SS 52 Gain & Loss--A Menopausal Sosy - Page 56

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Posted: 6 years ago
Today has become a bashing day for me LOL LOL
Nish so pls come online and give us a happy update
Posted: 6 years ago
And her being uncomfortable is
not her not wanting to be part
of the family , but a discomfort
and wariness of not having
moved in such circles .
For many of us, in an unfamiliar
crowd , the first thought is
shucks , I don't even know
anyone.
One to one and one to many,
she is good against any and has
no complex but wary of being
judged and a case in example is
that Mr. Anil Nehwal assuming
that she is 'one of them.'"

ERRAND,this was what i was saying!!!!!she was not uncomfortable with the money,but with the people!!(thanks for ur post...nahi tho i would hav assumed that i was abnormal for feeling what II blabbered was normal!!Wink)Edited by ishruhi - 6 years ago
Posted: 6 years ago
Now i am wide awake and tying sitting...well the whiner in her surfaces everytime she wants his reassurance it is the trend ...when the dude invited Akka and others for dinner prior to the Jaipur trip the patriarch asks WHERES THE LADY OF THE HOUSE...she is accepted as theirs and they reiterate her importance and whom she now belongs to...in her case she is possessive of her dude and even details of his growing up that she didn't know makes her insecure...she is not sure that she will stumble on some discovery that might make the insecurity surface she dreads facing folks like Sams'MIL...The longing for him had brought her for the baby shower and the pictures of hers he saves
The difference is in their attitude agreed...if Savitha Bhalla had hated her son's choice like APPA she would not have slept a wink...the dude cares a damn of others she THINKS THE WORLD OF HOW OTHERS WOULD SEE HER...REVEALING AND HANDLING THE PRENUP AND REASONS DRIVING TO IT WILL TO SOME EXTENT reassure... anything that is soso exquisite is unnerving just as the roses ...unnerves the iyers...she is an iyer by Nature a romantic at heart a quasi liberal( with selective amnesia) in her thinking...a bit confused...the Dude is a guy who cares a damn about things ...he consciously is civil and gentlemanly and very aware not to say or do things that hurts his II...a change that marriage has brought in him...She can never be as cool as him
To him it didnt matter the iyer man and clone resent him...likewise he hates the Ninja but he adores his II and those she loves deserve respect...he stays for dinner despite II saying lets go as he was aware of the reason and wanted her to realise i care a damn:)

Posted: 6 years ago
swathy I HATE APPA AND BALA AS WELL  
Posted: 6 years ago
swathy I HATE APPA AND BALA AS WELL  i  do not find their wilful behaviour to II and the Dude and  careless/ indifferent handling of Akka and shravu acceptable...
Posted: 6 years ago
Originally posted by moonwearer


swathy I HATE APPA AND BALA AS WELL  i  do not find their wilful behaviour to II and the Dude and  careless/ indifferent handling of Akka and shravu acceptable...
I thought I would never hear this about Bala... I had read a bunch of comments terming Bala's recent post Shatabdi behavior as bechara middle class man.. Which to me is all BS.. He sounded like male version of Niruppa Roy! Bechari garib vidhwa maa kindsLOL
Posted: 6 years ago
Hitched in exchange for coffee

She couldnt change into any new saree because the designer creations had custom blouses that wont get delivered for weeks
she wore  a mango/yellow outfit, with a carbon blue chudidar with fine bead work over the yoke.
After throwing up and after a shower, he had bought her mango sorbet at Emporio, she only ate half, he ate the other half making faces

"this is probably going to trigger ur nausea" he muttered "Its too sour"

"I wanted it (she nodded)I think I shouldnt give into my temptations. They never have a good outcome" she muttered
They paused trying to draw their own conclusions from such "deep thought"

"Its too expensive to throw" she mumbled

He ate it all!!!
The occupational hazard of marrying middle class, u eat something called "leftovers"


She didnt know many people, only Tan's cousin and Sam's best friend... there were a dozen other "friends" from Vasant Vihar and Panchsheel

Ranjan was missing, she hoped he would be here soon... and be safe

Unrest and resolution both had its own risks

She wandered by herself out to the front lawn, no sight of her husband

GREAT!!!!
IN A HOUSE FULL OF PEOPLE
I KNOW NOBODY
It was a strange feeling to be in Sam's house when she didnt know any of her guests

