Originally posted by Nisha0604
Kalpana
Very poignant note
While I sympathize with the young man unfortunately unable to "take his side"
I feel "paavam" for his parents. They in their wildest nightmare could not have imagined their son talking so harshly about their upbringing of him
How cruel
I am not saying like typical Desis we should keep everything bottled up and neither do I appreciate this disgusting "honesty"There will be NO human being on earth that will care for this young man AS MUCH as his parents, I am sorry, his wife wont either. I just shared a incident from my town
The parents did what THEY thought was good for him. They lived in TRICHY. Chances are they are not "uber cool" and greedy. I have plenty of relatives in Trichy. Its a simple life. Where there is no or little money parents hope education will fill the gap
I dont think they would ever have imagined it would traumatize the young man so deeply
Tomorrow if he breaks his back "trying to be cool hiking the Yosemite" see how they fly over and waste away by his hospital bed
Its very smug and self serving of him to dismiss their earnest prayers and wishes this way
I LOVE SUJATHA
HE WAS SO REAL
Today morning, I felt a strange sense of loss after reading this.
Things got to a point where the parent had to write twice to Sujatha. Such a loss of connect
Second time around he had to call him again asking his son to call him for Deepavali.
One thought that arised in my mind is
Was he not able to make any friends and memories as such that connects him to his town.
But this is a learning that makes one reflect