Originally posted by: putti77It is easy to blame Vandu n sympathise with II.. One will understand Vandu's problem when they are in her shoes... She is also educated, working but has lot of baggage to carry on shoulders.. It is close to twelve years she is married from the day one she is taking care of in-laws... Together her n Bala's salary may be over one lakh but is it enough to lead a good life in Delhi? And Bala's Athai almost stay in their house.. Total three elderly people two kids she has to take care.. Is she got the luxury to sleep n wake up whenever you want? Can she abandon cooking for one time? Can she watch whatever she likes in television? Does she has the much required privacy? Of course anybody will get frustrated with her life.. Coming to Shravu, he is a kid what he will understand? The kid is already feeling insecure with Baldie birth.. The kid needs love n affection. He is already disturbed seeing why Nandu can have everything n not him. How to explain him?Yes as a mother she couldn't see Shravu upset because of Amma.. When she thinks later about it she will understand.. She started working just after three months of delivery leaving baldie back home with oldies.. Can't afford the luxury of maid..
Whereas II's worries are very different than Vandu.. Dude's past relationships, Ranjan's scandal, Chachu etc.. She is not required to face Chachu or Manny everyday... She has chosen this life n she has to overcome her insecurities.. If she can't work from tomorrow because of some complications, she is not required to worry about her loans etc... The Dude will pay off everything... If she choose to work after three months of delivery, there will be four maids to take care of Nivi.. She might not accept Bhallas wealth but indirectly she has accepted it.. Who is expecting her salary every month for house expenses? Her husband, FIL n SIL take are of her like princess..
What are simple things to be happy in life..
Lead the life in your own way..
Get up n sleep whenever you want..
Spend your money however you want..
Eat whatever you like..
Have the needed privacy..
Where do Vandu can go n rant her frustrations? How can she know that II is feeling guilty about this?
We should not forget the same Vandu-Bala supported II get married to Dude.. Infact Vandu has fought with Appa..
Yes money n luxury is not everything in life.. But we can say that only when we have enough money...
Originally posted by: SeriousreaderYo, Kavitha and Kalpana...π€
Originally posted by: Errantnomad
Yo Prats!
Oracle , pls beam. Next two mins I have to take the toothpicks out and stick it to my eyes .
My determination to read the update and then calling it a night is thinning.
Originally posted by: Errantnomad
Yo Prats!
Oracle , pls beam. Next two mins I have to take the toothpicks out and stick it to my eyes .
My determination to read the update and then calling it a night is thinning.
Originally posted by: blue5sky
come over for a coffee Kalpana πSR how are we from teleporting ourselves...π
Originally posted by: EnVeeHello Kalpana, SR, Putti, Kavitha, Sri, Asma, Pritee, Nam, Dristi and everyone online.
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