She took a glass of clear grape juice and sipped slowly

Sam's MIL accosted her at the huge sliding glass entrance to the patio

"Congrats beta" she air kissed

II nodded

"when are u due?" she asked trying to appear interested

"May"

"Ughhh bahut garmi hogi" she said dismissively

II nodded sincerely

"Sam's kids were both born in Nov or Dec" she said smugly... "My daughters have summer kids, US mein weather is so gorgeous"

WHO THINKS OF THE WEATHER IN INDIA, LADY?
IN INDIA, WHO DOES?
ARGHHH
WE ARE USUALLY GLAD TO HAVE BABIES
WEATHER IS A LUXURY OF GORAS

"I am telling Tan I am done here" "He doesnt want us to leave" she smiled all knowingly

"Phir aapko rehna chahiye" II suggested

"Sam has no time for us no... she is too busy, ghar par 4 naukar hain 4 driver hain yet she doesnt have time to sit down with us" subtly complaining

"Lasya is so quick and naughty" II smiled

"She is like Tan... I dont think Sam or her sister or her brother were naughty" Tan's mother declared, as if she knew the family 35 years ago

"U have help, atleast u dont have to do any work. which is good" she nodded

"I have time in the evenings, after my job" II reminded her

"Are u working in Gurgaon?" she asked

"KMPG" II nodded

"My son in law's neighbor is the US head for Deloitte" she said smugly

"Oh!!" II nodded

"Ya he manages the whole region, so he travels a lot... leadership positions are so painful" she continued

I WOULDNT KNOW LADY!!
I WOULDNT I WANTED TO BE A SECOND LEVEL MANAGER
IT GOT SHOT DOWN
I HAVE A BOSS NOW

"Its good u are not in leadership" she explained as if II couldnt "get her point" the first time around

"I AM... but dont head the country... YET" II said softly and firmly

Tan's mother faltered a bit... "Well ur husband travels" she said disdainfully... "He must hate Delhi"

"I havent asked" II smiled

Sam walked by hurriedly

"KIDHAR HO?"

"Umm.. I came down koi nahi tha" II explained

"arey ghar par SAU log hai, tum keh rahi ho koi nahi" Tan's mother mocked

"No aunty I dont know most people, just her best friend and Tan's cousin" Ii explained sincerely

"Oh! I get it sorry beta... all these people are from "this area" she stressed on the last two words

YES THEY ARE
NOT ONE IS FROM RKPURAM OR NETAJI NAGAR
OR SAROJINI NAGAR
OR AN IYER
I "GET IT"

"Atleast u speak Hindi... if u were from the "south" that would be a problem too" Aunty tried to be "kind"

"IKR" "HOW would I survive??!!" II mocked the lady gently

IN ENGLISH
THERE!!!
HOPE "YOU" GET IT!!
ARGHHH!!!
RAKSHASAN!!
I AM ROASTING U TONIGHT FOR LEAVING ME
I AM HAVING TO FIGHT TAN'S MOM'S PREJUDICES

She sighed audibly, being led by Sam

I GUESS SERVES ME RIGHT
FOR SUBJECTING YOU TO APPA FOR 3 HOURS LAST NIGHT

She felt tears behind her eyeballs

AYYYO!!!
WHATEVER!!!

"MERI MIL se kya baat kar rahi thi?" Sam whispered

"She found me" II mumbled

"I cant run away... u have a choice" Sam squeezed her hand warmly

"I am sorry" II nodded

"Bura mat maan na please... ur Hindi is fabulous" Sam said cheerfully

"Apne bhai ko batayengi aap" II teased back

"Woh tumhe chhedta hai?"
II nodded

IRUKKU DA ONAKKU
RUK JAO TUM
YESSS
SAM LOOKS LIKE WILL BELIEVE ANY JACK SHIT I FEED HER
PAAVAM SAM
TOO CUTE

II chuckled mischievously


Much of the younger crowd was by the swings in the back yard

she grabbed the mike from the DJ and announced

"Can I PLEASE have you all quieten down?" she shrieked

The people turned to look at her
Including her Rakshasan
Holding fat Lasya

Lasya made a sad face upon seeing Mommy
Her face was covered in pink goo from a popsicle she was sucking on

