i really hope ashudi would realise that he is really not the pain she'd going through if he actually marries neela and end this here. usski life toh already barbaad kardi ashish ne, plus she has a daughter, she'd going to have another child soon, this is no life for them and having such a cowardly man for father is not going to help them the least bit.
the problem is that she isn't anything without him financially though? because it doesn't look like she works, we don't know what qualifications she has and what kind of job she could get to sustain her family and it's so sad.