I have to say many things

This might seem needy and desperate and pathetic and attention seeking and I might regret this later...but I am going to do this anyway Edited by LOLitaPawar - 8 years ago

Having watched from the sidelines and having i think almost never gotten personal with u. In fact actually having pleaded with friends through FB messages to leave u alone, and still liking u after all the crap happened i will say this..
Unfortunately you started this.. what set in motion was something people like me and shivi tried very very very hard to stop.. we actually spent time messaging younger members of the fandom to leave u alone even if u continued to rile them simply because shivi and i liked you!

but things got from bad to worse and now its a situation of you reap what you sow.. cz you continued to provoke and provoke till people started giving back as good as they got. And since the return was collective you would definitely reap more that you bargained for.

but even you know what you got in return was nothing compared to what you would have gotten had you done the same with the other 2 fandoms rivaling hers.
i just wish this can stop..

but considering you are the one who started this and having hurt your ego after finding no support for the same from within the fandom you got more riled. So you will have to find it in you to take a step back and be the one to offer the olive branch if that is what u want. Cz I dont think anyone will take you seriously till then..


PS: oddly enough after even admitting here that you opened topics just to get San bashed I still like you.. probably cz i have liked you for too many years..
anyway hope you get what you expected to gain from this, if you too are willing to work to make it happen..Edited by princessunara - 8 years ago

Has it ever occurred to you that, 'why only YOU?' ... ..There are many of her fans who say CC was a bad decision ... there are many fans who pick faults from her JDJ acts ... there are many who even criticize the clothes she wears on functions ... Why her fandom doesnt jump on them, but they do on you?? Why?? 










Edited by -Zesty- - 8 years ago

If you are admitting that you deliberately open posts to get Sanaya bashed, I have absolutely no regard for you as a fellow forum member. I am not even going to talk to you about your opinions about Chhanchhan, Paro, Sanaya or Sanaya fans. It is a waste of time for me. Edited by Anisha. - 8 years ago

I'll give you my honest opinion Lolita. I just don't understand what it is that your trying to do. I know you've been a Sanaya fan for a long time and back in the days of IPK, you used to be a staunch supporter, but lately it just seems like you've developed a dislike towards Sanaya. I really have no intention of indulging into mudslinging, but I can't help but think you have some kind of aversion towards Sanaya and her fandom and your posts are a result of that. I have seen you making such posts for a while but I have ignored most of them...and I have probably just commented on 2-3 of them...but you can't keep instigating people and expect people not to give it back. And many of your posts don't even come across as constructive criticism...as you keep making them over and over again...and sometimes you don't even do any research.

If you're still a Sanaya fan, why is it that you feel the need to make posts criticizing her? And why do you expect the rest of the fandom to not take offense indulge in repeated debates regarding Sanaya? Are we on a mission to prove that her fans are her biggest detractors? Why should we do this when no other fandoms ever do it?

See, a fan is called a fan for a reason. If we were so quick to find faults with a celeb we claim to like..and we had more things we disliked about the said celeb then we liked...we wouldn't become fans in the first place. And it's not even like her fans don't even critic her. I can think of quite a few people who have constructively criticized her works and their views are respected because they give balanced opinions. A celeb has three kinds of following; fans, who love them unabashedly, neutral viewers, who are just neutral and haters who find faults in them at every opportunity. Lately, you just don't seem to belong in the first or even the second category. It might be that you've moved on from her, but in that case, shouldn't you just move on altogether? Why stick around and pick fights with her fans? That's why I made a suggestion about your DP. People know you as a Sanaya fan, your DP attests to that but your actions speak otherwise.

The thing I like about Sanaya besides her acting is her blunt and straight forward nature and I prefer that over celebs who try to come across as politically correct all the time...and I thought you liked that about her as well. And we've already discussed about her performances in other your other threads.

As for Sanaya's ability to choose roles, Indian television is very limited in terms of content and an artiste can only do so much. Sanaya tries her best to do different kinds of work within the restraints of tv industry...so basically, what she is trying to do is be as versatile as possible. Some shows/characters will work and others won't. That's what happened with CC. It probably looked good on paper but the end result came out differently.

Anyway, I don't understand what you're trying to achieve by doing all this. Before anything else, I suggest that you sort out your feelings for Sanaya...that is, if you haven't done that already. 

LP , I thought abt not replying to your post but since you have addressed a huge chunk of the post to me , so changed my mind .

You are someone I know from CC days and I really enjoyed your humour and sarcasm . A lot of times I know others didn't get it but I for one enjoyed it all .

I lost respect for you in the JDJ forum .. Not because you didn't like sanaya's Khuda Jaane performance but because of how you belittled it, her efforts and once fans gave it back to you .. How you started mocking them .Post that you were on every post which was to mock / bash Sanaya in the JDJ forum and things just went downhill .
The final straw was the " has someone died " post . What DD fans did to that by bringing a real person in it and mocking her apparent sucide bid . It is unforgivable ! Way beyond fandom fights , mocking of celebs etc . You should have asked the mods to close the post but you did nothing of that sort ..

Post that back in the RR forum your posts have become pure nuisance value .. They are there to mock and bash Sanaya and her fans .. If someone gives it back to you , you lash back . Every time I read a post of yours it's like .. Oh no , not again .. I feel that for shailu's posts too and it's a pity that feel the same for yours ..cause you are way better .

Regarding CHannchann and the whole discussion I don't even remember it LP .. You said something nasty , I responded , you gave it back . It's a pattern .. Nothing new . I didn't feel bad .. It's pointless .
I still believe CC on paper was a great choice for Sanaya as at that pt of time she didn't want to do love stories , but poorly executed . Happens all the time on TV with the limited choices actors have . Doesn't make them dumb and stupid .
You mentioned Rati Panday .. I have a totally different opinion abt her career . She is out of sight for almost 3 yrs , is called for no reality shows like JDJ etc .. And basically has vanished . The only thing she does is give regular interviews to IF abt how she is inundated with offers and is willing to host , dance , act etc
I am not mocking her but from a career pt. of view their is no comparison between her and Sanaya .. So who is smarter / dumber is a moot question .

Anyways LP too much water has flown under the bridge and I think so much damage has been done that it is irrevocable .

I think you are a student ( seen you writing abt exams etc ) you are witty and intelligent and I wish you the best . TC

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