Devs behavior Towards Sona

Yes !! He loves her . She is like oxygen for him. He needs her to stay alive and enjoy life. She is also the one who will help him to see the world thru "PINK GLASSES". But what about Sona? Is he able to accept her completely into his life. When it comes to solving problem at his home and Sona trying to help, he alienates her saying that she will never understand the bonding betwn him and his family.

I know it takes time for a couple to adjust to each other post marriage and understand each other's family. Yesterday when Dev decided to go and pick Sona , his mom says she is the one who sent Sona home for Bhai dhooj. Dev's reaction is what scared me . He did question his mom politely and even emphasized on the fact that Sona is a part of their family...but I felt when his mom said she has allowed Sona to stay at her parents house for few more days after Bhai Dhooj, he should have objected to it . He should have made it very clear that when it comes to his wife there are certain things that he will decide. He again behaved like the Dev during the break up track days!!

I know he has changed a lot but I feel he is still allowing Ishwari to take decision for the two of them ...or let me rephrase it ...his behavior and attitude will allow Ishwari to manipulate the situation and spoil their relationship.

Yesterday we did see him saying it loud that she is his wife and a part of his family, though his actions were far from what he spoke. I am glad at least he said it aloud. Till this time, she was only a part of him and not his family. Now he has slowly started getting used to the idea of her not only being a part of him but also his family. And probably that is the reason why he told his mom the same.

But what he needs to understand is until and unless he gives her that position in his life and establish the same in front of his family, his family is going to treat her as an outsider. He has to not ONLY feel but also behave in such a way that ppl see Sona as his family...

If he doesnt make changes to his attitude , his mom and sis will literally spoil their relationship. Today Ishwari being able to keep Sona away from him was an example...I felt more of trailer to the actual separation that might come up in future track

Let us hope he will soon realize this and behave accordingly.

I agree with you completely

Ishwari told Dev 3 weeks back - From now on will you take every decision for your family after discussing with your wife ?

agree with u dear. slowly he is changing post marriage def he will change completely..the journey will be a treat to watch😊

Thats typical od Dev's character which cannot change that easily. Infact this cannot change till he faces a major jolt in life. Dev has never gone against Ishwari's logics. This ingrained in him.

But what i m really liking is his love for Sonakshi is deepening day by day. He after every fight is so ready to patchup no matter what is the ussue. Dev clearly knows if he ever tells Ishwari that its about him and his wife Ishwari will never be able to take it.

Inspite of Ishwari telling him to let Sonakshi stay at her parents place, Dev's visit to Bose house to get Sonakshi back speaks a lot.
Actions always speak louder than words. Infact i loved this about Dev. He knows what he wants and still never offends neone with his words

I feel somewhere they both let Ishu control their relationship the patch up happened because of Ishu and not Devakshi.Yes Dev has now started saying it loud that Sona is part of the family but he should act like that.Sona too has to share her biggest insecurity of Dev leaving her again because of Ishu and Dev too has to share his past with Sona so that she can understand his pov too.Unless and until they don't talk MU will b created and they don't need Ishu for that 😆.Ishu can separate them but cannot break their bond it's to strong 😃

Originally posted by: dbrk

Thats typical od Dev's character which cannot change that easily. Infact this cannot change till he faces a major jolt in life. Dev has never gone against Ishwari's logics. This ingrained in him.

But what i m really liking is his love for Sonakshi is deepening day by day. He after every fight is so ready to patchup no matter what is the ussue. Dev clearly knows if he ever tells Ishwari that its about him and his wife Ishwari will never be able to take it.

Inspite of Ishwari telling him to let Sonakshi stay at her parents place, Dev's visit to Bose house to get Sonakshi back speaks a lot.
Actions always speak louder than words. Infact i loved this about Dev. He knows what he wants and still never offends neone with his words

Originally posted by: siddhi.d123

I feel somewhere they both let Ishu control their relationship the patch up happened because of Ishu and not Devakshi.Yes Dev has now started saying it loud that Sona is part of the family but he should act like that.Sona too has to share her biggest insecurity of Dev leaving her again because of Ishu and Dev too has to share his past with Sona so that she can understand his pov too.Unless and until they don't talk MU will b created and they don't need Ishu for that 😆.Ishu can separate them but cannot break their bond it's to strong 😃

Wonderful post👏

I get scared sometimes when I see some good moments.
Because u don't know when iswari is going to interfere in their happiness.

This is so not done. Dev has given so much power to his mother.
Sona knows this. She also must be living in constant fear.
If iswari is not revealing her insecurities, then sona also not telling Dev about hers.

Then, what use in telling him? He will say my mother has accepted you,
You are part of the family. Etc.

As viewers, I am talking about people like me- I don't like this kind of uncertainty
I know this is a show.
It is ruining my sleep .

Seriously I had not signed in for this.
I was thinking everyday u go to bed with a smile on your face.
Small happenings in a family.their small fights/romance/

But this is like a time bomb - iswari & Dev ready to explode anytime.
By weak heart can't take this much.

Sorry, my pov