I think whereas most of your comments here related to the off screen behavior of the actors and actresses and the 1 thing I have noticed on this forum is that if the members here are frustrated with something that these actors do off screen they vent for a couple of days bt it eventually blows over within a couple of days and they get back to normal and discuss the show. I think the 1 problem that this forum has though is with u giving DT notices on ever post were a comment is made on Souyma aka snaky. I was reading your comment on this post. www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4628525. From what I understand from your replies there it seems as if u dnt have a problem with us describing a character for what she/he is. U just have a problem with the nicknameaka snaky. Does it mean if I call say souyma is a snake or snake souyma I follow the guidelines? Coz I an describing the character. Souyma character is 1 of a snake. So I can call her snake but not snaky. So I therefore can call her snaky souyma? And therefore the similar approach would be for the rest of the characters for instance when it comes to name calling yuvraj names we can't call him stupidRaj bt stupid Yuvraj. Or RetardSu bt suhani is retarded. Well as for the suhani reference and about some1 name calling suhani well most often the insult is towards her skin color and them having a problem with that. So why shouldn't fans objects? Fans calling Souyma snaky does it reflect on her as a real life person or on the actresses nature? For me it does not. I think the actress should get married, buy a flower shop and call it quit but its not coz her character is a snake that I think she should its coz she is a useless actress that she should quit. Bt when suhani is being trashed the reasoning is often how can they have such a dark skinned lead, she doesn't look like a lead nor should she be a lead it is all linked to her skin color. So there is an obvious distinction btw the 2 sort of bashing that has been on this forum. Also I am gona mention this again coz I do not think this topic is closed coz I dnt think u given be proper reason besides trying to use your position to dictate to me what I should discuss on an actor. Rajshri is an actor she has done previous shows besides Suhani even though this forum is for the show and all discussions should be on the show bt still she is part of the show as an actor. I am a lot on the Bollywood forum. Besides discussing the actors acting they discuss the BW actor/actresses look, hair, eyes, performance, hair they discuss the weight of these actors as well. Rajshri is an actor besides the acting the way she looks on screen has to also be discussed. When I mention her weight I am always careful to not be hurtful about it coz it is linked to her as a person and not only that I am not a thin person to be superior when I speak about that issue and I know that others are not either. So I would never be rude about it. U say u want an environment which is healthy and free for fans to discuss everything. How is avoiding an issue a free and healthy environment? If some1 is discussing an issue respectfully then why cnt they discuss it. By limited the discussion on sensitive issues this doesn't show that the forum members are mature. U just implying that they would not be able to handle sensitive issues properly. People are sensitive about weight topics as I have seen when there has been discussions on the topic here. But that doesn't mean that an issue should be avoided 1 should learn to discuss an issue in a reasonable manner. That's what IF is for. On the Bollywood fans comment on Sonakshi's weight bt they dnt imply she cnt be an actress coz of it, its just that she does stupid movies that fans think she is pathetic. haters comment about Salmans weight gain as an insult. I dnt see his fans making an issue about it they ignore. I have also been on the Kasam forum the lead female there when the show started there were a few who said she does not look like a good pair coz she looked older and she looked pregnant. And fans actually said that on 1 of the posts not only me. I didn't see that the moderators close that post. So I think u should discuss this issue with the ppl above u coz until I see other forums members whose leads are slightly big being restricted from talking about whether their looks suit a character. I will say u wrong and u trying to use your position and give me warnings to stop me from raising an issue when I have seen other forums especially the BWF discuss such issues and they haven't been stopped
Bobbi, I have a question with respect to your point #3. YHM forum calls Mani mosquito, Ashok is Cockroach, Aaliya is junior mosquito... how is that different from calling a rotten. betraying friend snaky, short for snake in the grass? There can't be different rules for different tv show forums--even if you say the rules differ for BWF. That itself makes no real sense, that if a forum is large and fast-moving it's okay to bash to a different level? Wouldn't that just mean bigger arguments turning ugly and carrying on forever?
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