SS61 Candy Cane & Abhi ke Abhi - Page 82

Babies and octogenarians need tender loving care

Helpless and dependent clingy and vulnerable

Babies needs we sense and willingly tend

An obstinately caring elder's needs we rue

The misplaced anger on those that are giving

Blind acceptance of those that ought to but don't

We scathe and scar, maul and scald

Unmindful of the gash and needs we can see

Wallowing in self pity acerbic in words

Taunting and judgemental hurtful beyond repair

Mis directed anger mis placed righteousness

Are harmful and damaging toxic and rude.

This content was originally posted by: NSB7

Kajal absolutely loved your quote

And before I say bye

One last thing

It's best akka remains angry with II for a while

As evil as I sound its best to have our angrer directed at a person instead of breaking down

Anger and ventiing make sure you dont give up and fall of the cliff and give up on the fight

And why II? Well II as a sister can understand

And for II to be OK we have dude to handle her

So II can take little hurt for her sister can't she?

Oook bye

Expectations have been set so high that when reality sinks in I realise such men exist in Mars or Venus or out of stratosphere 😳

It's us and Nisha :-

We hav seen many pics of dude nd kids
Now II with kids 😉

Highly emotional updateee!! Bechariii II...A hug from dude..awww...she must hv forgotten all the worries! 

This content was originally posted by: NSB7

For me the most pronounced thing about the update was emphathy and failing to accept and understand

Where the two sisters are so similar the two are portrayed with a contrast here

II seems to be empathitic about everything and everyone

Where as Vandu doesn't want to understand her sisters situation

It's probably the circumstances

II stands in a position to be able to emphasize with people and vandu has landed in a situation where she can't even spend moments emphasizing with herself and feeling self pity

Vandu is fed up she is being put through all this

II is upset she is being asked to stay out of all this

Everyone has to fight their own battles so Vandu has to deal with these things

The scar II received are not from her battles bit the effect of the battles Vandu is fighting with life

There are always such scars if the person fighting the battle means a lot to you

My heart stopped beating when I imagined something happening to II

Appa needs to know that like Vandu is impt to II

Manny is to dude

Shravu like his chitti is a talk box

And always on a loop returning to the same arguments

And he is dam cute

Loved that both wife's find comfort in their husband

How important is your man's hug at the end of a tiring and challenging day right😳

👏 sensitive chapter lovely review!

Yup that's is something that can soothe you after a rough ride Tender loving Husband is balmy.

 Akka right in venting her anger on II ia acceptable ? Sri Vishvanatha Iyer rants about the Dude going with his sister to Malai Mandir when he cant say a word about Ambala relatives...Vaishnavi...what happened to her? Other than II and Kamakshi Athai who volunteers help? Bala and She are constantly treating II like a punching bag  never for once trying to see the extent to which their words and actions hurt her that too in her pregnant state. Except the rudeness they don't seem to have anything to even dress the arm that is bleeding she did not go and intentionally gash herself to tell her Tatha goes to drop him everyday...Even when she drops the cooker lid and Bala panics she does not worry for her Sis...II packs all that was available to take for her sis but Akka not offering her a spoon of pongal even...What sensitivity are we speaking of  it is selfishness as opposed to care

Inspired by Kalpanas post

IF WISHES WERE HORSES

With each bright dawn and the glorious dusk

The landscape gets soaked and eroded anew

With each new arrival at our doorstep each inching a way to the edge

Our life in a quandary and mess

We need regular checks and balances understanding and acceptance

To steer us and keep up our spirit in the muddle and chaos

Relationships we so rely on alter with changed situations.

Some for the worse, some for the better

Some because it's meant to change some because we desire it so

We however cling on and wish for it to move on our desired course

 Assumptions and allegations pour forth

Unmindful of changes trickling in

Some for the better like finding what you love

Some for the worse as the hour gone by that you cannot rewrite

Some because it's meant to change without your bidding or making

And it's probably tough to strike a balance between old and new ties.

Concerns remain the same the problems compounded crowded

Your presence and circumstances alter and evolve

It's not anyone's intentional fault or malice.

We just have to sit back and reflect and confirm what's worth doing and what not .
Taking things for granted acting that nothing's changed

Uttering unleashed the words that occur

Can break ties that bind as delicate as gossamer

Undivided attention is pass.

This content was originally posted by: moonwearer

Babies and octogenarians need tender loving care

Helpless and dependent clingy and vulnerable

Babies needs we sense and willingly tend

An obstinately caring elder's needs we rue

The misplaced anger on those that are giving

Blind acceptance of those that ought to but don't

We scathe and scar, maul and scald

Unmindful of the gash and needs we can see

Wallowing in self pity acerbic in words

Taunting and judgemental hurtful beyond repair

Mis directed anger mis placed righteousness

Are harmful and damaging toxic and rude.

Oh Just lovely