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Originally posted by: amus5Ruchi
this incident holds true not just for Anjali but for us too...I mean when we think we are happy surrounded by our very own sometimes a certain act or word acts as a catharisis which you would wish to indulge in privacy or seclusion...it may not have anything to do with the outside world but all within us...I dont know if this is normal with others but I have experienced being in such a position many a times and that too without any bags or baggages as carried by Anjali...very well emoted because I felt that I was the protagonist there ...
I agree Amu, it does hold true for so many of us. Sometimes, we unknowingly bury feelings that we don't want to, or can't, deal with. And then you see or hear something which forces you to stop and give in to the "what if" and the "why me" ... A genuine coming to terms with things can only be done in seclusion. You have to look within yourself, another person can only ever act as a catalyst.
Originally posted by: amus5Another thought that came to me was that as we pass through time at some point or the other we tend to look deeper into matters than what meets the eye - "snap judgement" becomes a thing of the past. Is this called maturity and experience
True ... our life experiences should hopefully curb that propensity for "snap judgements". To make us able to, and to want to seek to, understand matters before jumping to conclusions.
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