Seems like there are only issues piling up around Issue aunty! Soon we'll get to see Bose parivar ka issues as well...π
Sona tells Elena, "Chotti chotti baathon ke liye mein Dev ke paas kyun jaoon??" Honestly speaking, I think Sona fears Dev's reaction more than Ishwari's. Yes she doesn't want to talk to him about his own mother. But at least she could try speaking to him. Why keep him in the dark??There was a time that whenever Ishwari was upset or feeling low, it was Sona who could make her feel little better but now she has no idea that everything that she says is going to backfire. Elena was right... when Sona was trying so hard to please Ishwari, I think Dev needed to be kept in loop on what's been happening as well.. At this moment we have three people who are not thinking on the same wavelength. Sona confronted Ishwari & RR & told them exactly what she was feeling...And what did she get out of it?? More Baashan! That's all... She was stuck! Ishwari was getting all the more complicated & Dev had absolutely no idea.
Ishwari looks like she's having a problem every single second that she breathes... she's complaining about Dev not having food with her?? π Maybe he truly had some work & because of that he was late. Mamaji was right by pointing out that Nikki & Riya take their plates & go to their respective rooms to eat... (oh I forgot she doesn't care about her daughters) ...as kids grow up the way they function also changes, their priorities, their wants & needs changes. Ishwari you cannot pick on a particular instant & go berserk & blame Dev for your bitter insecure feelings.. Like I said before, she is just dissecting every little move of Dev's & holding Sona responsible for that... Even if he sneezes it's because of Sona.
"Mere paas aur hai hi kya...mera beta hi tho hai"...Ishwari really behaves like she'll be homeless the moment Dev is out of her life... Does she know that she has three daughters?? She's impossible! And the way she's pinning for Dev's attention is just too weird. He'll suffocate one day that's for sure. Maybe not instantly but he'll come around. And thank you Mamji for her telling this.. "Ishwari tu pagal hai??" But it didn't have any effect on her π€ "Waqt badal gaya hai bhaiya", Ishwari tells Mamaji. Yes, time has definitely gone by & Dev is not that child anymore that he used to be. It's been 17-18 years & she's still stuck in the past. It is she who needs to realize this.
Poor Sona is trying so hard. She wants to learn cooking, but I really don't know why she needs to do all of this. And Bijoy showed her the mirror. It's ok to learn cooking but no one needs to force you to learn it. There shouldn't be any compulsion, only passion. If she's passionate about cooking then yes he'll understand. And Bijoy understood that Sona was doing all of this because of the Dixits. Can't blame Dev, he loves Sona just the way she is. It is only Ishwari & her so called insecurities that was making everything so difficult. After seeing Sona behave like that Bijoy couldn't help but worry about hios daughter...any father would be. So the Bose's decide to pay a visit & that would confirm Bijoy's agitated & disturbed feeling. Yes Bijoy, go save your daughter!
Ishwari really feels that Sona is a threat to her π ...so she cooks what she wants Dev to eat & what does doctorni do? She asks bhola bhaiya to take away everything?? π Sona, you need to slow down babe...You're still the nutritionist that Dev hired for his mother. What I don't seem to understand is, when she clearly told Dev the other day to slow down & give Ishwari some time to accept things, here she was busy rushing into things way too fast...She was hell bent on forcing Ishwari to accept her. All she needed to do was to go with the flow. But here every single thing that she was doing was being scrutinized & she was held responsible... Dev coming home late was Sonakshi's fault. Wow! ππ... I can't even believe that a smart girl like Sona couldn't figure out that Ishwari didn't like her & she was not being wanted there. And Ishwari went way over-board. She's now the smart lady who is dill-dallying & deviating from her insecurities & is making Sona feel that she is not worthy enough for this family. That she isn't capable enough to be the bahu of this family... Wah wah!! Nice try I must say.
Why Sona why?? After listening to everything that Ishwari had to tell you...you still went looking for trouble. Why do you want to dig your own grave?? Wait a minute, it's already dug & kept by Ishwari...she only needs to push you into it...Go ahead, go get pushed!...She starts praising how mahan Ishwari is & that she wants to learn everything from her, how she managed the house & looked after everything...blab bla bla... We know Sona was genuinely being sweet, honest & nice but she was just making muck out of everything... Sona was being too bold when she said that, she knows that Ishwari didn't choose her for Dev but Dev was the one who chose her for himself. That must have been a huge blow for Ishwari. If you think from Ishwari's pov it was as if Sona was making her feel/look weak in front of her...Bad move, I must say!
Ishwari was so down right rude & insulting when Sona's folks came to visit her...Well honestly, her behavior is not shocking at all these days. Elena knew that Ishwari was having some problem with Sona, then why did she have to chatter away non-stop?? And Bijoy & Asha were absolutely mum. The terms Jiju, Dev babu, jodi, theen, saade theen mahine were similar to punches (blow) to Ishwari...It was like as if someone was punching her continuously. π And Bijoy just sat there analyzing every expression on her face. Well, something good is going to come out of this visit. So I'm very happy..π³
Precap: Why are you being so hasty Ishwari?? You'll need these pills in the future when you really can't handle sleepless nights..π₯±
And for Sona, we know she's currently blinded with love & trust. But that doesn't mean she needs to let go of many things. She needs the respect that she deserves, she needs to maintain her dignity, she should focus on her career & the moment when she doubted her self-worth...she should've immediately realized that there is no place for her at Dev's house. She's so amazing that she deserves so much more. She doesn't value herself that much. And now the writers are making her look π€’
And Ishwari will learn the most out of this breakup. Dev nor Sona are going to make her understand. Situations might make her realize that she was truly horrible to the child she loves the most. Apart from seeing her son suffering, we have the Khatari situation, Neha's marital problems, even Riya or Nikki might cause some prbl, maybe even Vicky/RR might create some issue...So all this will be an eye opener for her...
Ishwari tho aaj kal only ruins our mood...Guess we'll have to wait for another two days max...till her B.P pills drama is over... Am only missing out on all the live forum reactions after the episode airs...well I've no choice, I have to be in bed that time for an early start the next day...:/ maybe only Friday nights, I can join all the hullabulla...ha ha..;)