"THIS IS MY SIS IN LAW"

"Hi! bolo sabko" Sam hissed
Like II was a 3 year old

"SAMMM" II hissed

"Mera naam nahi jaan... APNA naam kaho" Sam teased into the mike

She held the mike under II's nose

AYYYO!!!
MENTAL FAMILY!!
WHAT DID I EVER SEE IN THEM

The crowd cheered

The ones that were in the front row of the semi circle gushed "OMG she is SO QUIET"

REALLY?
HOW DO U KNOW?
U GUYS ARE MAD!!!

Sam shook as she controlled her laugh

"II" II mumbled

"Aye aye?" a youngish 20 something asked flirtatiously

"Ishita Iyer... I guess Bhalla now" she mumbled
The video guy the cameras the lights all zooming in on her

"TELL THEM HOW YOU MET MY BROTHER"

"Sammm" II shrieked HOLDING THE MIKE

The crowd cheered noisly

"Dekho mujhe DEEDEE nahi bulaati..." Sam nudged leaning over to talk into her mike

To a watcher/gawker II looked LOVELY in the expensive designer outfit and rice pearl jhumkas and the long Iyer braid, and the pearl nose ing

"I did... I do... I offered" II went on the defensive

"THATS boring... batao how you met R&B" sam urged

Ranjan wandered  "Yeh kahani to humne nahi suni kabhi" he spoke on another mike

"Daddd" II scolded firmly

"Batao batao puttar jee" he urged

"umm... we worked on a project"

"Booo" went the crowd indicating how "Exciting" THAT was

"We did... I did..." she nodded

She looked at the dude

He looked smug... she could see the glitter in those eyes from 30 feet away

RAKSHASAN!!
ONN IDEA VA DA IDU (UR IDEA?)
TO PUT ME UNDER SPOT LIGHT

I AM GOING TO MAKE U COME HERE AND SAY STUFF
PATHUKKO
(WAIT AND WATCH)

"I worked on the 7th... I work on the 7th... I do" II was nervous and fumbling

"and he worked on the 20th" she said

"Really?" Sam asked mocking

"I MEANT... he worked in Excelsior" II explained  "Sam please" she begged

"Achha theek hai kaho" Sam backed off


"I was, incharge of deployment... I am... I mean.. I am... of TransPro, a transaction processing SW, KMPG's first foray into home build  accounting tool" she explained confidently

"LOVE STORY"  a rowdy guy cupped his hands and yelled

"YEAH!!!! LOVE STORY LOVE STORY!! LOVE STORY!!" the audience echoed

"Umm.. we planned a phased deployment" II ignored the calls and continued on the trajectory of explaining SW DEPLOYMENT

Sam grabbed the mike "I am going to turn this off now"

The crowd roared

Sam handed it to her with a warning look

"Umm.. There is a coffee shop on the 5th floor on Spectrum, I go there for my... umm... every morning I go there...  (mumbling)
(she connected her gaze with the husband, He leaned on a lamp post arms across his chest Tan held the sticky baby now)
(looking down at her feet, her mike literally shaking) I usually buy a coffee... I go to the Daily Perk...
he paid for coffee and I tried to return the money"

"and he took you instead?" asked the rowdy chap, she nodded face flaming

sam hugged her eventually and Ranjan did too

Sam didnt announce the baby thankfully

"AND NOW THE SINGER IN MY FAMILY IS GOING TO ENTHRALL US WITH HER LOVELY VOICE"

Ii begged "I already enthralled with my speech"

"NAHI GAANA" sam ordered

II cleared her throat, checked her shruti, and began to sing

"saawan ke jhoole padey
Tum chaley aao"
Posted: 6 years ago
He looked smug... she could see the glitter in those eyes from 30 feet away

RAKSHASAN!!
ONN IDEA VA DA IDU (UR IDEA?)
TO PUT ME UNDER SPOT LIGHT

I AM GOING TO MAKE U COME HERE AND SAY STUFF
PATHUKKO
(WAIT AND WATCH)


ROFL ROFL

She didn't tell the Monet first encounter...
Dude is enjoying her discomfort to the maximum...

Super Super...

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