Maya's childhood horrors.

Vandana expects the miracle Saanjh's handiwork, not sure how she will take it when she knows it is Maya. Can she take the perception breaking.

I felt so sorry for Maya sitting lonely on that terrace. Poor thing when Arjun went it was like her worst fears affirmed. No one will come to her if they know her past. If they know she is just a frightened girl.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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You have described so beautifully the emotions behind those lines.. Wonderful yaar👏
Each and every words describe perfectly emotions of arjun today..
And what to say about vandana...she lives in her own lala land where evry right thing for arjun is done by saanjh...i felt irritatd by her statement.. I mean, saanjh left arjun alone to take hers side and was listening hers story then how come she made arjun realize his mistake.. Saanjh wont be in two places right..
Thats why i loved precap more when arjun cleared her misunderstanding...but i wont think she will take it postively...acc to her maya can nvr do anything good..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I hope after this Vandana that Maya isn't as bad as she seems
Their acing was awesome today
Each and every person acted as tho it was real...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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But I didn't find her story scary that people will run away from her ...Why does Jahnvi, Ashwin think hearing Maya's story people will run away from her ...cuz today what I heard was a pathetic sad story of a little child with a traumatic past who has grown up to be a woman with a strong exterior but a very vulnerable & weak interior ... like you said her story is only making you sad .. but did it at all scare you that you will run away ? I just wanted to hug Maya & comfort her but never will I want to run away from her ..unless there's more to the story & Maya has not revealed everything .
But I did love the part where Vandana thought her laadli has shown her son the right path ... like really ? all these years she couldn't bring them close & she was thinking in one night her laadli created a miracle 😆 .. I laughed when I saw the precap & how her face fell seeing it was Maya who had done the deed & man ! Maya's look & smile that she gave her was a killer 😆 Maya didn't manipulate to bring them close .. her sad tale made Arjun realize his mistake ..but when Arjun told his mom about that ..Maya couldn't but show the woman that she has won again.. She has done this twice first with her words at the breakfast table & now again 😉😳

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

What a beautiful line. That is what obsessive love makes you do. It holds us back from giving medicine to our own pain. It stops from giving medicine to other's pain.

Arjun's love for his mother who was no longer there made him blind towards Vandana, because he was trapped in that love. Love he had experienced for 6 years. he wanted that love. But he remained in that cage without realizing if he could just allow himself to come out of that cage that love was available for him.

When he hears Maya who has kept her mother in a cage because she cannot tolerate her father and she is not strong enough to let go of her mother, unable to give medicine to her mother because she loves her mother so much he realizes the cage he had put himself in.

And what he had told Vandana. Another aspect that runs through Arjun is how Maya's biological father have behaved with her. For her money as a child he tortured Maya, made her behave abnormally in public as he did so much torture in private. Then in public told she is mad. The child Maya who from young age has been locked in rooms for hours, berated, drowned in water, beaten publicly, humiliated publicly is fragile and insecure. While Vandana Arjun's step mom had treated him with care. That perception your father-mother will be nice to you, stepmom-step father will wrong you also break for Arjun as he listen's to Maya's childhood horrors.

Vandana expects the miracle Saanjh's handiwork, not sure how she will take it when she knows it is Maya. Can she take the perception breaking.

I felt so sorry for Maya sitting lonely on that terrace. Poor thing when Arjun went it was like her worst fears affirmed. No one will come to her if they know her past. If they know she is just a frightened girl.


At bold nothing to add more u analysed nicely. Arjun could se his mistakes through maya's glass . Maya n vandana were two parallel lines in this situation because arjun realised it when he compared vandana 's situation with maya .
I have two issue

One with jhanvi . She was rich adult and a mother .Y maya had to face so much torture ? Police , power , law she could easily use it to take action . Y maya is protecting her y can't she protect maya

2nd acceptance , i wished this realisation of arjun was gradually to make it realistic . Just one line , suddenly duffer becomes smart and then they are singing hum saath saath hai like pure 20 years suddenly umad aaya . Step by step if realisation hota toh accha hota
Edited by SaurabhKiRadha - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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^^ Finite series hai ... maybe that's why they are making it short. They have the whole story penned down already ... so they have to show many things within a short span .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think your post succeded in making the picture clearer then the screen play writer.When I saw the episode ,there was something unconvincing. ..like how arjun changed after listening to Maya s story ...I mean they are abusive stories which flash on tv almost every day.

The problem was with picturisation.When ever Maya was telling about ashwin abusing. ..they did Maya flashback scene...side by side they should have shown arjun s flashback scenes like how he misbehaved with vandana but still she cared him like a real mom.So the impact was missing .

I agree with saurabhkiradha that step by step realisation would look more better.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha


At bold nothing to add more u analysed nicely. Arjun could se his mistakes through maya's glass . Maya n vandana were two parallel lines in this situation because arjun realised it when he compared vandana 's situation with maya .
I have two issue

One with jhanvi . She was rich adult and a mother .Y maya had to face so much torture ? Police , power , law she could easily use it to take action . Y maya is protecting her y can't she protect maya

2nd acceptance , i wished this realisation of arjun was gradually to make it realistic . Just one line , suddenly duffer becomes smart and then they are singing hum saath saath hai like pure 20 years suddenly umad aaya . Step by step if realisation hota toh accha hota


I also agree
Although I liked that it is realized the love of vandana
But see suddenly their relationship changed to 190 ,
Is a little strange

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful post 👍🏼


Once again maya scored very well ... ur right abt how both these arjun & maya are inter connected bcoz they have similar past, not a perfect family like saanjh had thus able to connect with each other

But i think there are more to the Story , maya only reveal bits of it ... but it manage to solve or bring solution to arjun 's problem that exist after his father remarried ...

I felt bad for maya as well, the moment arjun realise he needs to go .. the poor girl thought his running away from her and just unable to come out of it ... and waited whole night ... arjun is not sensitivite to people's feeling towards him ... he thinks and act at that moment very fast ... the poor girl just told him his her horror past but he seems blank as well ... he did that many times to saanjh as well ...

Actually maya is def not normal , she behaves normal when arjun is around .. she only show arjun what she wants to show ... if arjun lives with her one day then only he will know what the horror past has done to this sweet little 9 year old girl that made her what she is today ... the other side of her ... which I think only jhanvi or perhaps ashwin knows ...

Earlier theres a court case right , is that anything to do with the property , divorce or maya 's murder case etc ...

Going by the Mauritius track arjun Will propose to maya , its not love but what leads to the proposal ... im curious ...

Im glad that they ae moving the Story with a bit of past revealed ...



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Im hoping high that this Time on indian TV a guy accepts the girl with damage past and treats her and lives happily ever after ...

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